Women are more cautious about marriage, so some women think that they must be in love with men for a long time, and the emotional foundation is stable enough to step into the palace of marriage hand in hand, but they do not know that this strategy of choosing a mate is not wise. In fact, once a man and a woman start a marathon relationship, very few can enter the marriage, even if they enter the marriage, the happiness index is not very high, and even after some marriage, it is easy to divorce.
The well-known Jiuyue miracle combination Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei, how long have the two been in love, nearly 12 years, but after four years of marriage, they announced their divorce, as for what reason, we will not discuss it for the time being, after all, the matter of feelings, no one can say clearly.
Let's talk today about why the longer a man and a woman are in love, the easier it is to break up.
Some girls may not quite believe my conclusion, so let's first listen to what the man has to say.
01. Mr. Zhou
I was in a relationship with my ex for seven years and still broke up. It's not that I don't want to marry my ex, but I've always felt that the timing is not ripe, mainly because my two families are not very well-off.
Looking around, the couples around me who can get married at a young age and talk about one or two years are basically equal in strength between both men and women, and both people's family situations are relatively ok.
But my ex and I were both from small places, and I had brothers and sisters in the family, and I had a younger brother in my ex's family.
I really can't imagine what our married life will be like, I will be very tired and tired, and then we have children, the starting point is also very low, but I have studied hard for more than twenty years, in order to have a better life, this is not what I want.
So my ex has been urging marriage, I dare not marry, after she took the initiative to leave me, my wife's family conditions are better than my ex, although I love my ex more, but my wife is more suitable for me than my ex, meet my wife, I know that if I choose her to marry, life will definitely be more comfortable.
Although my wife is slightly older than me, after all, she is the only daughter of the city, and after half a year of dating, I will propose to her.
02. Mr. Lin
I talked to my ex for five years and I offered to break up. It's not that the longer a man and a woman are in love, the easier it is to break up, it's that the man has never thought of marrying this woman.
Seriously, I'm a man and I know the most about the psychology of men. You know, men's possessiveness is very strong. How could a man who really approves of the woman around him not want to possess or marry her directly?
Years of love and long-distance running show that men are not in a hurry to have women, which naturally means that men have other ideas. For example, I wasn't ready to marry my ex in the first place, and I didn't look up to her.
I'm with my ex, nothing more than looking at her conditions, although not the best, but it's okay to be my girlfriend, and it takes a lot of time and effort to be a girl, and I don't want to change girlfriends so diligently, unless I meet the woman I want to marry.
My wife is the woman I want to marry, her family conditions are good, she is still a well-behaved girl from childhood, she has little experience in love, she married me, in addition to getting a lot of benefits, living a little more comfortably, I also believe that my wife will be loyal to me.
03. Mr. Kong
My ex and I are seriously in love, we have been dating for five years, I feel that maybe I have been with her for a long time, I know her too well, I have no curiosity about her, and naturally I don't like her. At first, I knew that I was not good at this kind of psychology, and I didn't think about breaking up with her. But later, when she proposed to get married for the 80,000 dowry, she surprised me, I never thought she was such a person, I thought she did not worship gold.
I separated from her, and after the separation, I went on a blind date and met my current wife, and my wife's conditions were comparable to those of my ex, and I married my wife for sixty thousand yuan in a bride price.
I think it's still worth it, after all my wife is a woman I've just met and is more attractive to me than my ex. Also spend money to marry a wife, why not marry one I prefer?
Do women see it? The remarks of these three men can be described as a proper scumbag's view of love. However, in reality, such men are not in the minority. In short, I sincerely hope that you women in love better not play marathons with men, otherwise run for three or five years, men find a suitable marriage partner, absolutely will kick you, then the injury is your own.