I was reluctant to break up with him. I'm 30 now.
Since you don't want to get married, it doesn't hurt to be around for a while, and if your parents urge you to get married, you will first agree, disagree, and don't object.
In your case, it is not necessary to solve it by breaking up, because your feelings have not had any crisis, if you break up because of this kind of thing, is it a little too hasty, or do you compromise with your parents' arrangements and want to find someone to marry?
People who can love freely are best not to choose to separate easily, because couples get along for a long time, they all understand each other, and a long time will cultivate a lot of tacit understanding, although you are now 30 years old, but now more and more people marry late and have children late, and it is also a good choice to get married in 2 years of getting along, but you must know whether your boyfriend will marry you, which is especially important.
Because the arranged marriage has no emotional basis, a lot of unpleasant things will occur after marriage, such as each other's personality is not compatible, there is no tacit understanding when they are together, which will aggravate the run-in period of post-marital feelings, and many arranged marriages have not taken this step, and finally ruined two families.
In the face of the family's urging for marriage, you have to look at it rationally, they have their reason for marriage, after all, the parents are older, they all want to see the next generation early, they can now grow up with their grandchildren, they can also share the pressure for you, and it is understandable to think about it in a different position.
What you have to do now is to learn a skill, just listen to not do, they say their you do yours, don't go too far into your heart, or when talking about this kind of thing, you can move on to other topics, you can also discuss with your boyfriend specifically in a few years to get married, talk about future plans with your parents, there are many ways, you can adapt according to the personality of your parents.