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There was a popular saying on the Internet before, "Don't look at how much money the other party gives you, but look at how much of all the money the other party gives you." ”
In fact, it is about love, looking at your weight in the other person's heart, or using this to measure how much the other party cares about you.
If the other person only has ten dollars and he gives you 9 dollars, there is no doubt that it is certified as true love.
If the other party has tens of millions of assets, but only gives you 500,000, then it goes without saying more, this love will have to hit a question mark.
There are also people on the Internet who ask such a question: if a girl meets two boys, one gives her 9 yuan and one gives her 500,000. Which do you think she will choose?
In fact, in this question, 9 yuan represents love, 500,000 represents reality, so the more appropriate way to ask is, hey, girls, do you choose love or reality?
In my opinion, this kind of problem itself has little meaning, or that someone kidnaps girls in the name of love. Of course, it's not because I'm a woman that I say this, and I don't deny that some girls in today's society really worship gold.
It doesn't matter if a boy really only has $10 in the beginning, after all, all of us have no way to decide where we come from, and when we're young, we may really only have 10 dollars at most.
When a boy gives 9 dollars out of his only 10 dollars to the girl, this can also explain the boy's love for the girl in one way.
And the girl, if she is willing to accept the 9 dollars, it is estimated that she really loves the boy and is willing to believe the boy.
But there is one thing that should not be ignored but is often overlooked, that is, how long is the ability to have 10 yuan? If it's three years, five years, or even ten years, I don't think there's a problem. The most terrifying thing is that this lifetime is the ability of 10 dollars.
If the girl gives up on the boy after three or five years, I don't think the boy should kidnap the girl with any so-called love.
"Snobbery", "love money"... It's not necessary. After all, when you only had 10 yuan, the girl also accepted you. She gave you a chance, and you didn't cherish it, and you can only blame yourself.
The fundamental reason why a girl gives up on a boy is that she can't see the love that a boy gives.
Love is not as simple as I only have 10 yuan to give you 9 yuan, love should be continuous, it should be positive, and it is constantly working hard to make the other person have a better life. Of course, in the process of this effort, girls should also work together with boys to create love.
Author: Nian Xiaowu (WeChat public account: Nian Xiaowu), a writer who wanders in Shanghai and does not play cards according to the routine.
After all, love itself is mutual, and one-sided love is always unsustainable.
If at the beginning the girl did not accept the 9 yuan given by the boy, but accepted the 500,000 yuan given by others, then I think the boy should not use "love money" and "reality" to evaluate and denigrate the girl.
On the one hand, the girl really doesn't like you, and if you have to lick and don't hug the beauty in the end, then you can't blame others.
On the other hand, if the girl really chooses the other party's 500,000, then she should be glad that she was not selected, because today she chose the other party for 500,000, and tomorrow it is possible to choose someone else for 1 million.
In the face of such girls, the response to them is not a painless label of "worshiping gold" and "loving money", because this is not only useless, but also particularly lowers their own quality. The best response should be to tell the other person with your own efforts and achievements that "it's you, not me!" ”
Life is still very realistic, some people value love, there will be people who value reality, there is no right or wrong.
Moreover, love is not only measured by money. Not all of the 9 dollars is true love, and the 500,000 yuan is not true love.
Love is not temporary, but long-lasting.
After countless days and nights of getting along, I believe that everyone can feel whether both sides really love themselves.
The sun and the moon reincarnate, love, see details.
[Author: Nian Xiaowu (WeChat public account: Nian Xiaowu), a writer who wanders to Shanghai and does not play cards according to the routine. 】