Text/Little Snow Mom
For every family, the birth of a child is the most important time for a family, and expectant parents are looking forward to welcoming new members of the family. For the child's parents are full of expectations, I hope that this little guy can be born safely, and the future can also be more blessed, which is also the blessing of parents to their children.
However, some people who think more traditionally value the birth time of the child, and feel that the birth time of the child has something to do with whether the child is blessed or not.
Just like my cousin was pregnant at the time, her heart was very entangled, whether to choose "vaginal delivery" or "caesarean section" has been hesitant, and then listened to her mother-in-law's words and chose the "caesarean section" method.
On the one hand, the vaginal birth is indeed more painful, and it is worried that if you can't go down and then "turn the caesarean section", you will suffer two sins, on the other hand, the mother-in-law feels that the time of caesarean section can be appropriately adjusted, and the baby's happiness will be better in the future when it is born in the morning.
Although the doctor said that the cousin met the standard of "natural delivery", the cousin and the cousin mother-in-law still insisted on caesarean section, and on the day of delivery, the baby was born safely in the morning, which made the family very happy, especially the cousin and mother-in-law smiled and kept saying "Good morning birth, the child will be blessed in the future!" ”
Of course, everyone is also immersed in excited emotions, and the old man's "god nagging" statement is also regarded as a wind in the ear, only as a psychological comfort for the old man himself.
Of course, for the child's birth time and "blessing" things, it is certainly not believed, but in another direction, the child's birth time and "blessing" seem to have a little relationship, and the baby born at the following time points may also be really a blessing.
The child is born at these 3 time points, which may be a "Fuwa"
First, children born in the morning
In fact, now having a child, because of the development of medical technology, there are basically few accidents, and most children can be born safely, but when giving birth in the morning, all aspects may be more fully prepared.
Like if you are born in the morning, the elderly friends in the family can wait outside, see the child for the first time, and accompany the mother more, and if you give birth to a child at night, you may be less of this blessing.
And in the morning to give birth to a child, the doctor's mental state is better, may be more smooth operation, the mother can also suffer less guilt, the child can also come to this world earlier.
Second, when the family is in good financial condition
I have to say that now children are called "four-legged gold devouring beasts", and they need to spend a lot of money from birth, which is why many families choose to have children later.
The economic pressure of just getting married is relatively large, and there are some savings in the stable family after the marriage work, and the life of the child can be more comfortable after birth, and the child can also enjoy a better material foundation.
For example, the mother can take the child to the confinement center to get better care, or you can invite the sister-in-law to come to the house, so that the baby can get more professional care, these benefits are also a "blessing" for the child.
Third, when the parents have a better relationship
In addition to the basic material conditions, the feelings of parents are also very important. If the child is born, the parents have a very good relationship, that is to say, the father is very concerned about the mother and the child, the first time after work every day is to go home to cook, and at night, he can stay up late with the mother to take care of the child, and put his energy and time in the family.
Having a father and mother who loves him, having a good family atmosphere, I think it is the greatest blessing for the child, because the child's growth, the most important thing is to have a father and mother who love him, and a good family growth environment, so that the child's future life will have more possibilities, and the growth will be happy and happy.
Therefore, although material is very important, but material is not the determining factor, there are many factors that affect a person's future, but the family must be the most important, and the child who grows up in a loving family, I think is the happiest and the most blessed.
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