In life, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult problem for us to avoid. And the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to deal with in life, as long as the way and method of handling it is not right, then it will directly lead to the breakdown of the marriage of two people. Although some people's mother-in-law contradictions in life are caused by personality reasons, there are also some people's mother-in-law contradictions, because mothers-in-law simply do not like their daughters-in-law, so they are difficult to them in life.
Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts are caused by the mother's jealousy of the daughter-in-law after the son is married.
In life, mothers have a strong possessiveness towards their sons. Therefore, after the son gets married, they will invisibly have a strong hostility towards the daughter-in-law in life. Even some mothers-in-law will act in life in order to provoke the relationship between their sons and daughters-in-law, and such a practice will directly destroy their sons' marriages.
Recently, in life, Li Yingjia's marriage was ruined because of her mother-in-law's acting skills.
The mother-in-law is jealous
Li Yingjia and her husband Qiao Dongmai are college classmates, the two were together when they were in college, and Qiao Dongmai also took Li Yingjia to his home during college. And Li Yingjia and Qiao Dongmai's mother and sister get along very well, and Qiao Dongmai also joked that li Yingjia would never have a mother-in-law contradiction after marrying.
After the two graduated from college, Qiao Dongmai soon proposed to Li Yingjia, and Li Yingjia did not hesitate to agree to Qiao Dongmai's marriage proposal. After the two were married, the two lived with Qiao Dongmai's mother and sister.
Because the relationship between Qiao Dongmai and Li Yingjia has always been very good, even after marriage. And after Li Yingjia married, she is also filial to her mother-in-law, and will bring small gifts to her mother-in-law every three to five years, and Li Yingjia and her sister-in-law Qiao Dongya get along very well, and there is no so-called sister-in-law contradiction between the two people, just like sisters.
However, after Qiao Dongmai got married, he neglected his mother in his life because he was also very busy with his usual work, and Qiao Dongmai's mother attributed all of her son's negligence to her daughter-in-law. She felt that it was because of the arrival of her daughter-in-law and herself that she stole her son's care and love, so in life, her attitude towards Li Yingjia became worse and worse.
Soon, Li Yingjia was in the middle of her life and felt the change in her mother-in-law's attitude towards herself. But she did not know the reason for the change in her mother-in-law's attitude. In order to restore the relationship between herself and her mother-in-law to the way it was before, Li Yingjia also did her best to please her mother-in-law in her life, but her practice did not change her mother-in-law's attitude.
This led to the divorce of the two
Qiao Dongya naturally noticed the change in her mother's attitude, and she did not know why her mother suddenly had such a big change in her attitude towards her sister-in-law, not only in life because of some small things to get angry with her sister-in-law, but also often said bad things about her sister-in-law in front of her brother. Although there were several times when Qiao Dongya wanted to tell his brother about this matter. But she didn't want to ruin the relationship between her mother and brother, so she never said anything about it. But what Qiao Dongya did not expect was that it was because of his silence that it led to the end of the marriage between his brother and sister-in-law.
Li Yingjia and her mother-in-law completely fell out because she discovered her mother-in-law's superb acting skills. Because although the mother-in-law's attitude towards herself has become more and more bad, after all, for Li Yingjia, the mother-in-law is also an elder, so in life, Li Yingjia has always been very respectful of her mother-in-law. However, in the end, Li Yingjia's marriage also ended under the superb acting skills of her mother-in-law.
After the mother-in-law was not satisfied with Li Yingjia, she would often deliberately harass Li Yingjia when there were only two people in private, and in front of her son, she was very afraid of Li Yingjia, which also made Qiao Dongmai start to be very dissatisfied with his wife.
After Li Yingjia returned home from work that day, due to physical discomfort, she directly returned to the room and lay down. But Li Yingjia just lay down, the mother-in-law came in to let her go out to cook, no matter what Li Yingjia said, the mother-in-law did not spare Li Yingjia must let Li Yingjia go out to cook.
There was no way for Li Yingjia to go to the kitchen groggy, and her mother-in-law kept scolding her and saying that she was pretending to be ill, and Li Yingjia finally couldn't help but choose to break out. But it is very coincidental that Qiao Dongmai went home at this time, after seeing her son go home, Qiao Dongmai's mother simply sat down on the ground and began to cry, after seeing such a scene, Qiao Dongmai was also very angry, and directly accused his wife, which also made Li Yingjia completely unbearable, so she directly filed a divorce with her husband.
After the divorce of the two people, when Li Yingjia came back to pack up her things and move, she directly gave her mother-in-law a trophy of her own custom drama mother-in-law, and then left the house with her own things without any nostalgia.
Discover the truth
After her sister-in-law and brother divorced, Qiao Dongya's heart has always been very unstable, because she knows what her mother usually does to her sister-in-law when her brother is away. And she also felt very remorseful because she didn't tell her brother about it. So shortly after the two divorced, Qiao Dongya, under the torment of his heart, still told his brother his mother's true attitude towards his sister-in-law.
After listening to his sister's words, Qiao Dongmai also knew that he blamed his wife, so he also regretted the divorce, not only that, he also had some anger and complaints about his mother. At this time, he knew why his wife gave his mother such a trophy when she divorced, and now that he knew the truth, and then thinking back to his wife's practice at that time, Qiao Dongmai couldn't help but sigh: "I should also send one."
After knowing the true face of his mother and the truth of his wife's divorce from himself, Qiao Dongmai was completely disappointed in his mother, so he directly rented a house and moved out of his own home, after seeing his son's approach, Qiao Dongmai's mother also felt very regretful, but now everything has become a foregone conclusion, and there is no way to make up for it.
In life, women's jealousy and possessiveness are actually very strong. No matter what age they are, or what status they have become, such feelings exist. Therefore, we can often see a lot of mother-in-law contradictions in life, which are due to the mother-in-law's jealousy of the daughter-in-law. But in fact, such things are difficult to avoid, because every woman has her own jealousy. We can't control the jealousy of others, and naturally there is no way to avoid the resulting mother-in-law contradictions.
And such a mother-in-law contradiction will generally lead to the end of the marriage of two people. But once the marriage of two people is over, will the son who knows the truth of the end of the marriage still have a harmonious relationship with his mother? I think the answer must be no. So as a mother, after her son enters marriage, you must learn to let go. Because everyone's marriage needs to be managed by themselves, if the parents interfere too much, then married life will lose its meaning.
As a mother, after her son is married, you must not interfere too much in the small family of the two of them. Because once you meddle too much, it will only backfire. It may even cause the son's marriage to be shattered. As a mother-in-law, you should consider the problem from the perspective of your daughter-in-law. Because mother-in-law is slowly transformed from daughter-in-law. It is reasonable to say that the mother-in-law should understand the situation and mood of the daughter-in-law. Then in this case, it is even more important not to overly harass the daughter-in-law in life.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in life, after the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occurs, we must learn to think from the perspective of the other party, so that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become easier to solve.
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