01
"Only by hiding your love for you can we be together." It is sung in the song.
In this world, there are too many feelings to be laid out in a fair and bright way.
People have to hide this untimely feeling.
I had to be with my beloved as a friend.
No matter how much you love, when facing him, you must also learn to "hide".
Some people may ask, why hide it?
So, you might as well ask Lu Xinghe in "The Best of Us".
Ask him about his mood and thoughts after seeing Geng Geng and Yu Huai.
Ask him what he could do to stand by Geng Geng's side if he didn't hide.
Or, you might as well ask Meng Yun in "Former Raiders".
Ask him why he would rather shout "I love you" on the street than make a phone call to confess.
Some people, when they can't go back, cherish the present.
Some feelings, can not find that know how to hide.
Therefore, no matter how much you love someone, as long as the other person is not the right person, you must remember to hide your feelings.
Not to be discovered by others, not to be discovered by the world.
02
If you're in love with your best friend, what choice do you have to make?
Here, I advise you to hide your feelings.
Two people can spend many days as friends, but still have no idea of agreeing.
Then it's easy to know that this relationship may be wishful thinking.
Sometimes, relationships don't have to be together to continue.
Going down as a friend is also a good choice.
Instead of losing a good friend, it is better to be at ease with him.
Jia Jia and Ling Long are green plum bamboo horses, and what Jia Jia does not know is that Ling Long has always had a crush on her.
Ling Long's likes may only be known to him.
Because he would rather hide his feelings and always accompany Jiajia.
Being together as friends may be a lifetime.
But such an approach will not make him regret it.
After all, wishful thinking can not get good results, and hiding your feelings can be exchanged for eternal companionship.
Therefore, no matter how much you love, the moment you know how to hide your feelings is true love.
03
If you fall in love with someone with a family, how do you choose?
Whether to express your own thoughts and elope with the other party, or to hide your feelings and digest them silently.
I think the latter is a better option.
In the TV series "Mischievous Kiss 2", Yuan Xiangqin and Jiang Naoki finally got married.
But Ah Jin is still the Ah Jin who loves Yuan Xiangqin, and his feelings can be seen by clear-eyed people.
However, Akin did not make any excessive moves.
He chose to hide his feelings, silently accompanied Yuan Xiangqin, and became her trustworthy and reliable person.
However, in real life, how many people can control their feelings?
Many people love is love, regardless of each other's family and feelings, only want to express love.
Their so-called love is nothing more than a moment of possession, and competitive satisfaction.
A person who truly loves each other should be sober and transparent.
Especially after falling in love with someone who has a family, he will understand even more: it is time to keep his distance.
True love should not be selfish, but should be for the sake of the other party and consideration.
Just like in the movie "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years";
Shen Jiayi, whom Ke Jingteng loves, has become someone else's bride, and he has only sent sincere blessings.
This gentleman's act is not that he does not love;
Rather, as he said in his heart, "True love is not about being together." ”
04
People want to have love, which is a normal idea.
But love should be about meeting the right person at the right time.
With him, you don't have to be scared, you don't have to be afraid of losing.
Two people love each other, there is no burden, such love is really worthy of themselves.
Then in the face of those inappropriate loves, people must understand the content.
It is enough to be with each other and be commensurate with the relationship of friends, so why have other ideas.
You know, when you encounter inappropriate feelings, forced together, in the end, it will only become a disaster.
No matter how much you love someone, it is only temporary.
Inappropriate love is like inappropriate clothing.
Even if you can tuck yourself in, you will feel uncomfortable sooner or later.
So, you will choose to leave, then even the friendship relationship is gone, it is really lost.
I like my girlfriend's boyfriend every year, and I am really sorry for my girlfriend and myself.
However, year after year is not expressed.
In the process of getting along, she clearly and deliberately stays away from each other, allowing herself to remain independent and sober.
It is also this kind of practice that makes her slowly dilute her feelings and make her slowly get better.
Therefore, no matter who can get out of a relationship that does not belong to them.
When you get better and better, you can get better feelings.
All in all, feelings are not a one-man affair, and everything should not be too willful.
If you want to fight a relationship with each other, if you win, you will be together, and if you don't win, you will lose forever.
Such an approach is not the essence of love, but selfish possession.
In the face of inappropriate feelings, no matter how much love, we must know how to hide and restrain, and know how to be a contented and cherished person.