01 Unexpectedly ushering in 5 twins, is it a happy event or a tribulation?
In 2001, Wang Cuiying, an ordinary woman in Hebei Province, underwent surgery for abdominal edema, and a month later she went to a follow-up clinic and accidentally found herself pregnant.
At that time, she already had a daughter, for this second child, the couple wanted but did not dare to ask, because there were drugs before, plus just underwent surgery is still recovering, afraid of affecting the fetus.
So at first they didn't want to keep the baby, but during the examination, the doctor told her that she was pregnant with multiple babies and that if she didn't want that much, she could have a reduced fetus.
The couple is very worried, if there is an abortion operation, Wang Cuiying's body is already weak, so there is no small harm.
It is better to let the doctor see how the child looks when the time comes, and if it is healthy, you can also consider staying.
Later, when she went to the hospital for a maternity examination, the doctor told Wang Cuiying that she was pregnant with quadruplets.
This is quite rare in the whole country, and the couple is also surprised, but considering the physical condition and economic conditions, the doctor also recommended that they go to the big hospital in Beijing to reduce the fetus.
They went, and upon examination it was found that it was not quadruplets at all, but quintuplets, one of which was too small to hide behind.
The couple was even more dazed.
Reduce the fetus, do not want to, after all, are their own flesh and blood, minus no one can do it.
If not, the miscarriage rate of multiple births is extremely high, and so far there is no precedent for all quintuplets in China to survive.
The couple decided to reduce the fetus after weighing all parties, but the doctor told her that the fetus had been formed and could not be miscarried, and they could only wait for them to miscarry naturally.
The chance of conceiving a quintuplet is one in 60 million, and the survival rate is extremely low, and since surgery is not possible, it is necessary to follow natural abortions such as the natural law of survival of the fittest.
But month after month passed, Wang Cuiying's stomach was getting bigger and bigger, but there was no sign of miscarriage.
At this time, Wang Cuiying was worried, the natural abortion did not flow, and induction of labor was impossible.
But the long pregnancy process was too painful, because the abdomen was too large and the weight soared to more than 150 pounds.
As long as she stood up, her pubic coccyx was particularly painful, her spine was also compressed, her stomach was squeezed, she couldn't eat, and she couldn't sleep well, especially in the third trimester, and her huge stomach displaced all her internal organs.
By the time she was seven months old, her belly was so big that she couldn't hold her hands.
At the same time, she often felt breathless and breathless, and considering the health of the fetus and the safety of the mother's life, the hospital decided to perform a caesarean section on her.
This is the first case of cethard birth in China, and in order to ensure that the operation is foolproof, the hospital has carefully prepared five surgical teams to prepare for emergencies.
Fortunately, the operation was quite successful, the adults and children were safe, and two men, three women and five children were born smoothly.
Wang Cuiying, who had walked away at the ghost gate, and the doctors jointly created this medical miracle.
02 The children were born smoothly, and the long march began
Because the children were born prematurely and were too light-weighted, they were sent to the incubator as soon as they were born.
Originally thought that after unloading the goods, it would be easier, but I did not expect that the children were born not long ago, and they were in a succession of situations.
First of all, the second had colitis on the fifth day, and the doctor told her that the disease occurred in premature babies quite dangerously, and if there was no timely operation, the child could live for up to six hours.
Wang Cuiying, who is still in the hospital and has not yet recovered, is frightened again, but as a mother, she has survived all the difficulties of pregnancy and survived the pain of childbirth, at this time, no matter what, we must strive for every opportunity to save the child.
Therefore, she said to her husband next to her, she must save the second brother and let him hurry up for surgery.
Fortunately, God is merciful, the second son's surgery is quite successful, and he is out of danger after doing it.
However, before Wang Cuiying and his wife could catch their breath, the third elder over there had jaundice again, and the fourth elder's heart also had a problem, which was shocking, and the couple's heart was hit again and again.
Fortunately, every time there is no danger, under the treatment of the doctor, the danger is turned into a disaster.
After some time, both the adult and the child were discharged from the hospital, and when they gave the child a birth certificate, the couple included all their love and wishes in their names.
The five children are named Fuqing, Fusen, Fuli, Fuxin, Fuyuan, and parents hope that their children will be healthy and happy and can become blessed people in the future.
Now that the child has been born, this is the beginning of the long march, and the feeding of the next five children has a long way to go.
First of all, feeding, even if the milk is sufficient, it is impossible to meet the five mouths at once, not to mention that because the five children's feeding time is inconsistent, the mother basically has no rest time, so that the fatigue is excessive, and the milk production is even less.
Speaking of raising, it is difficult for the family to bring five children to the battle, and one child will wake up other children when crying, so that the family is drowned out by the cries of children all day long.
Not to mention that the couple can't sleep soundly, and even the family can't get a good rest, not to mention that the family can't make money without labor.
Children definitely want to eat milk powder, but milk powder money has to be earned, the original family is not rich, because before adults and children to do surgery, spent more than 100,000, has long been stretched in debt.
At this time, if you don't go out to make money, I'm afraid you won't be able to feed these children, and there is really no way, you can only ask your grandfather to tell your grandmother, and let the old people in the family take the children.
Therefore, the child's grandmother is responsible for taking care of the eldest, the child's grandmother is responsible for the fifth, and then the aunt is responsible for the third, and the weaker second and fourth are personally taken care of by Wang Cuiying and his wife.
This greatly reduces the pressure on the two, but it is difficult to continue to live without money.
03 Forced by life, the family is separated from each other
In order to support the family, Wang Cuiying's husband, Bao Cun, decided to go south to work and earn money.
