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Source 丨Chochai Academy (ID: kanchaishuyuan)
In 2001, a special pregnant woman came to Beijing Maternity Hospital. The pregnant woman, Wang Cuiying, is 35 years old and comes from Cangzhou, Hebei Province.
It is said that it was found that she was pregnant with quadruplets, because the medical level of her hometown was limited, so I came to a large hospital for examination and wanted to do fetal reduction surgery to reduce the number of fetuses.
I didn't expect the results of the examination, but I was surprised. The doctor said to Wang Cuiying and his wife: "You have quintuplets in your belly, and one is too small to hide behind." ”
I wanted to reduce it, but I didn't expect to have one more, and Wang Cuiying was "stupid" on the spot.
The doctor went on to say:
"The best time for a fetal reduction surgery is 11 weeks, and you've missed the time and can't operate.
The chance of conceiving a quintuplet is only one in 60 million, and the survival rate is extremely low, and There are no successful cases in China. So, you're likely to have a natural miscarriage. ”
However, in the end, all five children were born safely, and they were later selected as the Olympic "Fuwa".
So, what did Wang Cuiying experience in the process of raising her children? After 20 years, how has she and her children been?
01
Wang Cuiying and her husband, Bao Cun, were both born in the countryside. Working in the same place, through the introduction of people, they married, and after marriage, they gave birth to an eldest daughter named Ning Ning.
Although the family is not rich, but two people pull a child, life is still quite passable.
At the age of 34, Wang Cuiying had abdominal edema surgery.
A month after the operation, I went to the follow-up clinic as required, and it was this time that I returned to the hospital for examination and learned that I was unexpectedly pregnant.
Considering the postoperative physical problems and using a lot of drugs, Wang Cuiying was afraid of having an impact on the child, so Wang Cuiying did not intend to have this child at first.
However, the doctor told her that she was pregnant with multiple babies, and the children were healthy, and she could consider going to a big hospital for fetal reduction surgery.
In fact, what worries Wang Cuiying the most is that there are so many children, where is the money to raise?
But as soon as he heard the doctor say that the child was very good, Wang Cuiying was reluctant to beat them all.
So she consulted with her husband:
"Then go to Beijing University Hospital and leave at least one child." Don't you just have a tight life, two more jobs, or enough to support. ”
The couple then traveled to Beijing Maternity Hospital, hoping to seek help.
The result of the examination was quintuplets, and it was impossible to do fetal reduction surgery, which caught the couple off guard and could only hope for a natural flow.
Five months passed, six months passed, and I watched Wang Cuiying's stomach get bigger and bigger, but there was no sign of miscarriage.
The child is growing up healthily, but Wang Cuiying reacts during pregnancy and suffers a lot.
Pregnant women need to eat well, drink well, and rest well, but she is the opposite.
Because there are too many children in the womb, squeezing the stomach, eating a little thing feels very supportive, she can't eat at all.
I have never slept in a stable sleep, I can't sleep on my knees, I can only rest on my knees, in order not to press my stomach, my two arms have to be supported, and I need to change my posture in a few minutes.
Throughout the pregnancy, Wang Cuiying was very hard and difficult.
By the time of seven months, Wang Cuiying's big belly could not hold her hands.
The heart is pressed, breathing is held to the point of difficulty breathing, the uterus is propped up as thin as a piece of paper, and it will bleed heavily at any time, and adults and children are in danger at all times.
So, on the recommendation of the hospital, she underwent a caesarean section.
In order to ensure the smooth progress of the operation, the hospital carefully prepared five surgical teams.
On March 4, 2002, Wang Cuiying's five children came to the human world one after another, two men and three women, and China's first fully surviving quintuplet was born.
Everyone present could not help but sigh: this is really a miracle of life.
02
Wang Cuiying's pregnancy and childbirth process is tantamount to walking before the ghost door closes.
She survived all the difficulties before she immersed herself in the happiness of being a glorious mother, but before long, the children had problems one after another.
Because they are multiple births, the children are born small, and they are born prematurely, so they are sent to the incubator for care as soon as they are born.
First, the second year of life suffered from colitis. This disease occurred in such a small premature baby under the medical level conditions at that time, which was very serious.
The doctor told Liu Cuiying and his wife that the child lived for up to 6 hours, and even if the operation was successful, there would be sequelae in the future, which may be an abnormal child.
At this time, Wang Cuiying was very different from his previous ideas.
Since coming to her, it was a gift of life given to her by Heaven, and none of these children could be less.
The weak Wang Cuiying lay on the hospital bed and said to her husband: "We must save the second elder."
