"I'm relieved to see the kids so sensible. If I could choose again, I'd rather not have a child. Quintuplet mother Wang Cuiying said.
Perhaps when many people hear this sentence, they feel that Wang Cuiying is a little cruel. But if you understand how Wang Cuiying has spent more than 20 years, maybe you agree with her words.
In the past 19 years, Wang Cuiying has raised five children almost alone. The hardships involved, we dare not imagine. After all, it's hard enough to have one child, let alone five children.
Today, Wang Cuiying's children have grown up, how are they doing now?
Birth of quintuplets
Hospitals in Beijing attach great importance to Wang Cuiying, a special patient, because there are no cases of all quintuplets surviving in China, and if Wang Cuiying successfully gives birth this time, it will break the domestic record.
The hospital set up a special team to carefully arrange for Wang Cuiying's delivery operation. The hospital also prepared sufficient blood bags for Wang Cuiying, and once there is any danger, medical relief materials will be sent to the operating room as soon as possible.
On March 4, 2002, Wang Cuiying finally entered the operating room, she has been waiting for this day for a long time, and she is looking forward to the birth of these little babies.
Thankfully, the caesarean section went well and the quintuplets gave birth. Since the quintuplets were all premature, they were sent to an incubator as soon as they were born.
The five children weighed basically about 3 pounds, and the initial examination on the first day was very healthy, but the newborn indicators were not stable on the first day, and the follow-up doctor would check again.
Hearing the news of the safety of the mother and child, the family was very happy. However, the next reality made the family's heart hang up again.
After the fifth day of birth, the second year suffered from colitis, and the doctor concluded that the child could live for up to 6 hours, and even if he had surgery, he was likely to grow up to be an unhealthy person.
The doctor's words are like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, so that the family fell into the trough, Wang Cuiying can not accept this reality, she has worked hard to give birth to the child, how can she say give up and give up!
Cun Cunbao said to the doctor: We must operate on the second eldest, we must persist to the end, and we must not let go of a glimmer of hope. Wang Cuiying said that her children can not be left behind. In this way, the second eldest was pushed into the operating room.
Heaven took care of the family again, and the second eldest's surgery went well, and there were no sequelae.
Watching the children grow up day by day, the husband and wife gave the children names, the eldest named Fuqing, the second called Fusen, the third called Fuli, the fourth called Fuxin, and the fifth called Fuyuan. However, everyone still prefers to call them Wufuwa.
After returning from the hospital, the burden of caring for the five children fell on the couple. Wang Cuiying will be fed every two hours, and the five children take turns, often causing the children to cry because they feed the wrong baby.
Taking care of his five babies and his wife, he was so busy in the dark that he never slept soundly for an hour.
Later, the child's grandmother and grandmother also helped them. In order to take care of the family, Grandma took the eldest away, and Grandma took the fifth away.
Although there are only three children left, the couple is still very busy. Seeing this, Wang Cuiying's sister-in-law could not bear it in her heart, and she took the old third away. However, Wang Cuiying's sister-in-law also has her own life, she can only help take care of it at night, and still send the third elder back during the day.
In this way, the couple only needs to take care of two babies at night and three babies during the day. The couple was finally able to get a comfortable night's sleep.
No matter how difficult it is, you have to look forward
As the children grow up day by day, the family's savings are running out, and they even owe 200,000 foreign debts. In order to take care of the five babies, Cunbao did not have time to take care of the store business, and eventually had to close the door.
In order to support the family, Cunbao had to go out to work, and the family began to live in a different place, while the five children could only be left to Wang Cuiying's care.
As the media reported on their deeds, some well-wishers also reached out to help. An educational institution in Beijing provides free education for quintuplets in kindergartens and primary and junior high schools.
Wang Cuiying came to Beijing with her quintuplets and found a job as a cleaner near the kindergarten. The salary for the job was low, only $400, but the time was flexible and she was able to take care of the children at any time.
In order to send her children to school, Wang Cuiying bought a second-hand tricycle and rode a tricycle to send her children to school every day. However, when the child grew up, the three-wheeled station could not go down, and she could only pick up and drop off one by one.
During her time in Beijing, Wang Cuiying had a hard time, but no matter how difficult it was, she had to look forward, because she still had five children behind her.
The children are also very sensible, and when other children are playing games, they are helping their mothers pick up plastic bottles and waste. Sometimes there is a plastic bottle seen in the distance, and the children have to run over to pick it up and take it home.
Once Wang Cuiying took the children shopping, passing by a bakery, the fourth elder saw the bread inside, unconsciously swallowed the saliva, and then said: Mom, I want to eat the cake inside. Wang Cuiying saw the price on the bread, one piece of five, if one person, it was 7 pieces of 5.
7.5 yuan is the living expenses of several days for this family. Before Wang Cuiying could speak, the second eldest preemptively replied: No, my mother has no money.
This incident left a profound impact on Wang Cuiying, and she felt sorry for the children for not being able to provide them with a good material condition.
