Text/Little Snow Mom
The newlyweds should choose a "good birthday auspicious day" to represent a good blessing, then the child's birth time some elderly people will also be more exquisite, choose a good day in advance to start discussing the preparation of pregnancy, so that the child can be born at a roughly time point.
Colleagues Xiaomei and her husband are college classmates, two years after graduation, they were mixed together, but just married that the couple did not choose to have children, think that they are still young and wait until the career development is better to consider, after all, the pressure of mortgage and car loans is quite large, too early to have children In the family, the economic pressure inside the family will be greater.
In the next two years, Xiaomei and her husband's career have developed to a certain extent, and the salary and treatment are also better than before, so the two people also put the birth of a child on the agenda, and for this child, Xiaomei's husband also works harder to make money and save milk powder money for the child in advance.
Everything is also very smooth, the child arrived as scheduled, the family is happy for the birth of this little guy, more coincidentally, the child was born these days, Xiaomei's husband just negotiated a big contract, can get a lot of commission.
XiaoMei praised her child as a lucky star, bringing so much good luck to her father as soon as she was born, and everyone else in the family also felt that this child was too good at being born, which was really a lucky baby.
In fact, we say that the child will choose the right birth, it is better to say that the parents will choose the time to prepare for pregnancy, but we prefer to pass this luck to the child as our best blessing for the child.
Lucky baby was born 4 times, your family accounted for several
First, when the economic conditions in the home are good
Rather than saying that when the child is born, the economic situation in the home is good, the child and the mother can enjoy the care of the confinement center or the confinement sister-in-law, can use some milk powder, infant and child products, and can not worry too much about the family expenses, it is better to say that the parents plan in advance, first engage in career regeneration, and provide a good growth environment for the birth of the child.
Parents are prepared in advance, work hard at a young age, and run the family life better, then they can plan to prepare for pregnancy and have children, and the child can enjoy a good material life as soon as he is born, and the natural little guy is also a blessed person, because his parents have worked hard to create it for him.
Second, the matter of mom and dad's harmony
Material is very important for the growth of children, but more importantly, the companionship and care of parents, lucky babies have blessed babies, parents are born with very good feelings, can take care of their own responsibilities together, can rely on each other to create the atmosphere of this home, then the child's growth atmosphere must be happy.
With the love of parents and mothers, there are things in the family that are borne together, there is no quarrel, there is no widowhood parenting, the child's personality must be plump, childhood is happy, and the heart is secure.
The conditions of the family do not represent the child's happiness, the parents' care and high-quality companionship, is the source of the child's inner strength, life can be a little worse, but the relationship and love can not be less.
Third, the reproductive age of parents is a more appropriate stage
Now there are many late marriages and late children, some people do not want children at the beginning, feel the pressure is very comfortable, but a little older, they feel that the home is too deserted, looking at other people's children are very envious and want children.
However, after the age is too large, the physical state is not at the peak, to bear a certain risk, it is not the best time for the baby, so the better time should be at the time when the couple has a more appropriate reproductive age.
At this time, women are generally between 24 and 30 years old, and men are between 30 and 35 years old, because at this stage, the physical and mental state of the husband and wife are very good, and the level of birth of children is also the highest, which is also a blessing.
Fourth, when someone in the family can help
Nowadays, most families are dual-time workers, few husbands alone can support the expenses of the whole family, and Bao Mom will return to work not long after she has a confinement, and it is best to have someone in the family who can help at this time.
Generally help with the children are the elderly, like grandparents or grandparents, for children to have the elderly to help take care of is also a blessing, in addition to liberating parents for the family to get more economic income, children can also enjoy the "generation of relatives", like I grew up without grandparents to take care of, very envious of others have grandparents, grandparents pet.
The blessings and luck of children basically come from parents and relatives, parents love their children and care about their children's growth, and strive to make money for their children's growth, which is the biggest "blessing" of children.
Interactive topic: How many of the above four time points do you have in your home?
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