Perhaps heaven took pity on this mother's difficulty and decided to take care of these weak lives, and the second brother was very lucky, the operation was successful, and there was no problem left.
Subsequently, the jaundice of the third elder and the heart problem of the fourth elder all improved one after another. Several of the children survived the storm without any difficulties.
When Wang Cuiying named her children, she had a "Fu" in her name, hiding all her beautiful expectations in their names, hoping that they would all be blessed people in the future.
03
It is not easy to have a child, it is even more difficult to raise a child, and after the safe birth, the difficulties of Wang Cuiying's family have just begun.
Because the family is not rich, a series of expenses for giving birth to a child cost more than 100,000 yuan, and the family's life is even more stretched. Pieced together, still heavily indebted.
Fortunately, Wang Cuiying has attracted the attention of major media since she became pregnant.
After the media reported on her family's difficulties, many well-wishers donated money to help them survive the difficulties temporarily.
However, the process of raising children with hard work still depends on themselves.
Just breastfeeding made Wang Cuiying miserable. Milk is fed every two hours, and the first one is just finished, followed by the second one.
After all five children had finished feeding, before they could rest for a while, the children were crying again and had to start the next round of feeding.
The children are small, they all look similar, sometimes they are busy, some have not eaten, and some have eaten milk twice.
At the end of the day, Wang Cuiying couldn't do anything.
The couple has never slept peacefully, drowning in the cries of the children every day.
There was really no way, so I had to ask my family to help take care of the children.
The eldest was carried away by the grandmother, the fifth was carried away by the grandmother, and then the aunt took the third, while the weakest second and the fourth, who were not good, stayed by Wang Cuiying's side and personally took care of them.
The children were taken away during the day and sent back at night.
In this way, the husband and wife finally breathed a little relief.
But there are many children, Wang Cuiying's breast milk is obviously not enough, can only give children to drink milk powder, which undoubtedly adds a lot of money.
After the child is full moon, the couple will make a total and let the husband pay the treasure to go south to work and support the family.
In this way, in order to raise 5 children who are waiting to be fed, Wang Cuiying's family of eight began a long-term life of separation from each other for more than ten years.
When the children are about to go to kindergarten, Wang Cuiying is going to Beijing to work and earn money, and she resolutely takes the children with her and takes care of them alone.
Every morning, she rides a tricycle with five children to kindergarten, and after settling the children, she goes to do cleaning work.
At that time, they could only earn 400 yuan a month, and in addition to the 200 yuan rent, the rest was the living expenses of the six of them.
Kindergarten teachers will always praise the quintuplets for eating well, not wasting food, and eating clean every time.
Wang Cuiying listened, but her heart was uncomfortable, she knew that the children had never eaten anything good since childhood, and the lunch in the kindergarten was a delicacy.
In order to make up for the children, in his spare time, Wang Cuiying will also pick up some waste products, sell them for money, and buy a lollipop for the children to eat, the children are very content and eat very happily.
Wang Cuiying felt that since she had chosen to give birth to them, she would be responsible for them to the end.
When she thinks of her five children, she is full of strength, and it is worth it to be tired.
The children are also very happy every day, where the mother is, where is the happiest place.
04
In 2008, on the day of the children's sixth birthday, they ushered in the most precious gift of their lives.
The Beijing Olympic Organizing Committee came to the kindergarten where the quintuplets were located, invited the children to participate in the torch relay ceremony, and also awarded the children ribbons and certificates, calling them the youngest "Olympic messengers".
In fact, when the Mascot "Five Fuwa" of the Beijing Olympic Games appeared before, Wang Cuiying exclaimed:
This is also too coincidental, isn't it my family's five children, also with a "Fu" word!
Unexpectedly, such a good thing really found the door, and her five children became a live-action version of "Fuwa".
After this glory, the children received more attention from the society and received more love.
The children's kindergarten, primary school, and junior high school fees are all free, which invisibly reduces a lot of Wang Cuiying's burden.
She pays special attention to the education of her children, in addition to learning, she also trains them to learn musical instruments and forms a small band.
In 2016, the whole family participated in "Mamma Mia", and the children specially played "Listen to Mom" for her. Watching the children's performances, Wang Cuiying's wrinkled eyes were full of happiness.
When Wang Cuiying talked about the past experience of conceiving, having children, and bringing children in the show, she was understated and smiled lightly.
It seems that all the difficulties, in front of the sensible children, seem insignificant.
The host asked the children what dreams they have in the future? They blushed and said:
"Thanks to the hard work of my mothers for so many years, I hope that my father can return to their side as soon as possible, and I hope that I can grow up quickly and take care of my parents."
Venus sighed at the children:
"Life cannot be smooth sailing, in the face of tribulations, we must persist, persistence will have hope!"
