Although the idea of son preference has been gradually abolished by people, the marriage rate in the mainland has decreased a lot, and the change of people's thinking and the renewal of society have made us have many different views and understandings of marriage, and not all of them have gone to the palace of happy marriage, and gradually a word "second marriage woman" has gradually appeared. In the countryside, the second-married woman can now be said to be very popular, so do you know why the second-married woman is becoming more and more popular?
First, the marriage rate is reduced
And women are gradually no longer the operators and givers of marriage, but the independent individuals of society. The number of Dink personnel in the mainland society is also increasing, the decision not to marry is also commonplace, and the divorce rate is also rising, which has led to the second marriage of women, but the second marriage of women in the eyes of the masses, but also a little more ridicule and disgust, because there have been failures in marriage, it is not tolerated by everyone.
While second-married women are not tolerated and understood by everyone, they are becoming more and more popular in rural areas, and even first-time married men will choose second-married women. Of course, there are also reasons for this, but what are the reasons, let's discuss it slowly.
People in the countryside are still very particular about marriage, and most people will choose to get married and have children at the age of marriage, but the development of rural areas is of course far inferior to that of cities, and many rural people choose to work and live in cities.
Women who choose to work in cities also make up the majority of the rural population, resulting in an increasing number of single men in rural areas. And the age of these single men is basically in the range of middle age, and the customs of the countryside are still many, if a man or woman reaches a certain age but has not yet married, it will cause suspicion, gossip will be a lot, although it is only some gossip, but after all, spit stars can also drown people.
Second, the reasons for the popularity of second-married women
The first reason is that the second-married woman who has experienced the failure of a marriage will cherish the hard-won feelings even more. In the new marriage, you can handle the housework well, and the failure of a marriage can make a woman's patience mature and take care of people more, which is the daughter-in-law that the rural mother-in-law hopes to find. The thrifty family will live the most liked and welcomed by the rural masses, and they will not feel that there is anything unreasonable about the second-married daughter-in-law.
The second reason is that the bride price of the second marriage woman is less, because the second marriage will not have more bride price, and some may be a formality, and they will not care about the amount of the bride price. The economic income in the countryside is relatively low, so this is also a good condition for them to spend less dowry money, which is undoubtedly something that makes many men's families happy, and spends the least amount of money to accomplish the best thing.
According to relevant reports on the mainland, the economic income of the rural population on the mainland in the first half of the year was about 9,000 yuan. Think about it, in fact, their lives are not so rich, holding a wedding is also in need of financial support, not to mention the traditional bride price, although the bride price of the second married woman is not as much as the bride price of the first married girl, but it also needs to spend money, but this can save some money for the man's family, but it is also less troublesome.
Because in rural areas, the male family or women, mothers-in-law will have a lot of requirements for their daughters-in-law, some may be too harsh, the requirements for daughters-in-law will be many, both want to spend the least amount of money and marry the best wife for their children, many rules Some first marriage girls are not willing, then you can choose a second marriage. If he can't get married at the age of marriage, then the man will always be single-handed, and the whole village will look down on him.
The third reason is the rules of succession, although most of the urban masses are no longer so concerned or obeyed, but the traditional consciousness of rural succession is still very heavy. The most important purpose of marrying a daughter-in-law to one's own family is to pass on the generations of one's own family, and some people will have some traditional patriarchal ideas, which deepens this idea. But if a family is happy and the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, this is also a good thing.
The fourth reason is a change of mind. Before the second-married woman was accepted and well known, she was also very ridiculed or spurned, why did she divorce, why did the man's family not want you as a woman, what is the reason? Physical health, laziness or some defects, these are all factors that are rejected by people. Of course, this was done in the past, more than a decade or decades ago, and now people's thinking has changed.
Society is progressing, and so is the people's thinking. Although the rural areas are not as good as the development of the city, but the rural life has also been significantly improved, everyone's thinking is different, the second marriage of women is gradually accepted by everyone, there is more and more difficult to marry the daughter-in-law, the second marriage of women is more popular, and even some of the first married young men are willing to pay a bride price to marry a second marriage woman as their daughter-in-law, which also has the phenomenon of the second marriage of women in the countryside at this time.
Although there are many reasons why second-married women are popular, we still have to believe in the beauty of love, no matter what your identity is, what you have experienced, we all have the right to pursue happiness. Don't be bound by yourself, second-married women can also have a happy family, some second-married women may already have their own children, but the male family will not mind, the reasons are as mentioned above, of course, does not represent all rural phenomena.
III. Conclusion
In the city, the divorce rate is also increasing, the marriage rate is declining, so everyone may still have some views on the second marriage; but in the countryside, the second marriage can be said to be very popular, from all aspects, the second marriage is a very good choice, of course, the premise of our marriage is to their own happiness as a guarantee. The above is the view of the current situation of the second-married woman, what do you think about modern marriage?
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