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Perhaps, because of the times, many people nowadays dare not go all out in the face of love, and even if they have established a relationship, they still dare not put their hearts out.
The reason for this situation is nothing more than the fear of being hurt, the fear that the other party has not identified themselves.
This situation is more pronounced in women.
Many women in the face of feelings, will always suffer from loss, insecurity, afraid of their own sincerity to pay wrong, so they will always think of some ways to test their partner's sincerity.
In fact, it's not hard to be sure of your partner's sincerity, as long as you use the right method. If a man identifies with you, then he will make these performances in front of you.
These people may seem very abnormal on the surface, but in fact they have been conquered by you and completely fall in love with you.
One: will take the initiative to curb your temper for you and become a better person
A person is often carefree before meeting someone he likes. Because there is no one to worry about him, he has always been free to do things as he pleases.
But once he encountered it, he would have a sense of responsibility from the bottom of his heart and would never dare to be reckless again.
In our lives, we often encounter such people, who were originally very grumpy and did not pay attention to the consequences, but then suddenly changed, became very gentle, very cautious.
In fact, a large part of the reason for this change is that he met the person who made him feel good.
Just as the writer Wang Xiaobo once wrote to his wife Li Yinhe, telling her that he wanted to become a perfect person for her, because from the moment he fell in love with her, he had responsibilities.
So, if a man tempers himself for you and becomes a better man for you, then there is no doubt that he has been completely surrendered by you.
Two: will take the initiative to draw a clear line with other members of the opposite sex, loyal to you, will not let you think more
Truly liking someone will remain loyal to her, which is almost an instinct, because the essence of love is heartache, she is sad you will be sad, she hurt you will be heartbroken.
And you are not willing to make her sad and hurt, so you will consciously restrain your behavior and be responsible for your every move.
When a man, the original social circle is very messy, know a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and suddenly one day take the initiative to draw a line with them, and maintain an appropriate distance, then it is very likely that he is serious about you.
He doesn't want to play anymore, he doesn't want to be ambiguous with anyone anymore, he just wants to be single-minded about you.
Three: Will take the initiative to take you back to see your parents, hoping that your family will accept you as soon as possible
There is a most direct way to judge whether a man really loves you: to see if he wants to marry you.
Men who truly love you, from the moment they fall in love with you, will want to live with you for a lifetime, and those who only want to make a scene may only really care about the present.
If you have a relationship with a man for a long time, he wants to take you to see your parents, which shows that he recognizes you and wants to marry you home. Of course, before that, you need to know enough about his character to make sure that he made this decision deliberately and extremely seriously.
If every time he is in love, he will take his girlfriend back to see his parents every time, then it is another matter.
Why are there always some women who know how to cherish after they lose?
It is nothing more than because when they are in an intimate relationship, they always can't understand some of the boys' performances, mistake true love for childishness, and end up making a mess of a good relationship.
Therefore, girls in intimate relationships, if they want to go on with their partners for a long time, they must learn to observe their performance and determine each other's sincerity in a suitable way.
Only in this way can we avoid blindly running to others while not failing others.
Some people will think that they are unlucky and will never meet someone who really likes themselves and is willing to be really good to themselves in their lifetime. But many times, people do not meet the person who is willing to be sincerely good to themselves, but they meet but do not catch it.
Many people in intimate relationships will deny their sincerity to their partners because of some of their past experiences, or some words from people around them. In the end, he personally pushed away the person who loved himself the most, did not say anything, always complained about the unfairness of fate, and did not give himself a good lover.
If you want to have a happy love, then girls in intimate relationships must understand which performances of men are really loving you, and don't create a lifetime of regrets because they are young and do not understand things.
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