"Husband and wife are originally the same forest birds, and they fly separately when the great trouble is imminent." Husband and wife are a special kind of relationship, and he connects two unrelated people together in a marital relationship.
Some are in love, some are under the pressure of reality and have to get married.
In this relationship, some people respect each other as guests, and Qinse and Ming are enviable relationships. However, some people are happy in their marital relationships by squeezing each other, and they do not even have the minimum respect.
Yu Xiuhua is in such a marriage relationship, she is not beautiful, she left a problem from the mother's womb, so that the first half of her life was spent in the ridicule of others.
In her marriage, it is even more so, that layer of fragile relationship, in her eyes is not only not happy, but also a disaster.
So when she learned that she could get out of the relationship, she resolutely broke away.
But in this way, she has become a discarded husband in other people's population. In this regard, she resolutely said to the outside world: I have money, I should support him?
Yu Xiuhua was born in a small village in Zhongxiang City, Hubei Province, in the 1970s, because her mother had difficulty giving birth at the time of her birth, which led to cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen at birth and limited mobility.
Because of these flaws, Yu Xiuhua did not learn to walk until she was six years old, and until then, her activities were done by crawling and crawling.
For this reason, her family made a walker for her, but it did not work, and she changed it to a crutch, and she barely learned to walk.
And these weirdnesses made her very strongly excluded and bullied among her peers.
The child's like or dislike is very direct, he does not understand any moral cultivation, he only knows that he does not like it, he hates, which makes the life of young Yu Xiuhua very bumpy.
Yu Xiuhua brought out of the mother's womb, so that she became the object of bullying and ridicule of others, in order to relieve the depression in her heart, she put all her enthusiasm on the love of literature.
She loves poetry, which can bring her emotions that she can't experience in real life, but the poems she makes are equally ridiculed because of her appearance.
One of her teachers only published "Words Are Too Ugly" about the poems she wrote. Fortunately, none of this dispelled Yu Xiuhua's enthusiasm for writing poetry.
Yu Xiuhua's school life only reached high school, and after high school, she was idle at home.
Because of Yu Xiuhua's physical disability, her family is very worried about her life, in order to let their daughter be taken care of, the family arranged a marriage for Yu Xiuhua.
The other party is a tramp from Sichuan, who has been living in a fixed place, and the marriage with Yu Xiuhua can allow him to have a tile to cover his head, which is undoubtedly a good deal for the tramp, but he also looks down on Yu Xiuhua.
And Yu Xiuhua has been growing up in a repressive environment, has always been very longing for a beautiful love, the family's arrangement is undoubtedly to break her dream and put it on the ground.
However, Yu Xiuhua found with great sadness that the reality was such that her Prince Charming did not appear in her life, and some were just tramps who had achieved nothing.
After getting married, the tramp did not fulfill his husband's obligations, but he looked down on Yu Xiuhua very much.
Although he is a rich man, he does not even have the least respect for Yu Xiuhua, for this wife, he is the same as ordinary people, with a different eye, to see Yu Xiuhua's crooked mouth, and walking crooked, this marriage is just a tool so that he does not have to eat and sleep.
The cold violence of the family did not dispel Yu Xiuhua's expectations for a better life, it may be that there was no hope at the beginning, so there will be no disappointment.
Yu Xiuhua and her husband have a son after marriage, looking at the children and looking at the family that has been running hard for many years, Yu Xiuhua silently endures discrimination from her husband, and there is one thing that makes Yu Xiuhua feel cold about her husband.
Because he did not want to see his wife at home, After marriage, Yin Shiping went to work in other places, and suddenly one day he informed Yu Xiuhua that he would take her into the city.
Yu Xiuhua, who thought that she had finally waited for a good and happy life, did not doubt and happily went to her husband's residence, but what was waiting for her husband was to let himself use his body to stop the car and chase after her husband's arrears of wages.
Yin Shiping was owed wages at that time, but he did not have the courage to fight with his own life, so at that time, he immediately thought of the dispensable wife who was discriminated against by himself in his hometown.
How ironic, he refused to fight with his life, but he wanted to gamble with his wife's flesh and blood.
Since then, Yu Xiuhua has seen the true face of her husband's selfishness, and she has also chilled the marriage that had no hope at the beginning.
These painful experiences in life have created Yu Xiuhua's unique understanding and feelings in poetry. She encloses herself in poetry, allowing herself to escape from real life.
Those emotions that cannot be told in life are also put in poems by Yu Xiuhua, so the poems she writes are full of emotions and easily resonate with ordinary people.
Yu Xiuhua began to write poetry at the age of twelve, and she loved the beautiful poetry world, in which there was no ridicule or discrimination.
She did not complain in the poems, but recorded her life, about love, about family affection, about the perception of life, and so on.
Many famous poets feel that Yu Xiuhua's poetry has a high starting point, and she uses her own personal experience to express the survival pain of the women at the bottom of the society at that time.
Yu Xiuhua's persistence is expressed in writing poetry, and for decades, she never thought of giving up.
The most common of Yu Xiuhua's poems is to describe love, and her spirit of struggling in the mud but constantly moving towards the light makes people have to admire.
It is gold that always shines, Yu Xiuhua's light is no longer obscured by her appearance, her literary style is admirable, her poems are read and praised by people, and her experience has made many people marvel and marvel.
In writing poetry, Yu Xiuhua has achieved high achievements, not only in terms of fame she is known by many literati, but also writing poetry has also brought her an income of food and clothing, and she finally does not have to worry about her own survival.
With the contact with the increasingly large world and more and more people, Yu Xiuhua also knows about the failed marriage relationship and can also solve it through divorce.
She didn't have to rely on the man who looked down on her to live the last half of her life, and the cold violence in her married life also made her no different from divorce.
She was very eager for love, and she did not want to spend the rest of her life with the person who did not love her, so she resolutely chose divorce.
In the original social environment, some people would attack her with traditional ideas, believing that she would not recognize her husband and children after she became rich.
However, only Yu Xiuhua herself knows that her choice is incomparably correct, her husband has not fulfilled her husband's responsibilities, "if jun is ruthless, she will rest", this non-free love should indeed end.
And the son of the two, Yu Xiuhua did not abandon, of course, she could not ignore her own hard work to take care of the eldest child, those who said that she abandoned her husband and abandoned her son, but some people who have not yet understood the truth of the matter, they will casually slander others.