When the family ran in the direction of "hope", suddenly fate and Wang Cuiying made a big joke.
After participating in the program for a year, her husband Bao Cun was overworked for a long time and died of illness.
The roof of the family suddenly disappeared, leaving the family in trouble again.
Wang Cuiying did not even dare to have too much grief, because a bunch of children in the family still had to rely on her, and she could only endure sadness, desperately trying to make money and support the children.
It's not easy for a woman to raise a child, let alone five?
Wang Cuiying's hardships can be imagined.
The children watched their mother work so hard and had the idea of dropping out of school.
Wang Cuiying resolutely opposed, sternly telling the children:
You must read to be able to make a difference, which is also Dad's wish. Money things, Mom will figure out a way.
Seeing that their mothers were so determined, the children made up their minds to study well. They also held a meeting together, and they had to do housework in the future to reduce the burden on their mother.
Once, Wang Cuiying was busy after a busy day, and when she returned home, she saw that the children had made meals and were waiting for her.
She wanted to save her children more food, so she lied that she had eaten outside and went to sleep tired.
Who knew that when she woke up, she found that the children had deliberately cooked meals for her to eat. It turned out that the children had long known that she had not eaten at all.
Tears of forbearance came out of his eyes at that moment. Wang Cuiying felt that no matter how hard it was, it was worth it, and she decided to do her best to raise her five children.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
Wang Cuiying is an ordinary woman, but she uses all her strength in the identity of her mother.
05
Because there is no Beijing hukou, in 2017, when the children were in high school, they returned to Hebei to study, while Wang Cuiying continued to stay in Beijing to work and earn money, and the eldest sister Ning Ning also worked outside the home for many years to supplement the family.
The children each have only three hundred yuan per month for living expenses, and when it comes to meals, several children eat together in the school canteen, each buying a steamed bun and playing a dish, saying that eating this way saves money.
Because of malnutrition, the children were hungry and thin, but they always told their mothers on the phone that the money was enough to spend.
Later, the school learned about their situation and helped them apply for a subsidy, and they were able to eat a full meal.
The eldest of the quintuplets is a girl named Fuqing, who inherited her mother's shrewdness and ability to arrange the family in an orderly manner.
Every morning, Fuqing is responsible for calling his brothers and sisters to get up and arrange for everyone to do housework and study.
The small house of more than thirty square meters was stuffed with beds and books, but it was neatly packed.
During the epidemic, they stayed in this hut to take online classes together and supervise each other.
During the online class, five children need five mobile phones, which makes Wang Cuiying very difficult.
At this time, the boss Fuqing told her mother that she did not have to worry, she found a few old mobile phones from relatives and friends around her, and cobbled together them into a "new" mobile phone.
Although it is stuttered, the younger siblings feel very satisfied that they can take online classes normally.
It is gratifying that although the conditions are difficult, when the college entrance examination results were announced in July 2020, the other four children of the quintuplets, except for the second eldest, all crossed the Hebei undergraduate score line.
This made Wang Cuiying close her mouth happily, but then she worried about the high tuition fees.
The children naturally guessed their mother's troubles, and the fifth elder ran to Beijing, found a job as a security guard, paid four thousand, and took the lead in earning tuition.
Brothers and sisters are not far behind, waiters, cashiers, craftsmen...
All kinds of odd jobs, the opportunity to make money is not missed, they decided to use the summer vacation time to earn tuition, so that their mother can also relax.
Although life is hard, the five children have never complained, but live seriously and are full of gratitude, which is also Wang Cuiying's greatest satisfaction and pride.
06
Those who said "how to feed so many children" now say that Wang Cuiying is bitter and willing to enjoy happiness.
However, after so many years, what is suffering and what is happiness is not so important to Wang Cuiying, she only wants her children to grow up faster and repay all the people in society who care about and help them.
The tiredness, bitterness and sorrow of raising five children were all accepted by her, and she was willing to eat them all.
But she didn't want the children to taste these human tastes.
Because to this day, she still wipes her tears and says:
"If I had to choose again, I wouldn't want one, because I suffered and suffered with them, and I didn't let them live a good life."
But in the eyes of the children, she is the greatest mother, within her ability, giving them the most love, and they never regret being her child.
Some people say that before a child is born, he will pick his mother in heaven.
If according to this statement, Wang Cuiying can be selected by five children at the same time, it must be because of her kindness and strength.
For the first half of her life, she did not have a good day for the sake of her children. In the second half of life, the grown-up children will inevitably return all their love to her.
Because in 20 years, she has taught children what responsibility and love are with actions.
At the end of the article, I click "Watching" and praise this strong mother!
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