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If one day you found out that you had no feelings for the one next to you, or he didn't have the slightest affection, what choice would you make?
People generally have two choices, one is to tell each other very frankly, no love, let's separate. This kind of person is more frank, seemingly cruel to the other half, but in fact it is a kind of kindness.
The other kind of person is that he obviously has no love for you, but chooses to use a cold and violent way. He doesn't tell you directly, but uses all kinds of ways that make you uncomfortable, slowly consuming your feelings.
Eventually, your patience is depleted and you can't stand such a life, so you choose to break up. At this point, he will tell you falsely that it is not that I want to break up with you, but because you want to break up. Logically, you become the so-called back pot man.
Such a man is the most terrible, so if you can recognize the man's feelings for you early and withdraw as soon as possible, then it is the best protection for the self.
The true feelings of people's hearts will often be expressed in words and deeds, so if you want to know whether this man has changed his heart, you must observe his words and deeds, and men who have changed their hearts will often hang three sentences on their lips, and women should be careful and wary.
First, can you please not make unreasonable trouble?
Can you please stop making trouble
Can you please stop making unreasonable trouble?
If a man always says something like this when you've been wronged and need comfort, it's largely because he doesn't love you anymore.
Don't forget, when you were in love, you were in a bad mood, frowned, and he could comfort you for half a day. However, once he no longer loves you and is tired of you, he will not care about your small emotions, and naturally he will no longer comfort you.
He even hates you and says that you are unreasonable, often because he has changed his heart. In his heart, you are no longer important to him.
It is precisely because it is not important, so you have a small temper, he no longer endures, no longer stops all work, spends a lot of time to comfort you.
He doesn't love you anymore, he has changed his heart, so some of your behaviors that he could tolerate before will now make him particularly annoying!
Second, can you be sensible?
When you encounter happy things and want to share them with him, he is a little disgusted, and he directly tells you with emotions, can you understand things a little? I'm busy right now.
What is the subtext of this sentence? It is that you are not important to him, in his heart, your emotions are not important, you are far less important than the work in his hands.
Of course, there may be really busy, but even if it is really busy, if he loves you, he is likely to talk to you in a different tone. Tell you, it's busy now, and I'll get back to you later.
The men who always say you, can you be a little more sensible, are impatient with you. In his heart, you become an obstacle and have an impact on him, so he will complain.
So when a man tells you that, don't be silly enough to apologize. You have to be clear, there's a good chance he's changed his mind.
Don't bother me, I want to be quiet
What is the subtext of this sentence? It is very annoying to dislike you, and it is a feeling of disgust to you. He wants to keep a sense of distance from you and hopes you don't show up in front of him.
When a man will say such a thing, it is often a thing that is not loved. In his mind, you have lost your status, and your presence annoys him.
I remember when the two of them were together, he wanted to stick with you 24 hours a day. The reason why he says something similar now is that he has no love for you anymore.
He's disgusted with you, he's tired of you. In his heart, you have no status, and he wants to leave you, so he will say something similar.
In the world of love, women must stay awake. Don't wait until the other person has no love for you, you are still foolishly planning the future with the other party.
Learn to be smart, find out the other party's abnormality in time, and decisively choose to leave, only in this way can you better protect yourself.
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In addition to the above, men have changed their hearts, what will be the obvious performance? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.