Adolescence, which is the key to children's growth, refers to the growth process of 10-18-year-old children, during which adolescents will experience changes in body and mind, and slowly transform from children to adults.
I don't know if you have seen such a movie recently, "The Metamorphosis of Youth", is an animated film produced by Pixar, this animation maintains Pixar's consistent excellent writing, the top level in the industry, telling the story of a 13-year-old girl's puberty.
This movie with fairy tale fantasy color is very attractive, and the protagonist of the story, Meimei, will become a huge furry red panda every time she is emotional.
Seeing that this is not the same as me at the beginning, I think this is a simple fairy tale movie.
But this drama is a cruel reality, the beauty that can become a panda is not understood by the public, and some people call her a "monster". And she can't lose her temper and can't do anything at will, because when she becomes emotionally excited and turns into a panda, it will destroy the things around her.
The film's style is cute, the story is warm and interesting, and it also contains a certain symbolic meaning, a series of troubles encountered by 13-year-old Meimei in adolescence: not being understood, hazy feelings for the opposite sex, and self-inquiry.
As well as the reluctance to suppress the self, the struggle with the mother, etc., are alluded to a series of problems faced by adolescent children, of course, the ending of the story is good, and finally Meimei also got everyone's help, reconciled with herself, and eliminated the contradiction with her parents.
The ending of the movie is satisfactory, but in reality, how should we help our children to smoothly pass through puberty? Here's a chat for parents about how to treat adolescent children.
Adolescent children have a sensitive personality
Adolescent children, personality is very sensitive, like emotional, we as parents, should give children enough understanding and care, understand the child's thoughts, understand their hearts, do not feel that the child's emotions are in the unreasonable trouble, long-term is not valued, will lead to the child's personality become distorted, so that the parent-child relationship becomes estranged.
Adolescent children have strong self-esteem
Adolescent children, subconsciously, think that they are already adults, so they are more eager to be recognized and respected by their parents. When educating their children, parents should pay attention to the dignity of their children and treat her as an independent personality, not as an accessory of anyone. Because children at this stage have developed self-awareness, we should respect the privacy of children and listen to their opinions.
Adolescent curiosity about the opposite sex
Sex, is a topic that can not be avoided during puberty, adolescence regardless of men and women, the body will begin to develop, then the curiosity about the body of the opposite sex will germinate in the child's heart, what parents should do is to give the child the correct guidance, rather than talk about sexual discoloration, such oppression will only make the child more curious, it is possible to do something wrong.
There was once a survey that showed:
The reason why many children steal the forbidden fruit in middle school is precisely because of the lack of sex education and their curiosity about the body of the opposite sex.
It can be seen that adolescent children should be generous in sex education, rather than hidden.
Adolescent children need proper guidance
Adolescent children often encounter various problems, this "mother to adolescent daughter of the book" can let children more understand their own body, for the differences between different genders can have a clear understanding, and maintain a normal, healthy social interaction.
This set of books is designed for adolescent children, including physical, psychological, emotional, dating and other aspects, with warm words to help children through the threshold of adolescence, solve the problem of adolescence, care for the child's body and mind, healthy growth.
Children in adolescence, most of them refuse to communicate with their parents, parents do not know how to communicate, you can send your children such a book, help children answer questions, give correct guidance, and give reasonable answers, such a gentle way of education, can protect the child's weak heart, to avoid triggering the child's rebellious psychology.
At the same time, this set of books also has a boy's version, which is also very suitable for parents to watch, clearly understand the child's troubles, and give help, so that the parent-child relationship is more harmonious.
Every child's adolescence is only experienced once, every child's growth should be taken care of, as a parent, if your child is facing puberty, you may wish to give her a book such as "Mother to Adolescent Child" to help children grow better and make their children's future more worry-free.