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Is it because of the bride price problem in rural areas? Recently, this topic has been on the hot search, attracting the attention of many netizens.
Some people also have questions about this, is it really because of the bride price? Some netizens said that this is just the tip of the iceberg, and there are many reasons for this!
In recent years, I have heard that there are more and more singles in rural areas, and more and more single older young women in urban areas.
Economic reasons are certainly one of the reasons. The foundation of the rural economy itself is relatively weak, not to mention that all walks of life are now so involuted. Many men who marry their daughters-in-law will face problems such as bride price, wedding, living expenses in the future, and house.
Modern young people's concept of marriage is also a part, and now marriage is not only a matter of being a doorman, but also about the emotional foundation of both parties and the personal ability and value of both parties! Including the other party's character, personality, work, etc., this change in perception also leads to this situation.
The issue of bride price must be an important reason for this phenomenon, a threshold.
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Netizens commented to share their views!
It doesn't matter if you're poor, it's scary to be poor and feel that you can't find a wife just because you're poor.
In today's society, boys from ordinary families are really humble in the face of marrying a wife, and even their mother-in-law follows only promises, it's really difficult, and they have to be coaxed well when they marry back, so if they don't have the ability or conditions, don't worry, just let it be.
Now getting married is not only a matter of bride price, but also the other party's character, personality, family environment, this person's ability, and work.
There are many people who have not married after the age of 30 in the countryside, and it is difficult, regardless of men and women, several 31~32 people in my village who had a house and a car and a salary of more than 10,000 yuan can not look down on it, and now there are no blind dates.
I am 30 years old this year and I am also brothers, and I am considered to be poor in the village, but my two brothers are married, and they are still talking about it by themselves, there is no bride price, but many rich people in the village have not yet knotted, in fact, I think the bride price is only part of the reason.
There are two brothers in our village, and there are three tiled houses in the family, and the brothers have married daughters-in-law! Sometimes it's not about the bride price! Good eloquence, good family background, and ability all depend on it.
I feel that sometimes I can't find a partner because of money, my sister's two sons don't have a building in the countryside and don't have many bride prices, and they have married daughters-in-law in the past two years, and they are all very good daughters-in-law.
People have told you that you can look at your appearance when you talk about boyfriend and girlfriend, but when you get married, don't really look at your face, look at him, her tutor, parents, talk and cultivate, etc.
Marriage depends on the face, because liking is the foundation, and then depends on the character values to confirm whether they can live in harmony, as for the family, there is generally not a big problem.
I went to my uncle's house for New Year's greetings this year, and said that the person who introduced me was his nephew, and I said that I was still young and didn't want to find a partner, and he said that it was okay to chat and see, and then asked the other party 32...... When asked again, there was no house, no car, no money, and no good looks, so he said that the other party was very honest and hardworking......
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