There is a strange variable between people, especially between the opposite sex, as well as boyfriend and girlfriend and partner who has been married for many years!
Love at first sight and love for a long time, I believe it!
There is a strange law that with the passage of time, two people together, from strange to familiar, from familiar to intimate, and then from intimacy to flat!
Life is only a hundred years, but a hundred years of love for one person, it is really precious!
Just graduated, the campus is full of love atmosphere, handsome men and beautiful women can be seen everywhere, especially at dusk, cool night, a man and a woman sitting together under the willow tree, whispering laughter, accompanied by moonlight, there is a charm!
Looking back now, I still have such a fresh memory, and I can't forget it for a long time!
I confess that at that time, youth was immaculate, young and ignorant!
It is said that it is a sweet period of love, but it is better to say that it is a desire for the favor of the opposite sex!
At that time, as a normal boy, who didn't like beautiful girls?
Good-looking skin bag, so that people can secrete more hormones!
A school flower, once chased by many boys; I remember saturday at 7 pm, there were 8 boys invited at the same time; beautiful girls, but also the use of dating to the fullest, not afraid of the dating scene!
Afterwards, I learned from a school flower that every day there was an appointment to eat, and in less than a month, I ate a delicious restaurant near the campus!
There are also some restaurant owners who smell the business opportunity, saying that the school flower brought the boys to dinner, and after the fact, there are still ten percent rebates to take!
Girls with high looks can not only eat delicious food, but also easily earn some living expenses in dating, why not enjoy it?
The above is not the point, the point is: boys obviously know everything, but also a mind of willing to pay, you say strange is not strange?
Now that I think about it, it is very clear that it is not love, but just for the sake of face, to satisfy your own vanity, and to be happy for a while!
There is an emotional master who said: Before marriage, men are more than greasy and crooked, and life after marriage is more than plain!
As for right and wrong, let time tell!
After marriage, especially for many years of old couples, how can the intimacy continue to go on?
Life after marriage, not afraid of blandness, afraid of getting used to it!
Once, when I went to a friend's house as a guest, the two couples have been married for 10 years, but after eating a meal, it feels as if they have just married, sweet as ever!
During the banquet, there are many male friends, the dish is not enough to eat, the husband takes the initiative to get up and go to the kitchen, the wife is afraid of the cold, and has been with us to talk and laugh!
After the dish was brought to the table, the wife got up again to bring us tea and poured water, which could be clearly detected, not deliberately contrived, but more out of polite behavior!
I understand your efforts, and I know your deep meaning!
The wife also said: Men's stomachs are not casually fooled, many restaurant chefs are more men, if you want to have a mouth, to meet everyone's stomach, in the final analysis, you have to rely on men!
Because men understand men better!
At first glance, we all laughed badly, and we were all happy together, not to mention how happy we were!
The above behavior with chat, in fact, is very simple, is a love feedback!
Not afraid of life is plain, afraid of life is accustomed!
One person pays, while the other person takes it!
Couples who have been married for many years don't even have a little bit of normal feedback; if there is, it is also some complaints and accusations!
Two people want to be together for a long time, in addition to basic honesty and respect, more importantly: don't forget the feedback of love, positive feedback, positive feedback!
Your silent efforts, I understand!
My hard work, you also know it!
Between husband and wife, they are not afraid of quarrels, they are not afraid of discussion; they are afraid of complaining to each other and accusing each other!
After many years of marriage, all the eyes can see and perceive is the shortcomings of the other party; but every slight advantage is also ruthlessly covered up by the shortcomings!
Some people say: in the life after marriage, love gradually decreases, more is family affection; but think deeply, family affection and love are not exclusive, and complement each other, attract each other, isn't it?
We have no shortage of people to love, nor do we lack love; what we lack is: good feedback, feedback with love!
My good friends, try to give your loved ones a good feedback now!
Don't skimp on your "rhetoric, slippery tongue"
Maybe the person who loves you
It's been a long time coming