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Some people say that the desire to share is the most able to test the authenticity of the relationship between two people, or to see whether the other party is interested in you, of course, this can also test whether you like each other.
When you take the initiative to share what you think is interesting, or your true thoughts, to the other party, there is a high probability that you like the other party, otherwise you will only feel that it is a waste of time. But if you don't get a response, it may really be that the other party has no feelings for you, not because of any busyness or other excuses that did not reply to you.
If you don't die, keep lying to yourself that it's because the other person is really busy at work, and then continue to share your life, you may end up blocking the other person.
When he doesn't like you, your sharing is a kind of interruption for him, which will make the other party feel disgusted. And the other party blocked you, he didn't feel any relationship, and even felt happy and relaxed, because he solved a big problem by himself.
As for the set of stubborn and tough sharing in the TV series, it is recommended that you just look at it, don't take it seriously. When you really are, you lose.
Yuan Xiangqin likes Jiang Naoki, that kind of crazy tough sharing and related love, and finally succeeds, it can only appear in TV series, and almost no one likes silly white sweet in real life.
Now the girls are not stupid, if there is really Yuan Xiangqin chasing Jiang Naoki that momentum, it is better to use it to make money, that early eight generations of children became rich women.
Probably some people will still say that Yuan Xiangqin's strategy of chasing Jiang Naoki can also be used to learn: first of all, enter the life of the other party everywhere, keep sharing, keep brushing the sense of existence, and then withdraw from the other party's life after getting used to his own existence. At this time, the other party will realize that he actually likes us. In that case, love wouldn't be!
Not only Yuan Xiangqin, but also many love films are this routine, which is enough to prove that this routine is feasible.
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Can we stop making fools of everyone else?
Don't believe you try, still want to brush the sense of existence? It is estimated that it did not brush for two days to die prematurely, and it was blacked out. If there is a case of success, it can only be said that the other party likes you, so you succeed.
As for why the TV series is acted like this, it is all for the perfection and enthusiasm of the story, otherwise the Radio, Film and Television Bureau may ban broadcasting.
In fact, the TV series simply tells us not to give up on everything and continue to insist, because there will always be a dawn waiting for us after experiencing darkness. But waiting for our dawn is not necessarily the light of love, but also the light of wealth.
Therefore, the matter of sharing desire and love is actually very simple.
Someone responded, and that was love.
If no one responds, then don't drill the horns. Be cheerful, don't miss the love that really belongs to you because of this horn tip.
Author: Nian Xiaowu (WeChat public account: Nian Xiaowu), a writer who wanders in Shanghai and does not play cards according to the routine.