Mom's love is ordinary
Ordinary to the point of being full of eyes are their own children
Mom's love is great
Great enough to hope that all children will never be hurt again
On May 5th, in the launching ceremony of the 2022 Hubei Provincial "Red Cross Fraternity Week" activity sponsored by the Hubei Provincial Red Cross Society and Hubei Radio and Television Station and the sixth "Love Lights Red Cross Story Collection", the story of "Cruel Mother" Kang Wei moved everyone, what kind of mother is she? What was done again? Changjiang Cloud Public Welfare launched a special report to tell the story of Kang Kai, let's take a look at it together...
The loss of a loved one twice
A mom's grief
Because it's Mom,
So in order to save you, I have no remorse. ”
In September 2014, in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, the Kang family was delighted to welcome their daughter Rui Rui, but unfortunately, Rui Rui was diagnosed with congenital biliary atresia level 3 only six days after birth, which eventually developed into a lethal disease of liver failure, disrupting the family's peaceful life, and they took Rui Rui to the big hospitals in Beijing and Shanghai, trying to save Rui Rui in his infancy at all costs.
Rui Rui
During the treatment, Kang Kai learned that part of her liver could be transplanted to Rui Rui, and she did not hesitate to decide to cut the liver to save the daughter, "Because I am your mother, so I have no remorse to save you." For this reason, suffering from mild fatty liver disease, she endured the hunger during lactation, exercised dieting, and went all out, and a few months later, the doctor successfully transplanted 1/5 of her liver into Rui Rui's body, but a few days after the operation, Rui Rui had serious complications, and they finally failed to keep the eight-month-old child.
After a long period of psychological reconstruction, Kang Kai slowly regained her confidence in life, and two years later, her second daughter JiaJia was born, and she poured all her love into Jia Jia, carefully cared for, and let Jia Jia spend more than four years of happy time.
Jiajia
Who expected, fate once again gave Kang Kai a fatal blow, on January 25, 2021, Jia jia was diagnosed with "diffuse glioma". Jiajia's condition deteriorated rapidly, and after trying a variety of treatment methods, her body still deteriorated, and she gradually fell into a deep coma, and the doctor issued a critical illness notice.
On April 13, Kang Kai and his wife lay down in front of Jiajia's bed to make a final farewell, "You out of the bun, I out of the hammer, you win, you scratch daddy's nose again, okay?" "Jiajia, my mother can't bear you, I can't bear you..."
Witness the loss of life
A mom's empathy
Because it's Mom,
So empathy is so real. ”
In the process of treating his two daughters, Kang Kai traveled to major hospitals and saw many children who were also tormented by illness. In the process of Rui Rui's hospitalization, she looked at a child in the next bed who also needed liver transplantation, because her parents had hepatitis and could not carry out transplants, and could not find other suitable liver sources, after waiting painfully in the hospital for a year, she regrettably left this world. "It was a little boy of about five years old, very cute, alas..." Years later, Kang Kai still can't forget his appearance.
She also met Xiangyang's fellow villagers in the hospital, but the difference is that the children of the fellow villagers were lucky enough to wait for the life-saving liver, the transplant surgery was also successful, and the children re-lived a healthy life. The contrast between the two made Kang Kai feel deeply, and also made her realize the importance of organ donation for the continuation of life.
Jiajia in the process of treatment
During Jiajia's hospitalization, Kang Kai joined the patient's family group. In the group, everyone cheered each other up, and the behavior of the group owner shocked and moved everyone - after the group leader's child died due to ineffective disease treatment, the group owner chose to donate organs to save others. This incident touched Kang Kai again, and the poor appearance of the children and the anxious figures of the parents who had seen them all lingered in her mind, because they were all mothers, so Kang Kai felt so real with empathy.
Endure pain and donate for love
A mom's choice
Because it's Mom,
So I don't want other children to be tortured. ”
The kind Kang Kai made the same great choice every time. When her first daughter left, a heartbroken Kang kai donated the child's body to the hospital, hoping that medical progress would be a little faster and that no family would suffer the same pain.
When Jiajia's life was in danger, Kang Kaiqiang endured grief and discussed with his family: "If the baby's life really can't be saved, I want to donate the child's organs." My daughter is so cute that she usually likes to help others, can we let her help others one last time? After getting the understanding of his family, Kang Kai took the initiative to contact the OPO staff of Tongji Hospital and consulted about organ donation.
Although the heart to help others is firm, but Kang Kai also worried, in the last few days of Jia Jia's life, four-year-old she needed to live alone in the ICU, can not accompany kang kai heartache, but after Jia Jia's death, the doctor told Kang Kai that Jia Jia's organs are very healthy and can help others, Kang Kai was relieved.
The liver, kidney and eye mask donated by Jiajia have been successfully transplanted and function normally, saving the lives of 1 child with liver failure and 2 children with kidney failure, and helping 2 people to see the light again. Because of the regulations, Kang Kai could not know who they were, but after hearing the doctor say that they had been cured and everything was fine, Kang Kai told himself: "This is enough."
At home, Kang Kai often looks at her daughter's photos and says: "Mom misses you very much, Mom is sorry for you, she didn't give you a good body, let you go through such a short life in the world", Kang Kai said that she often dreams of Jia Jia, in her dreams she is sorry for Jia Jia, but Jia Jia always smiles sweetly at her, she thinks, the children must also support her.
According to the data, the country every year about 300,000 people wait for organ transplantation, only less than 20,000 people have the opportunity to get donation, there is a huge gap in organ donation and clinical needs, many people regret to die in the bitter waiting, we pay tribute to Kang Kai and many people who are as great as her, it is they with selfless love, bringing hope of life to more patients.
The greatest love in the world
There is no more than maternal love
From small love to big love
Kang Kai with action
It interprets the holiness and greatness of maternal love
All around us
There are many great mothers like Kang Kai
On this special day
Let's do it together
Salute to the great motherly love
Sources of Information
Yangtze River Cloud Client