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13-year-old children are giving their parents a headache, and the consciousness of adolescent budding, rebellious, and self-pursuit begins to awaken.
The little girl Li Meilin in "Youth Metamorphometer", nicknamed Meimei, is just 13 years old. She is a Chinese girl, good at studying, lively in character, and a good child who is obedient in her mother's heart.
She listens carefully to lectures at school and actively answers questions. Versatile and able to play the flute. When I go home, I will go to the ancestral hall with my mother to clean up and entertain the guests.
The teacher said of him: "A very enterprising, a little annoying little girl".
Some of her classmates did not like her, saying that she was "a competitive and unsociable person." Meimei also gladly accepts all the labels, even if it is not good, she can not defeat her, her youth is so enthusiastic.
Mei Mei also has three good friends, and like girls of the same age, they also like to listen to pop music together and also like to peek at the handsome Dai Wen in the nearby supermarket. Although friends think that Devon is very handsome, Meimei feels that he is not handsome as the members of the idol "Four Cities Boys", but like a tramp.
The "Four Cities Band" is Meimei and her three friends' favorite idols, and their wish is to see an idol's concert.
When she took out her excellent report card, her mother proudly said: "Today is an excellent student, tomorrow will be the Secretary-General of the United Nations."
In the evening, when the mother and daughter watched TV, it played an advertisement for the ticket sales of the "Four Cities Boys" concert, and the mother clearly said that she did not like it, and also described it as a "shining prick".
Meimei did not dare to say that she also liked the "Four Cities Boys" but had to say that her friends liked it. Mom also began to criticize her friends.
Children do not dare to challenge the authority of strong parents, because it takes a lot of courage.
Parents oppose the things that children like, children usually dare not say it, only secretly like, although the surface pretends to be nothing, there are still their own ideas in their hearts.
Perhaps, sometimes it is an unintentional denial from the parents, the child will feel that the parents do not like it, then I will not express it in front of them, even if it is sometimes a lie. This creates a generation gap.
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Meimei, like other adolescent girls, loves fantasies. At night, when I was writing my homework, I unconsciously drew a boy in the notebook, and the more I drew, the more I felt like Devon.
She was a little embarrassed to paint Meimei, so she simply went under the bed to draw it, and she was painting the fantasy "little beauty".
Suddenly, mom Ah Ming came in, accidentally found the boys and girls hugged together in the painting, the mother panicked, fixed her eyes on the boy's hat in the comic is very similar to Devon, and immediately drove to find Devon a lesson.
In front of everyone, including the beautiful male classmates, my mother threw the comic in front of Devon...
In fact, Dai Wen didn't know who Mei Mei was.
At this time, Meimei was humiliated and humiliated, and was ridiculed by her classmates.
Her mother's reckless behavior was a nightmare for Meimei, but she still did not dare to express her unhappiness.
This night, Meimei had a nightmare, and the next day she woke up to suddenly find herself transformed into a huge red red panda.
Meimei was flustered, not knowing what to do, and after several tosses, she finally found that only when she calmed down could she change back into herself.
But the uninformed mother mistakenly thought that meimei anomaly may be the reason for the "big aunt". So I prepared a bunch of sanitary napkins, medicines... After Meimei refused, because she really did not trust her daughter, her mother chased her to school.
In front of Meimei's whole class, she took out a sanitary napkin and shouted at her daughter, once again letting Meimei "die on the spot".
There are many parents who always like to take care of everything about their children, even over-arranged. When the child has a need, and has not yet tried and explored on his own, the parents automatically do everything for the child.
In fact, this will be counterproductive, and children will be deprived of the joy of exploration and lose the opportunity to learn to withstand setbacks.
Another is to make children feel that parents take it for granted that they are doing all this for themselves.
The deep reason behind the exploration is that parents are meeting a need in their hearts.
The beautiful mother is like this, she hopes that her daughter can become an excellent person, naturally she will always take care of her daughter's every move, too much love is sometimes shackled.
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The number of times Meimei became a "red panda" became more and more frequent, which made him very devastated. Finally, exposed in front of friends. Fortunately, her friends are not afraid at all, but they are super fond of her "red panda" appearance.
The acceptance of Meimei by friends makes Meimei feel unconditional love. She gradually calmed down and became truly beautiful.
Why did Meimei turn into a giant red panda?
It turns out that the women of the Meimei family will become red red pandas as long as they are emotional. This is the ability of the ancestors to make a wish, and the emotions will turn red and the red panda, and no one expected that the descendants would be affected by it. The only solution is to control it if the sealing ceremony is held on the "Day of the Red Moon".
Meimei began to learn to coexist with the "monster" in her body, and slowly discovered that it was not so terrible. Even, in order to see the "Four Cities Boys", she and her friends deliberately used their ability to transform into red red pandas to earn concert ticket money.
Unfortunately, the "sealing ceremony" of Meimei and the "Four Cities Boys Concert" are the same day.
Mimi was halfway through the sealing ceremony, gave up, and went to see the concert.
At this time, her mother was furious, and she also turned into a giant "red red panda" to find Meimei...
After a fight between mother and daughter, in the end, Meimei said the truth that she had never dared to say to her mother.
At the end of the film, Mimi says something like this: "We all have potential beasts, we all hide a sloppy, noisy, weird self, but many people never let it be exposed, but I did, what about you?" ”
In fact, in life, why don't we sometimes hide ourselves and then show ourselves that others like? However, the "monster" hidden in our hearts is also eager to move, but we constantly suppress it and dare not really face it. As a result, it becomes distorted and unhappy.
When Meimei first became a red panda, her father said to her a sentence that changed her mind: "Everyone has many faces, some things are messy, and the focus is on pushing away bad things, but making room to coexist with them."
Therefore, halfway through the sealing ceremony, Meimei decided to coexist with the "Red Red Panda". She bravely accepted her imperfections.
Try to make others happy and be yourself. This is what Ah Ming said to MeiMei after understanding her daughter, and perhaps only by exposing their true thoughts to each other can they have a chance to reconcile.
Parents and children get along is a science, only in learning and exploration of their own growth, only respect for children can not become a shackles.