In fact, from the beginning of Wu Min's appearance, she has already revealed that her psychology has problems, such as extreme stubbornness, talking and doing things willfully, self-disregard for the overall situation, often letting the people around her not get off the stage! Chen Shan Sun Lei and Sister Jin have all learned this!
Wu Min is very decadent and mournful, other people's normal words and deeds, will cause her to react excessively, not only the audience feels that this role is too much, even the good-tempered Sun Lei, who has always tolerated her and taken care of her before, now can't stand Wu Min's willfulness, and turned to her to criticize her obstinately wanton divorce, and the harmful children look pitiful.
But in fact, if you look at it from Wu Min's point of view, you can understand her changes! From the memory, Wu Min is a lively, confident and sunny girl, she fought for love, in college, she and Lin Qingkun are equally excellent, but she chose to retreat behind the scenes for Lin Qingkun and take care of the family.
Lin Qingkun said that he grew up alone and wanted a warm family, then Wu Min really gave Lin Qingkun a family without worries, Lin Qingkun only needed to focus on work without distraction, because Wu Min was in that warm home, and everything was only taken care of!
As soon as he turned around after the work, Wu Min and his son Jingjing silently watched him at home, which made Lin Qingkun feel at ease and happy! But Lin Qingkun, who was too focused on his work, took everything That Wu Min paid for granted, and ignored Wu Min's efforts, perhaps he did not ignore it, but he never declared it.
This makes Wu Min feel that she is more and more worthless, wu Min, who has lost her self-worth and self-affirmation, is becoming more and more depressed, she is not willing to live as a vassal of others, not willing to be ignored, after all, she was once so good! She is not willing to be a person without ego.
In Wu Min's view, leaving Lin Qingkun and divorcing him, handing over everything clearly, she did not want him anything, nor did she rely on him, from scratch, she found a sense of self-acquisition and a sense of accomplishment. In this way, she could look up at Lin Qingkun instead of looking up. Looking back at the relationship between her and Lin Qingkun, she can treat it objectively and fairly.
Lin Qingkun is also a grievance in his stomach, he feels that he is suffering outside, is not it to create a good living condition for his wife and children? Isn't that love? He now has everything, but suddenly he has no home!
Lin Qingkun very much wanted to save Wu Min's heart, but Wu Min had been suppressed too deeply over the years, and Lin Qingkun couldn't say how to move Wu Min! But on the whole, this is not a bad thing, the so-called unbroken and unbroken!
Some things, after breaking, will instead appear new turnarounds! And this is the case between Wu Min and Lin Qingkun.
Wu Min and Lin Qingkun signed a divorce agreement, suddenly felt much more comfortable, at this time the change in her relationship with Lin Qingkun, but also made her mentality change, before she only had resentment against Lin Qingkun, all she saw was Lin Qingkun's bad, and could not see Lin Qingkun's little advantages.
However, Wu Min moved out of the big villa on a rainy day, and encountered persecution and extortion by the employees of the moving company on the way to move, which made Wu Min, a newcomer who had been out of social life for twenty years, helpless and full of helplessness and wandering.
Lin Qingkun easily resolved this difficult problem for Wu Min, at this moment in the storm Lin Qingkun, can be said to be full of domineering president manhood, Wu Min was obviously shocked by Lin Qingkun's calm and strong social ability.
Before this, Wu Min had never felt it before, and when she stepped into the complex society alone for the first time, she could deeply appreciate the powerful charm of Lin Qingkun's unfazed aura. Wu Min can more objectively see the value of Lin Qingkun to this family.
When Wu Min said that she thanked Lin Qingkun for helping her to get this thing done, Lin Qingkun said melancholy and sadly, I can handle anything, but only you can't do it! This sentence made Wu Min, who is no longer his wife, feel his own value and importance!
Therefore, on a rainy day, this incident should be a turning point between Wu Min and Lin Qingkun, Lin Qingkun's move, obviously made Wu Min moved to him again, and the more Wu Min suffered from the beating of the society, the more profoundly he will realize how much Lin Qingkun has paid to this family in recent years.
Wu Min always said that in marriage, understanding is more important than love, but in marriage, the worship and admiration of the other half is also very important. This quarrel between her and Lin Qingkun may make Lin Qingkun understand Wu Min better, and it will also make Wu Min admire and worship Lin Qingkun more.