People live a lifetime, it is impossible for everything to go smoothly, there will always be some difficulties and obstacles, at this time we will solve these problems ourselves and open up a path for ourselves. The same is true of the world of feelings, when entering the marriage, it is found that the person next to the pillow is no longer the same, the two people are going in the opposite direction, rather than waiting until things develop into an irredeemable point, it is better to remedy it in advance. Marriage is the most important thing in a person's life, choosing a person who likes and is suitable for marriage is actually a very difficult thing, so how to choose a good person? Attentive women are actually easy to see, but men are generally more careless and often find out later. In fact, to see what women are suitable for marriage, it is enough to see these three points, the smaller the woman's three places, the more men like it, even if it is 2 marriages, it is not abandoned!
The smaller the temper
Some people say that we always give good tempers to outsiders and bad tempers to those closest to us. I deeply believe that as a working woman, or a leadership, it is inevitable to lose your temper when things happen. But if you bring your temper in the workplace to your home, it is a big mistake. Your husband is not your employee, not your nanny, and even less your parents, there is no reason to be 100% tolerant of your temper. Moreover, people's patience is limited, you lose your temper every day at home, and the other party will always have a day when they can't stand it. On the contrary, a woman with a small temper and a kind temperament every time she encounters an affair can get the love of her lover. Therefore, women should establish the concept of "not treating their husbands as relatives", if they are relatives, women will always be a little "unscrupulous". Just like getting along with your parents, even if you do more wrong things and make the other party angry, the feelings of blood dissolved in water are really cut. In the end, your parents will still take the initiative to come to your side and ease the relationship with you. But the husband is different, "the dog will jump the wall when he is anxious", not to mention the love bound by a paper marriage, if it reaches the point where it cannot be endured, that is to say, it is broken, and there is no half a point of nostalgia. Therefore, women should learn not to treat their husbands as "relatives" to control their temper, after all, the smaller the woman's temper, the more the man loves.
Vanity is small
This world is materialistic, it is easy to occupy our vanity, pick up face but lose the inside, and slowly lose yourself in the material world. If you want to support your vanity, you need a lot of financial resources, and many people in the world today can't afford this consumption, and love is to get married, marriage is for two people to have a better life, excessive vanity will only make both parties more and more sad.
Small suspicions
The most important point in maintaining feelings in feelings is to know how to trust each other. If you don't have even the most basic trust, then such feelings are really difficult to maintain. A woman questions her other half every day, is very suspicious, and always does not trust the other party, so gradually over time, the feelings will naturally go to the end. Therefore, since you have chosen each other, you must know how to respect and trust each other, and be less suspicious, and the marriage will be better! Maybe appearance just determines whether you can have eye contact when you see each other, and you can have the desire to have deep contact with each other. But the key factor in determining whether a relationship can go on and on depends on the other person's inner life. May everyone in the world be able to find the other half who truly loves each other. Know how to understand and tolerate each other, cherish the fate and beauty, and spend the rest of your sweet and happy life together.
Emotional message: No man can win the appreciation of a woman, no woman can win the respect of men by eating and being lazy, in fact, love is very simple, in reality, if you meet a woman who has a small temper, is not vain, and trusts you, you must cherish it.