The daughter is in a desperate situation, and the father tries his best to clear up the relationship, and only then does he know that there is another hidden plot

Liu Qing's daughter has gone to high school

At present, the academic performance is very good

It has always been in the top three in the school

She has always been the pride of the whole family

Liu Qing, 45 years old

Shortly after giving birth to her daughter, she divorced her ex-husband

Over the years, the mother and daughter have been living in their mother's house

She raised her daughter alone for 16 years

The hardships are self-evident

But recently daughter Jiajia thoughts

But there were changes that were difficult for her to accept

My daughter tore up a lot of past awards

Jiajia, who has always been well-behaved and sensible

There has been a situation of school aversion

She felt that even if she studied better, she would be better

I can't share the pressure of life for my mother

She doesn't even want to go to school anymore

Liu Qing said they are currently having difficulties

I can't afford my daughter's high school anymore

To solve the current dilemma

Liu Qing had gone to find her ex-husband Hu Zhaojun many times

But the other party simply ignored it

On the way to send my daughter to school

The couple could not afford the accommodation

Liu Qing could only take his daughter to sleep on the street

Thinking of her daughter's pitiful situation

Liu Qing couldn't help but cry bitterly

Neighbors say it's not easy for mother and daughter

To better raise daughters

After the divorce, Liu Qing did not remarry

Sixteen years have not been less cold

Life is not easy

The child's father never came to see his daughter once

Fortunately, her parents have been helping her

Liu Qing's father is now eighty-two years old

The family also suffers from a variety of serious diseases at the same time

I really can't continue to help them in life

At present, Jiajia's tuition and living expenses

It becomes a barrier that is difficult for them to pass

Liu Qing said that he and her husband were married in a flash

Because both sides are not young

So it feels good to know each other for more than a month

Get married quickly

After marriage, I got along very well with my in-laws

But I didn't expect everything to change

All since Jiajia was born

Because Jiajia is a girl

So start with confinement

Her in-laws ignored her

Even if you hit the needle and drum, you shouldn't see it

The mother-in-law was always crying and crying

Obviously, she was suspected of having a daughter

For the behavior of the in-laws

Her husband, Hu Zhaojun, was helpless

This is where the contradictions between husband and wife arise

Later, Hu Zhaojun knelt down to show her

His parents put too much pressure on him

In the end, under the repeated requests of her ex-husband

The two went through divorce procedures

At that time, Hu Zhaojun was a one-time

Gave her fifty-eight thousand dollars as child support for her daughter

Since then, Jiajia has been raised by Liu Qing alone

But the weather is unpredictable

A few years ago, Jiajia was in a car accident on her way to school

The perpetrator ran away

Liu Qing wanted to save his daughter's life

It cost tens of thousands of dollars

At that time, she also asked her in-laws for help

But the other party did not even show his face

In this way, the child support for that year has long been used up

Their abilities are very limited

Parents are also sick and unable to provide support

Liu Qing was really powerless to continue to support

Because my daughter is particularly good at grades

She can't watch her daughter give up her studies

Accompanied by aunts and cousins

Once again, she found her ex-husband's unit

Hopefully, the other party will be able to shoulder that responsibility

According to colleagues, Hu Zhaojun was not in good health

There is currently no work to rest at home

So the group came to Hu Zhaojun's residence

It seems that Hu Zhaojun got the news in advance

No matter how everyone knocked on the door, no one answered

Liu Qing said she had been here many times

Hu Zhaojun is certainly not wrong to live here

But she had never knocked on the door before

This year, my daughter was admitted to a key high school

Unable to pay tuition because of family difficulties

Liu Qing knelt down in public and begged the school for help

Ultimately, it is the teacher who leads the school

With the help of parents

It was thanks to everyone's donations that we were able to make up enough tuition

Jiajia finally entered the school

But there are still five semesters to go

This made Liu Qing really unbearable

But in any case, we can't delay Jiajia's future

I learned that my mother was going to find my father

Jiajia also did not have the heart to study and took a special leave to rush over

Jiajia said she had never met her father

The word daddy was unfamiliar to her

Totally a stranger

Growing up made her hate her father

But at this time, she wanted to see him

On the one hand, I am looking forward to seeing each other first

There was always a question in her mind

Why didn't Dad want to be himself for so many years

At the same time, I want him to share it

The burden on Mom's body

To raise yourself

Mom was always overworked at work day and night

Through the unremitting efforts of my aunt

Finally found Hu Zhaojun

It turned out that although Liu Qing had come many times

But I never saw my ex-husband

It was because she had made the wrong floor

And the aunt knocked on the door layer by layer to inquire

Finally asked where he lived

Hu Zhaojun was very indifferent when he met him

The past experience of Liu Qing's mother and daughter

None seemed to know

He explained that the divorce agreement had been followed

The corresponding maintenance was paid

The woman was then responsible for raising her until she was eighteen

And he was out of the house

There is no question of being irresponsible

But the standard of more than a decade ago

It is clear that the immediate needs cannot be met at all

Hu Zhaojun did not take this into account

Prices are rising dramatically

Make $300 a monthly maintenance seem insignificant

And that's just child support

It does not include the child's education and medical expenses

Hu Zhaojun also recognized this

But what he said was also true

And said that everything could have been negotiable

But every time Liu Qing came, it was not a discussion

Instead, run directly to the unit and toss it

The attitude is arbitrary and the questioning of the face is covered

Hu Zhaojun has his own job and career

He also attaches great importance to the development of children

But he couldn't stand Liu Qing's random hat for him

It was precisely because of Liu Qing's nonsense that his heart palpitated

I always wanted to avoid her as much as possible

For the same reason, he did not dare to see his daughter

But it didn't matter what Liu Qing had done in the past

None of this was a reason for him to avoid raising his daughter

For the matter of raising children

He has this unshirkable responsibility

Is this a manifestation of patriarchal preference?

