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The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi

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The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, but seven of the eight children were missing, and only the old seven Zhang Chengyi stood by the bed. He invited his sisters to come, but they were repeatedly refused. Why did Zhang Chengyi's brothers and sisters do this? Who should be the parents of the Zhang family to retire to the end?

Zhang Chengyi is 42 years old, the seventh oldest in the family, and his parents are taken care of by him. What made him angry was that today was his mother's eightieth birthday, and the sisters hurried to the door and left, and the brother did not come to the door.

Now Zhang Chengyi's mother is deteriorating and unable to move, and the 86-year-old father is unable to take care of himself, but in four years, the other sisters have disappeared.

In addition to taking care of his sick parents, Zhang Chengyi also has to take care of his nephews and nieces left behind after the death of his youngest brother, carefully educated, and now his niece is 15 years old and obedient, while his 14-year-old nephew has broken his heart.

Not only is the nephew difficult to manage, Zhang Chengyi's own two children are still young, four children plus two elderly people who cannot take care of themselves, and now he has to take care of six people, and the money earned by his wife working outside the home is the only source of income for this family.

The burden of life left him with no other way, he did not understand, the eldest brother's home is less than a hundred meters away, why the eldest brother never takes care of his parents.

The reporter accompanied Zhang Chengyi to the eldest brother's house Zhang Chenglin, and as soon as he saw Zhang Chengyi, his sister-in-law rushed out and loudly accused Zhang Chengyi, and there seemed to be a lot of resentment towards him between words.

The eldest sister-in-law took out a chat record, when Zhang Chengyi himself said in the neighbor group that he had taken a bank card with his mother of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan in it. But Zhang Chengyi said that this chat record was a deliberate anti-statement.

Zhang Chenglin said that the two brothers once had a big dispute over the birthday party for their father, and in his eyes, the younger brother not only ran amok, but also loved to show others in filial piety. He then revealed the real reason for his dissatisfaction with his parents.

It turned out that there was a contradiction between Zhang Chenglin and his father, who had a field but refused to give it to him to cultivate, but instead handed it over to others to plant, and in his eyes he became an outsider, while his brother and parents were the family.

Zhang Chengyi said that his brother had beaten his father, while Zhang Chenglin said that he destroyed the field in a fit of anger, was threatened by his father, and smashed the door of his own home, and the relationship between father and son broke down.

The next day the reporter came to Zhang Chengyi's home, he said that the doctor had just come, the mother's physical condition deteriorated again, she had basically lost consciousness, and there was still an unfinished wish in the heart of the old man, Zhang Chengyi decided to go to his sisters for consultation.

As soon as she saw Zhang Chengyi, the eldest sister began to speak for her brother, expressing her dissatisfaction with the eldest brother, she could understand that it was not easy for her brother to take care of her parents and children, but they all already had their own families, the conditions were not good, and they had to go out to work, and they really had no ability to support.

Speaking of the past, the eldest sister excitedly said that in the process of their growth, their parents did their best for the eldest brother to go to middle school, but he did not even go to primary school, and went out to work early to earn money.

Zhang Chengyi said that he can understand the grievances that his sisters have suffered in this family, and he does not intend to force his sisters to share, as a child, his parents have always given care and support to his eldest brother, but the eldest brother has not returned the favor.

In the past four years, only the eldest sister and the third sister of the sisters have occasionally taken care of their mothers, and now although they cannot support their younger brother financially, they are willing to take care of them.

The fourth sister is only one year older than Zhang Chengyi and is the farthest married, in the face of her brother's accusations and demands, she said that she was powerless, and they did not dare to intervene in the contradictions between the brothers.

The reporter explained his mother's current situation to Zhang Chenglin, but he has been running away. Under the persuasion of the reporter, he agreed to meet with his mother first and then discuss the issue of maintenance, but Zhang Chengyi did not agree.

In Zhang Chengyi's heart, the eldest brother was not qualified to meet his mother for the last time, and hearing such words, Zhang Chenglin angrily returned home and closed the door.

Neighbors said that Zhang Chengyi and his wife took good care of the elderly, and at the same time they had to take care of the children, which was very hard, and they could see their busy figures every day, and they also said that they had never seen Zhang Chenglin come to visit after moving to the new house.

In this regard, the government staff mediated from it, which is a family affair, hoping that the brothers can sit together. They realized that they should not be dependent on their parents for trivial matters, so they made an agreement.

The agreement stipulates that the two brothers Zhang Chenglin and Zhang Chengyi take turns to support their parents for a one-year limit, and the two sides promised not to consider the past differences and would not hurt their families on this ground, but just before signing, Zhang Chenglin suddenly repented and asked for changes.

It is gratifying that Zhang Chenglin is not to shirk responsibility, but to make a new decision, after the death of his mother, his father will be taken care of by his new home, until the end of the pension, the younger brother is not responsible. The two sides signed and agreed.

Zhang Chenglin said that the reason why he chose this way is to consider his brother's current situation, his brother is still young, and he hopes that his brother can earn money outside and no longer have to worry about his parents at all times.

Zhang Chengyi said that during the mediation process, the eldest brother finally denied that he had previously said that he had taken away his parents' property, which made him feel very pleased.

The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi
The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi
The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi
The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi
The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi
The Zhang family had eight sisters, three sons, and five daughters, but on the day of their mother's eightieth birthday, their mother's life was in danger, and seven of the eight children were missing, only the old seven Zhang Chengyi

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