Every child should give her mother a big hug on her birthday, because on this day every mother came through the ghost door.
The birth of a new life, let a woman turn into a mother, and her life has since changed, doing everything is to give priority to their children, even if they are bitter and do not want to see their children affected, it seems that every parent is like this, but do they regret doing so?
Twenty years ago, after Wang Cuiying came out of the hospital, she was surprised and happy, happy that she was pregnant, but then there was worry, because the doctor told her that she was pregnant with quadruplets, which was a great risk.
After the family learned of this news, the mood is also a little complicated, in order to ensure the safety of the mother and the child, they decided to go to the Beijing Hospital for another examination, but did not expect that the last examination was not very thorough, a child was blocked, not found, so Wang Cuiying is pregnant with quintuplets.
However, before they could react, the doctor said another sentence that made the family very distressed: the survival rate of quintuplets was very low, and there was no precedent for quintuplet survival in China before.
Quintuplets themselves are a very rare phenomenon, which will cause a great burden on the body of pregnant women, and if they have to be born, the mother may be life-threatening, so it is generally necessary to do fetal reduction surgery. However, the child was more than three months old at the time, and the best time had been missed, and the doctor reminded them that it might be five months before there would be a spontaneous abortion.
The quintuplets brought great inconvenience to Wang Cuiying's actions, and she could not even sleep normally, but fortunately there were no other problems.
In order to prevent other accidents, the family sent Wang Cuiying to the hospital early, but the local hospital did not dare to accept the pregnant woman, traveled to many places, and finally found a hospital in Beijing. Wang Cuiying is about to come to the pot, the doctors in the hospital are waiting for a strict line, and a special action team has been set up, and when Wang Cuiying was pushed into the operating room, everyone's heart was lifted, fortunately, everything went well.
All five children were born smoothly, but the next situation did not develop in a good direction, because the five children were premature babies, the body was very weak, on the fifth day, the second child had colitis, the doctor said after examination that the child may only have six hours of life left, need to operate as soon as possible, but even if the operation is successful, the child can not live like other normal people.
Such a thing is not acceptable for any mother, the child's father is also very anxious, let the doctor hurry to do the operation, must keep the child, may not want to see the new father and mother of the small two sad, the situation has become better, the child's operation is very successful, and there are no sequelae.
After the children are safe, we also know the names of the children: Fuqing, Fusen, Fuli, Fuxin, Fuyuan. Taking care of five children is very difficult for the little two, really a day of peaceful sleep has not slept, and one began to cry, all of them followed.
In the end, everyone in the family came to help, grandma and grandmother came together, and sister-in-law also came to help, so that the difficulties in the early stage were overcome, but new troubles came again. How to raise five children?
Originally, the life of this family was not bad, there was a deposit life was quite moist, but after the birth of five children, they instantly carried more than 200,000 arrears, and in order to let the children and his wife live a good life, they went to the south to work, and the family did not see each other for many years.
Some people in society heard their difficulties and reached out to help their children before going to high school. His wife, Wang Cuiying, found a cleaning job in the kindergarten where her children went, more than four hundred yuan a month, the rent at that time was two hundred, and the living expenses of six people were two hundred yuan per month. Once the old fourth passed by the bakery, has been staring at the bread drooling, Wang Cuiying looked at the price in the past, calculated that five bread is ten dollars smaller, there is heartache, but she has not spoken, the second child will drag the old fourth away: do not eat, the mother has no money. Eating is a problem, washing clothes is a problem, grades are also a problem, it seems that life is full of problems.
Her husband was earning money outside, and wang Cuiying had to do many things alone, very helpless, but there was nothing he could do. Later, when the children grew up, the pressure of being a parent was lighter, but they did not look so tired, and the 46-year-old father died of illness, and the children's faces seemed to have lost the smile of the past, and all the burdens were pressed on Wang Cuiying.
The children are in high school, everyone is very sensible, do not ask the mother for more money, although the mother will often ask them if they have enough money, let them not be too thrifty, but the children have never asked for more money, the life is tight.
In the past few years, because of special circumstances, can not normal classes, can only online classes, but there are not so many mobile phones in the home, a time let the family panic, fortunately, the boss has a way, found a lot of old mobile phones to assemble, and finally can normal classes, let the children participate in the college entrance examination normally.
[Written at the end] Wang Cuiying looked at her own several sensible children and couldn't help but shed tears of relief. But the hardships of life, so that Wang Cuiying really does not want to experience the hardships of having children again, Wang Cuiying frankly: If I choose again, I would rather not have one.
Although she said so, no matter how hard the life was, she did not give up, women are weak, and mothers are strong.
Source / Tang and Yuan Dynasties