On January 17, in Songyuan, Jilin Province, I saw the name of a shop on the street called "Dissuading the Three to Remarry", and I was stunned, but it was to persuade the third party to help remarry.
The owner said: The fee ranges from 20,000 to 70,000, and there is a 70% success rate. It's not 100% possible, about two-thirds of the chances, if you don't succeed, you can return all the money.
The owner finally said: There is also a higher fee consulting model, without having to come forward, the store is responsible for the overall matter to help users solve the problem.
Someone expressed doubt: "Is there even this profession?" "Is it moral to maintain a marriage that has died, and will we be happy when we are reunited?"
So what specific business will this store offer?
The main business is to save the marriage of the husband and wife on the verge of breaking down, the second is to dissuade the third party that may exist in life to allow the marriage in crisis to continue, and the third is to help the customer who has divorced and wants to remarry after the divorce to help the customer to fight for the remarriage.
Personally, I think this shop is valuable, because a large part of divorced people actually regret it, so I support this shop. Of course, the premise is that the shop owner is responsible for the other party's marriage, and not only for profit.
In fact, when a marriage is on the verge of collapse, it is often very irrational for two people. If there was someone at the time who could make you think calmly or create a chance for you to get back together, I think there are some marriages that can be salvaged. After all, it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a relative, and divorce makes people heartbroken.
Marriage is a very complex social relationship, what happens in the marriage, how to solve it better, whether to divorce and remarry, first of all, the husband and wife need to determine themselves, if the solution to the problem is simply commercialized, it is better to solve it through the help of family and friends, the help of the women's federation, and the frank communication between the husband and wife.
So how to dissuade the three and remarry?
In contemporary society, the phenomenon of little three appears more and more frequently in life, and in the face of little three, many women are not rational in handling.
After many women become wives, they think that having children can represent stability in life, and without making any efforts, home represents stability. But when you know that your husband is having an affair, Xiao San still arrogantly provokes contradictions with you, and unfortunately you actually fell into the trap of Xiao San.
You unreservedly show your ugliest side and want to maintain the marriage, but Xiao San looks for your husband to help with a pitiful look, and your husband not only chooses to help her but also hates you even more. At this time, your heart will be how cold, so the woman's promotion of herself is the most important and the most critical.
In addition, it depends on whether the feelings of the two people are still there? If he still loves you and you love him, then the marriage can go on and you can choose to keep the relationship.
Teach you a few tricks to dissuade the three and save the marriage.
First of all, you need to strengthen your heart and have the courage to face marriage. It is a woman who does not want to encounter such a thing as her husband cheating, but things are not satisfactory, in the face of her husband's cheating, it is indeed a difficult thing to do not cry or make trouble, and not to be afraid of danger.
To know that this is a battle, first out of control, first cowardice means that half of the loss, one of the reasons why Xiao San will be arrogant is that the original match is too weak, but a powerful woman often uses wisdom to win with calmness, they know that complaining and crying will often complete Xiao San, and a woman who can beat Xiao San's weak ribs is the woman that Xiao San is most afraid of, which requires her husband's assets to be firmly held in his hands and not to give Xiao San a chance.
It is also necessary to improve personal charm and complete the secondary attraction Of the second time, many people will be angry and unwilling when facing their partner's cheating, and they will feel that they have paid a lot but the other party does not cherish it. In this mood, the woman will tearfully accuse the other party and ask the other party to return to the family. But such an approach often increases the psychological pressure of the other party and makes him want to run away from the family.
The most correct approach is to reduce your emotional needs, look at the matter rationally, and propose reasonable solutions. When you do, he will change his mind about you and defuse his negative perception of you.
He would think: It turns out that my wife is so sensible and loves me so much. Not only did she not beat me and scold me, but she was able to calmly discuss our emotional problems with me. When he thinks so, your image has been reversed, and the empathy that Xiao San has is no longer an advantage.
Of course, you also need to do self-improvement in all aspects, reshape your charm, and re-attract him. Let him know that there are still many bright spots in your body, and giving him a sense of freshness can stimulate his desire to conquer you.
How to remarry is also a clever way, such as letting men feel the warmth of the family, for a man with a sense of responsibility for the family, the connotation of home is more profound.
From the current social reality, most men still bear relatively more important responsibilities, of course, they are more tired.
As a wife, you should give thoughtfulness, care and understanding, so that men can feel the warmth and happiness of the family. Figure out the main contradiction between their feelings, women are too high-minded, do not know how to deal with people, so there will be a situation of discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Some people pay too little in their feelings, blindly let their husbands pay, and never be satisfied, and men are also under pressure. There are also some people who can't play all day and don't enter the marriage state at all. There are also personalities that are too strong, never give men face, or cannot give men proper physical and mental care, and so on.
With these methods and all of them done, do you still need to spend 100,000 yuan to find this shop that dissuaded Xiao San to help remarry?
Love needs to be managed, marriage is more dependent on management, you say?
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