This walk is 10 years, the family has been separated for ten years and rarely reunited, and life is forced to accept reality.
Fortunately, living in the countryside, some things can be saved, but even then life is still difficult, plus children will have to go to school and various expenses later.
With this in mind, when the children were almost able to go to kindergarten, Wang Cuiying took them to Beijing to work and earn money.
Just like this, while taking care of the children, while doing cleaning, a few hundred yuan a month, except for the rent, there is very little left.
Taking into account their family's special situation, the kindergarten has reduced some tuition fees, plus the husband's part-time salary, and the family can barely make ends meet.
Several children are very well-behaved and sensible, so that Wang Cuiying can also worry less.
Kindergarten teachers often praised several of them for eating clean and never wasting food.
Hearing such praise, Wang Cuiying was extremely sad, she knew that it was because the children were hungry, and because the food in the kindergarten was much better than at home.
Even if it is difficult for a mother to suffer, she cannot see her children suffering, but five children, no matter what they buy, are five parts, even if they buy the cheapest toys and snacks, it is not a small expense.
In order to give the children some small surprises from time to time, Wang Cuiying will use the time after work to pick up scraps, and then exchange money to buy them lollipops, and the children are very happy every time.
In the blink of an eye, the children are six years old, 2008 is the year when Beijing hosted the Olympic Games, and the five children were fortunately invited by the Olympic Organizing Committee to participate in the torch relay ceremony because of their special and just in line with the setting of 5 Fuwa.
As if it were the fate of the underworld, the names of the five children all carried the word "Fu" and became a veritable Fuwa. The children were also quite happy that day, dressed uniformly, dressed quite festively, and jumped on the runway.
Since then, the staff has also issued them with ribbons and certificates, and it is this appearance that has made more people pay attention to the five children and their families.
There are well-meaning people who are willing to help them and bear the cost of children from kindergarten to junior high school, which greatly reduces the pressure on Wang Cuiying and his wife.
Seeing so many kind people in the society pay attention to and help them, Wang Cuiying is particularly touched, in order not to live up to the cultivation of society, she made up her mind, no matter how hard it is, we must educate the children well and let them become useful people to society.
In addition to learning, she also develops their strengths, such as letting them learn musical instruments and dance.
Although in this way, Wang Cuiying is more tired, but it is all worth it for the sake of the child.
In 2016, five children participated in the show "Mamma Mia", and they used their learning expertise to play a song "Listen to Mom" on stage.
After the performance, the host asked them what their biggest wish was?
Their answer is not to want to eat a big meal, wear beautiful clothes, and go to the amusement park to play, but to grow up quickly, so that Mom and Dad will not be so hard and the family can be reunited.
These words moved the people present, and Wang Cuiying and his wife were also moved to tears.
If there are children like this, why should the husband ask for it?
Although it is full of hardships to bring up children, there is also a lot of joy and happiness.
After that, someone contacted them and wanted to help them, but Wang Cuiying refused, and now that the children are older and can do a lot of things, this time they must let them support themselves.
04 The hemp rope is only broken in the small place, and the bad luck only finds a bitter fate
Just when life is getting better and better, more and more hopeful, the wheel of fate has taken a sharp turn, and there have been great changes in the family.
Wang Cuiying's husband, Bao Baocun, died because of long-term overwork and overwork, and he died at the age of fifty.
This bad news brought great grief and blow to the whole family, and life suddenly fell into a rather difficult situation.
In order to share the burden for their mothers, the sensible children expressed that they wanted to drop out of school and go out to earn money to study for other siblings, but Wang Cuiying severely stopped them.
As long as she is there, she can hold up a piece of the sky for the children, no one can drop out of school, and their good grades are the best reward for her.
But there is a point, usually at home to actively do housework, to make money by her to find a way.
The sensible children nodded their heads one after another, in order to save money, a few of them often dealt with a few steamed buns at a meal, and other expenses could be saved.
When they got home, they all scrambled to do the housework, making meals and waiting for their mothers to return.
With such a sensible and filial piety of five children, life is bitter, Wang Cuiying's heart is also sweet.
Fortunately, there is a big sister at home who can help her mother, and she has been working outside for many years, trying to earn money to study for her younger siblings.
Together with the grants that the school has applied for for them, 5 people can complete their studies.
In this way, year after year, the children slipped away in doing housework, writing homework, supervising each other, and working hard.
Fast forward to 2020, they ushered in the first key moment in their lives - the college entrance examination.
The results of the college entrance examination were announced, and four of the five children passed the undergraduate score line, and Wang Cuiying smiled and closed her mouth.
But then we faced a new problem, that is, the problem of tuition fees.
College tuition is not low, even if a person is 5,000, it will cost tens of thousands, not to mention living expenses.
But by this time the children had grown up, and they immediately said that they would use the summer vacation time to go out to work to earn tuition, as long as they could make money, whether it was as a security guard, a waiter, a cashier, or a craftsman, they were willing to do it.
Write at the end:
Everyone thought that Wang Cuiying had finally survived and was waiting for happiness as hard as he could, and they all expressed their envy.
When the reporter interviewed her, Wang Cuiying said:
If I could choose again, I wouldn't want any of these five children.
The others were puzzled and asked her why?
At this time, she wiped her tears and said:
I'm incompetent, what good is it for the children to suffer with me? Didn't let them have a good day.
But for children, their parents are the best parents in the world, they do their best to create better conditions for their children.
They are great and worthy of respect.
She deserves to be loved, and when the children grow up in the future, Wang Cuiying will also usher in her happy old age.
The five children and their mother, Wang Cuiying, are each other's blessings.