Text/Moran
There are some things in life that you have to see clearly for yourself. Regardless of marriage, life is good or bad, you should understand that there are some people and things, you have to bear it yourself.
For women, don't think that marrying well solves life events, many things do not need to be worried, in fact, life's things, in the end, can be relied on by themselves.
In this world, whether your life is good or bad, your life is your own. You are lucky to meet the right person.
There is no need to complain if you can't meet it, anyway, you still have to rely on yourself in the end. Therefore, no matter whether life is good or bad, these two truths must be understood as soon as possible.
Some things always have to be borne by themselves
I believe that many people may be lucky enough to meet people who shield themselves from the wind and rain, which is impossible to compare.
But not everyone is so lucky, instead of looking forward to others, it is better to pin hopes on themselves, after all, relying on themselves is the most reliable.
Maybe you will meet a group of people who help you, and they can help you reduce your burden when you encounter problems, but some things still have to be faced and carried by yourself, and not everyone will accompany you to the end.
A person should learn the most is to be independent, to live on his own ability, and never to place too much hope in others.
You know, human nature is something that can never be predicted, and people will change.
If you blindly cling to others, you will lose the ability to be independent, and when there is no one to rely on, you will be in trouble.
Both men and women should understand that being their own sun and shining their own light can be powerful enough.
Your relatives, friends, they can only accompany you for a ride, accompany you for a lifetime, the road of life, or rely on themselves.
When you encounter problems, you must also learn to bear it yourself, when you can really be independent, it is really independent and powerful, so that nothing will beat you.
Whether or not there is someone behind you, you should move forward firmly and independently.
Some people will always drift away
We live in this world, we should get used to anyone leaving.
Everyone will always accompany you, even the closest people, they can't go to the moment to accompany. People have to learn to be alone, to adapt to parting, there will always be people who will leave, but there will also be people who will come in.
Life is originally like a train, when someone gets on the train, someone gets off, don't rely too much on a person, cherish it when you can cherish it, and bless each other when you really say goodbye.
We may have someone with you along the way, and halfway through, someone will leave, no matter how sad you are, life still has to go on.
I have to say that the relationship in the world is actually a shelf life, you can't stop a person from leaving, you can't force it, what you can do is to accept it calmly.
When you can adjust your emotions and maintain a stable mindset to face everything, no one can hurt you.
People are not the same, not a world, there is no need to force together.
No matter how good the relationship, there will be contradictions, you can't avoid it, the only thing you can do is to try to cherish, be yourself, and work hard to maintain each other's relationship.
If you have a clear conscience, there is nothing to regret.
summary:
In this life, people will encounter all kinds of people and things, and they can go all the way to each other's fate, can not accompany to the end, and there is nothing to regret.
In fact, as long as you are worthy of yourself, the rest will be left to fate's arrangement. The years are long, you have to become your own dependence, be the best yourself on the way forward, and use your spare strength to love people.