The health of children is the place where every family values, and it is also the place where every parent is worried, and families with children often find ways to give their children a better life. But it is also often overlooked that the child's emotional problems. Children grow up gradually, along with their maturity in all aspects. In the stage of child development and maturity, they are often faced with an environment in which men marry when women marry. Parents worry about their children's better living environment from an early age, and when they grow up, they will also worry about finding a marriage partner for them.
But relative to the age of marriage, everyone also has their own opinions, their different views mean that their concept of marriage is also different, choosing a good partner means that they can live a better life, but also means that they will be more happy.
One of the most challenging issues in a marriage is the attitude of both men and women to marriage, and it is very beneficial to choose a boyfriend who is older than yourself when you are ready to get married. Older men tend to have a sense of responsibility, their fidelity to marriage is also very high, but also very responsible, for girls, the marriage they desire is very high loyalty.
As they grow older, men gradually become more mature, they are not as irresponsible as they were in their childhood, they only know that greedy play is accompanied by the maturity of age, their sense of enterprise is getting stronger and stronger, and their sense of responsibility is also enhanced. They are also more grateful to their wives and can do their best to maintain the stability of a family.
2. Have economic ability
Today's society is a very dependent economy, and the level of the economy depends on the level of living. Everyone longs to enjoy life, but unfortunately there is no economic basis, they just imagine it out of thin air. Therefore, choosing a boyfriend who is older than yourself can be of great financial benefit to yourself.
If a girl who is about to get married chooses a boyfriend who is older than herself, it will also have a great impact on her future life. Because older boys have a relatively stable income, then in the establishment of a new family, their economy can be guaranteed, but also to provide children with good living conditions and educational problems, which may be the child's superior growth.
3. Rich social experience
Older boys tend to be very mature and have more social experience. Because they first entered the society early, then there will be a lot of networking and interpersonal relationships, etc., which will also be of great help to them in the future.
If the girls have any difficulties in their future work, their boyfriends have very social experience. It is also very important to help them get through difficulties in the workplace, and it can also help them improve the quality of their work and lay a solid foundation for girls' careers.
4. Late marriage and late childbearing
Now it is easy to advocate late marriage and late childbearing and early marriage, because both parties are not yet developed, and the children born are not good. Studies have found that the most suitable age for girls to have children is between 24 and 30 years old, and the best age for boys to have children is between 30 and 35 years old. Both parties are in the best state of physical condition, which is very beneficial to the child's fertility, and there is no fertility crisis and so on.
Children born at this age, both physically and intellectually, are much better than children born at other ages.
Therefore, advocating late marriage and late childbearing is what we should do, as parents, hope to be able to give birth to a healthy and excellent child, have great concern for the health of the child, and giving birth to a healthy child is the luckiest thing for every family. Now with the development of the economy, more and more people are getting married late in order to pursue their careers, so that there is a phenomenon such as sister-brother love.
Nowadays, people will pursue a higher life and relentlessly get married, so there will be a certain age difference, but this phenomenon of late marriage and good childbearing is also very good. In this way, the quality of sperm will be relatively high, and the children born will be more excellent.
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Due to the rapid development of economic growth at this stage, many people are busy working in pursuit of a higher standard of living, so delaying the best age for them to marry, it is inevitable that a series of age differences will occur. Therefore, choosing the appropriate age difference when we get married can enable us to live a better life. It is very common for everyone to choose their own spouse in pursuit of a higher life.
Older boys generally have their own opinions, as well as strong economic ability, they have strong social experience, can help us more in our daily life and work. And they have good interpersonal skills, which are also of great help to our future lives, and we can't exclude older boys.