Although it is hard to live, Wang Cuiying also has to grit her teeth for her children to study. After each child's exam, Wang Cuiying always held a family meeting to analyze each person's exam situation and then praise or criticize it.
In fact, over the years, their homes have occasionally been cared for by society, and these caring people will send them all kinds of clothes, books, or musical instruments.
Whenever there was a new instrument, the children always liked to study it, and later they formed a small band and then played it to their mother. Wang Cuiying is still very strict, and whenever the children blow wrong, she always has to interrupt the reminder.
During the days when her husband was working, Wang Cuiying lived very carefully. She always told the children that she would rather let others hit them more than hit others, and other people couldn't come forward to help. Although this educational concept is wrong, this is also Wang Cuiying's helplessness, she pulls five children alone, if the children run into trouble again, she has no time to deal with it.
She also said: Sometimes I want to move a thing, but I don't have so much strength, but my husband is not around, I am not willing to ask for help, I can only think of my own way, bite my teeth, be fierce, and then tell myself that it will work.
Olympic Five Blessings
In 2005, the quintuplets were 4 years old and the family was invited to a talk show. At the scene of the program, the quintuplets respectively said the five words that Beijing welcomes you.
At this time, Beijing was preparing for the Olympic Games, and after learning of this information, He Cunbao quickly wrote a letter to the Beijing Olympic Organizing Committee, hoping that his five children would become volunteers.
After receiving the letter, the Olympic Organizing Committee attached great importance to the proposal to deposit the treasure, but it still needed to go through the process to determine the matter.
Two years later, the Olympic Organizing Committee came to the quintuplets' kindergarten and issued them with certificates and volunteer symbols, so that the quintuplets became the youngest volunteers in the Olympic Games and also participated in the torch relay.
In the process of service, because the quintuplets look very cute and have a blessing word in their names, the staff call them Wufuwa, and slowly the people of the whole country also call them Wufuwa.
His father died tragically
As time passed, the quintuplets soon grew up. In 2016, the quintuplets participated in a variety show in which the host asked them what their dreams were, and they invariably hoped that their father would return to work with them.
Indeed, my father went out to work a few months after the quintuplets, and it has been more than a decade now. For more than a decade, they have been missing their father and expecting him to live with them.
But they couldn't wait for that day any longer. In 2017, at the age of 47, he died of illness, when the children were only 15 years old.
The treasure is the pillar of the family, and suddenly there is no main bone in the family, and the family is undervalued and confused. Although Wang Cuiying's heart ached, she still had to take care of her five children, so she could only endure the grief.
In order to make a living, Wang Cuiying sent her children to high school in her hometown of Hejian and worked in Beijing to support her family. In order to save money for their mother, the quintuplets only spent 300 yuan per month on living expenses, while their classmates at that time had at least 1,000 yuan per month.
Although the quintuplets are not in the same class, they are always together every time they eat, and they often only play three meals and then five people eat together.
Sometimes, Wang Cuiying calls the children and asks them if they still have money to spend? The children always say enough is enough. The children are so frugal, I think Wang Cuiying's life is even more difficult.
I'd rather not have one
During the pandemic, children need online lessons, but they simply don't have the money to buy mobile phones. The boss is very clever, he found some discarded mobile phones from relatives, and then repaired and assembled them himself, and finally solved the problem of online lessons.
During the college entrance examination, Wang Cuiying specially asked for leave to accompany the children. Although the children have grown up and have their own ideas, she is still not at ease.
When the college entrance examination results came out, Wang Cuiying stayed up with the children, waiting to call to check the results. In the end, their results came down, respectively, 498 points, 269 points, 442 points, 448 points, and the old five participated in the single move in advance and have been admitted.
Hearing the child's score, Wang Cuiying was very happy, so many years, the children finally achieved something, and the big stone in their hearts finally fell.
However, the cost of five children going to college is not low, and Wang Cuiying is temporarily in a dilemma. The children saw their mother's difficulties and went out to look for work very sensibly.
The old five hired a job as a security guard, and the salary was 4,000 yuan per month. Several other children are also trying to find jobs, but due to the epidemic, many companies are not hiring summer jobs.
Once, the boss found a small clip for processing flowers and vines from the bulletin board of the community, such manual work recruitment information, so he went to apply, and finally the boss successfully found a job and took the manual work to the home.
In this way, the four children had a job, and under the command of the eldest, the four of them were divided into two groups. In just 2 days, they can complete a large bag of semi-finished products, and this bag of semi-finished products can earn 80 yuan.
Although the money earned is not very much, this income is tantamount to sending charcoal to this family.
Wang Cuiying was very happy to see the children so sensible, but if she was allowed to choose again, this time she would rather not have one, because the children were too bitter, and if they were born in other families, they would be much happier than now.
Now that the quintuplets have all been admitted to college and will soon be able to work, Wang Cuiying is mixed in her heart, and she will need a lot of money for her children to get married in the future, she can't stop, and she still has many tasks to complete.
This is the story of the first quintuplets in China, although their lives are very hard, they never reach out to others for help, and everything is done by themselves. Although Wang Cuiying is just an ordinary person, she is a great mother!
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