Text/An Dongyue
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The relationship between people is close to each other, far and near. Whether it is family, friendship and love, this is the case.
It is said that blood is thicker than water, but even relatives who are related by blood may not all be close, and there are always some subjective or objective reasons that slowly dilute family affection.
It is said that friendship lasts forever, but even friends who grew up together may not be intimate, and time and distance may also make two people drift apart.
It is said that true love is eternal, but even two people who truly love each other may not be able to come together, and the story of having no fate and shallow love is staged every day.
In this life, I have met many people, but the closest people will always be only a few. They are both your lifelong concern and your eternal harbor.
In fact, the people close to you are not in the number, but in whether they can give you warmth and strength.
Life, too many unsatisfactory things, if no one can give you warmth, give you strength, everything depends on yourself, it will be too lonely, too difficult.
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The closest person should cherish it as much as possible. But it's not only the closest person who is closest to you to give you warmth.
Some people, not close or distant, are not close, but they can give you a different kind of warmth.
Just like she and he, once had a sincere relationship, only the cause was not enough, could not come together, so they began a new life, nearly ten years without contact, but they never forgot each other.
Later, by chance, the two people re-added their contact information, which became the most special existence in each other's address book.
They were all busy, busy with work, busy with life, not chatting very often, just occasional greetings, and talking a few words in a hurry.
They are no longer lovers and will not be friends. Friends can at least get together in good faith, but they can't.
In their hearts, there is always a place for the other, just in a very small corner.
Their relationship, not close or distant, not close, but can give each other a different kind of warmth.
In fact, people who have truly loved each other, reunited after a few years, can really keep in touch without getting close, warm to each other and not affect each other, the key is to see whether the two people are open in their hearts, gentle and compassionate.
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Many people think that no matter how unforgettable they were, after separation, they should be completely disconnected, and only by breaking the connection can they be put down.
In fact, if it was really unforgettable, then even if the connection is broken, it is impossible to put it down.
Anything that can be put down is not unforgettable.
Sometimes, you think you've let go, but it's just an illusion, maybe because you're too busy or tired of a lot of heavy things, and don't have the extra time and energy to remember and miss.
When you really idle and calm down, you will still inadvertently think of the past and remember the past.
Maybe it's hearing a song, maybe it's seeing a sentence, and you're so defenselessly wrapped up in memories.
If you can, in a special way, keep in touch, not far away, just a way to know each other's news, it is also a great comfort.
After all, it was someone who had once been unforgettable and beloved, how could he be willing to completely break off the connection?
Unfortunately, after many lovers are separated, even if they can't put it down in their hearts, they don't have the opportunity to contact again, and they can only be alone and miss silently.
There is a relationship, not far away, warm into the heart. You know I miss you, and I know you haven't forgotten me. In this way, it is the greatest comfort.
You don't have to contact often, and if you say a greeting once in a while, you can be happy for a long time.
Not far away, warm into the heart. Do you have such a relationship?