The aunt said that Hu Zhaojun was previously a subordinate of her son

Watching him perform well at the time

Only then did he introduce his niece to him

At that time, the two quickly married without understanding deeply

After marriage, I found that the difference between the two was too great

Hu Zhao's military character and performance have always been no problem

He was originally a rural man through his own efforts

I was admitted to college and got a good job

The niece's temper is very bad

Impatient personality is too impulsive

It's hard for others to talk to her about reasoning

Not even a simple joke

The two divorced

It is not the reason why the in-laws prefer sons to daughters

But because of Liu Qing's personality

Liu Qing was very willful during the month

In the end, at Liu Qing's insistence, the two divorced

At that time, my aunt also advised Liu Qing many times

However, Liu Qing did not listen to the advice of others

Impulsive to recklessness

It was not Hu Zhaojun who forced her to divorce

In the end, Liu Qing was also because of his willfulness and impulsiveness

I made myself and my daughter pay the price they shouldn't have paid

And when the daughter encounters various situations

Liu Qing always impulsively went to her ex-husband's unit to make trouble

Hu Zhaojun was therefore so distraught that he always avoided it

In order to break the relationship with the ex-wife

Hu Zhaojun didn't even bother with his daughter Jiajia anymore

In short, things have developed into the current situation

The main responsibility is still on Liu Qing

But now the child's business is the most important thing

In any case, Hu Zhaojun must be held accountable

Jiajia's future must not be delayed

Hu Zhaojun's current wife, Song Miao, said angrily

Children have something that could have been discussed slowly

Why does Liu Qing always go to the unit to make trouble

He also claimed to remarry Hu Zhaojun

Now they are not at all willing to negotiate

The aunt said that Liu Qing had no intention of remarrying

It was indeed her fault to go to the unit to make trouble

She hoped that both sides would be able to put aside their grievances

In the future, I will no longer dwell on things between adults

Calmly sit down and discuss the child's affairs

My aunt said what she thought

She indicated the maintenance provided that year

Simply not enough for children to spend years

And Hu Zhaojun has not undertaken it over the years

Jiajia's tuition and medical expenses

So she hopes that Hu Zhaojun can stand up

For the future of her daughter

Take the initiative to take on the next responsibility

Song Miao said that her husband did not prefer sons to daughters

And he loved their four-year-old daughter too

In fact, Hu Zhaojun has always been very concerned about Jiajia

As long as Liu Qing can have something to say well

They are willing to take on the responsibility of raising Jiajia

You can discuss and make a decision

When we met again to discuss

Jiajia came to her father's house

Jiajia called her father for the first time

And Hu Zhaojun also warmly received his daughter

He told his daughter attentively

Don't because of the feud between parents

Affected her studies

This should not lead to giving up school

He would cover Jiajia's tuition and living expenses

And I hope the daughter later

Be sure to go home and check it out

This moment of fatherly care

Make Jiajia feel more intimate

Hu Zhaojun inquired meticulously

Jiajia's recent study and life

Only then did he learn that his daughter was doing very well

Jiajia also boldly questioned her father

Why don't you want to be yourself if you're a girl

Even when calling Grandpa

Grandpa asked her to come back to her father when she was eighteen

Growing up, I was ridiculed by others

Saying that he has no father and no tutor

It's all because of Dad's absence

No matter how the father explained

Underage Jiajia should not understand much

But it can already be seen at this moment

The father-daughter relationship began to improve rapidly

Direct communication between them is already possible

Jiajia finally knew that her father did not want her

It was because the feud between the adults affected her

Mainly because my mother always loves to go to the unit to make trouble

Only then did he be very jealous of the appearance of mother and daughter

And this time with the joint efforts of everyone

Dad and Mom were finally able to discuss calmly

Hu Zhaojun even proposed

It is up to him to continue to raise Jiajia's request

Considering that Hu Zhaojun also has a family

In the end, everyone decided through consultation

Jiajia continued to be raised by Liu Qing

Jiajia high school period Hu Zhaojun every year

Bear 8,000 yuan of living expenses and tuition fees

Hit Jiajia's card on a monthly basis

Medical expenses are calculated separately

After going to college, the two discussed each other

As long as Jiajia needs Hu Zhaojun will bear it

Having experienced so many things you may find

If Only Liu Qing could have changed it earlier

Maybe daughter Jiajia doesn't need to go through so many tribulations

Divorce is just the end of the marital relationship

The child is the eternal entanglement of two people

Responsibilities and obligations as a parent

It doesn't end with a divorce

For the sake of the child, both sides must let go of their grievances

Think peacefully about your child's future