This, men are excellent, women send their own doors, I don't know if everyone agrees or not? Women are excellent, and men choose to avoid. For individuals, marriage is a warm harbor. Everyone's energy is limited, and men and women who work first will indeed delay their marriage because of their careers. After a certain age, it is true that the mood and insight are also different, and it is more difficult. To put it bluntly, finding a lover requires early action. Being single is also an option, just not enjoying it. Each has its pros and cons, just think about it yourself.
Self-discipline and self-motivated, do not indulge themselves, study hard, value human feelings, and strive to take responsibility. Such people are lonely and lonely, and they are also outstanding. Most of them have successful careers and are happier after marriage. Give what you get. People who work hard will always be happier and luckier than those who don't work hard.
People are people in social relations, too egotistical, seemingly taking advantage, but in fact they will suffer losses. Practice is something you have to do all your life. The business model is nothing more than an appearance, and it is necessary to do what is appropriate for this period at different times.
Women's view of mate selection is biased. Women always look up, asking for a grade stronger than themselves, the general conditions to find good conditions, good conditions to find excellent conditions, so that many excellent men are selected by good or even ordinary women, so many excellent women are single, very men find boyfriends.
Humans are also one of the animals, in fact, it can be seen from animal mate selection that this is very normal. The females of animals would also rather find a male than a loser. Of course, there are exceptions, that is, when animal cubs are difficult to keep, animals are also monogamous, because they need to be together to raise children, but they also choose winners.
Marriage is a kind of social production relations, its emergence is compatible with the productive forces of an era, the productive forces of our time have developed to this level, that is, the social division of labor as the author says is becoming more and more refined, and the inheritance of the 4 marriage system as a production relationship is bound to be challenged, so it is not surprising that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and the non-marriage rate is getting higher and higher, because this is also matched with the development of the productive forces of this era.
Now, the cost of marriage is huge, it is a high-end luxury, it cannot be exchanged at all, it cannot be traded, it cannot be bought and sold, not only a million yuan house, a car of hundreds of thousands of yuan, a deposit of millions of yuan, but in people's hearts, people's psychological pressure is too great. Because emotional love is a priceless treasure, no wealth can buy it.
A person should meet the standards in everything. Graft when grafted, sow when sown, flower when flowering, bear fruit when fruit. At the same time, it satisfies social attributes and obeys the laws of nature! Since you are not married, how do you know that your future marriage is not beautiful, and you cannot listen to the marital status of others to decide your future choices. Why is it that the better people are, the harder it is to get married? The truth is so profound! The more excellent people, the more difficult it is to meet the right marriage partner Importantly: the common situation now is that men are not short of sex, and women are not short of money. There is no shortage of women around excellent men, and excellent women can also support themselves. No one person in this world is obligated to be loyal to another. In this era, all human loyalty is evolving loyalty to value. The increasing number of single young people shows that humanity has been liberated, and we no longer have to regard marriage smoke as a task that must be completed.
Now many girls do not choose to get married, many excellent girls, whether they work hard, or go to work, are excellent, take care of themselves no problem, leisure time can also go to travel, fitness, study! As for children, filial piety in the future is better to say, if not filial piety, it is better to have than not! Moreover, marriage, if you find a self-motivated, hard-working person is fine, if, before marriage disguise, after marriage is indeed a nibbling old family, after the end of the still feel that they are very cattle, and then come to a wine to encourage people's guts, the girl's income before marriage is enough to enjoy life, if the choice is wrong, their monthly expenses, but also to reduce, buy one, but also by the in-laws to say, do not know the savings! Wait, encounter this! It's better to live comfortably by yourself!
Ordinary people's married life is originally mutual will be, excellent people soul chicken soup drink more, feel that the beautiful marriage life should not have a trivial mutual thing, but the ideal of the other half of themselves do not know where to find, from ancient times to the present there are many two-love good marriage, but there is no perfect daily married life!
An excellent man can marry a good woman who is right in the door, the woman is pregnant and childbearing, the child is of course with the man's surname, but an excellent woman can marry an excellent man with the right door, the woman is pregnant with the man's childbearing, the child is with the woman's surname? Think too much. Simply not. Even the man does not need to get pregnant. So why do good men have women around them, and good women have no men around them. For men and women with good conditions, the dowry of the garage is not a thing. Not all families with good conditions are sons. The only son of a wealthy family marries a daughter-in-law, who is pregnant and child-rearing. If you have gains, the only daughter of a rich family is married to a pregnant child or she, there is no income, and she herself is not short of money. So what does she figure out!