In marriage, feelings are like people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge.
No matter how suitable the marriage is in the eyes of outsiders, if there is no mutual respect and love, only the selfishness of one party and the payment of one party, such feelings are also unequal.
Time sharpens people's hearts, and love can show whether it is true love or perfunctory under the grinding of time.
Love or not love, can not be hidden.
There is a person in the heart who cares about a person, who will give the other person understanding, tolerance, care, and consideration. If a woman no longer wants the following things of a man, it means that the fate is over.
One, no longer figure your "love"
Yi Shu once said: "The grievances that can be spoken are not grievances; the lovers who can be snatched away are not lovers." ”
In the world of feelings, the love of two people is mutual.
Regarding love, "Drumming" writes: "Death and life are broad, and the son is said, the hand of the son is held, and the son is old." ”
When love comes, everyone hopes to hold hands with each other for a lifetime, go through ups and downs for a lifetime, be considerate of each other, give to each other, take love as the condiment of life, and move forward in a dull life.
However, there are always people who are not satisfied, with the elegance of the white rose, but also want the warmth of the red rose, love gradually fades, turning a blind eye to the other party's efforts, everything is self-centered, never reflecting on what they have done wrong in this relationship, and what they have lost.
When a woman doesn't care about you, she will no longer want your love, she will give more love to herself, and will not let herself be wronged.
Second, no longer try to figure out your romance
Yi Shu wrote in "The Story of the Rose": "What you have lost has never really belonged to you, and you don't have to regret it. ”
When in love, after spending the month before and after the flower, the sea oath mountain alliance is always full of romantic atmosphere, and a confession at that time can make the woman who is in love feel moved, and can also let her go all out for love.
Love is romantic, marriage is realistic, and when love takes the breath and walks into the chai rice oil and salt in marriage, romance disappears without a trace.
Some women ask reluctantly: You were so romantic when you and I were in love, why are you so boring now?
The answer: acting.
When a man can no longer give a woman romance, and in life to mock the woman who loves himself, when a man becomes vulgar, and still feels that the woman married himself is a high climb, when a man makes the woman cry, but also complacent... This relationship has taught women to "not care".
Three, no longer plot your "money"
Money is the touchstone for everything, including feelings.
In real life, there are more responsible men who work hard to earn money to support their families and make their lovers and children live a better life.
They will remember their lover's birthday, their wedding anniversary, the day of love that belongs to all of them. He will pay attention to the ritual sense of love and not let women be disappointed or even despaired of themselves.
In love, respect and love are equal, two people work together to pay for the family, the feelings will of course become stronger and stronger, and love will become more and more intense in the nourishment of marriage.
However, there are always some men who will use money to despise women who pay for their families. When a person promises you a verbal check "you don't have to work, I'll raise you", don't believe it, please be sure to believe that such a promise is only a moment, not a lifetime.
If a man changes his heart, you spend a dime on him, he will also hurt, and when your palms are facing upwards, you lose the dignity of being shaken to the ground.
Therefore, women must learn to make money at any time, learn to be self-reliant, must have the ability to support themselves, and live well without relying on men, so that when men change their hearts, you can turn around proudly without hesitation.
Yi Shu said in "The First Half of My Life": The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness of the bottom of the heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person.
When love has faded, don't care, is the best armor.
Yi Shu also said in "Suddenly This Summer": "Why prove anything to people who are not worthy, and live better, but for yourself." "When a woman knows how to live for herself, she really sees through the essence of life and still loves life."
The dog basks on the sun, the duck swims clean, and when a woman doesn't want anything from you, the relationship is over.