It is the fault of the Father not to teach.
Today's children are really lawless, saying that it is useless to say that it is light, and playing with your life when it is heavy.
In Tongliao, Inner Mongolia, a 15-year-old boy set fire to his home because he could not ask his parents for money. No one expected that in a fire, the perpetrators were their own family.
Seeing this scene, some netizens left a message: Children are here to collect debts.
Such a thing should be a good lesson for parents and teachers, and they should be told that at this age, they should not be compared, should not be too materialistic, and should not be better than their parents' profession, and the only thing to do is to study well.
The 15-year-old boy, because he could not ask his parents for money, set fire to his home
It happened in Tongliao, Inner Mongolia, a 15-year-old teenager who asked his parents for money failed, set fire to his home in a rage, tied his old clothes to the roof of the house, ignited it, and left. Caused a fire.
Fortunately, some neighbors found out in time and quickly put out the fire after calling the police, but even so, the roof of the shed had burned down. It may have to be renovated, and the lost money must be quite a lot. Children may not understand things, which is the big mistake.
Deliberately setting fires is a crime, a child does not understand, and parents may not have taught him.
Afterwards, the 15-year-old said that he knew that he was wrong, and did not think about really burning, but just wanted to use this method to threaten his parents to give money. Since the child is under 16 years of age, the village committee and parents are required to strictly discipline them.
When I was a child, I was spoiled, and when I grew up, I couldn't control it
Seeing that this child is too willful, you can feel that when he was a child, he was spoiled, what he wanted, and if he didn't give, he would cry and threaten his parents, and when he grew up, he would become more intense. Don't cry, just set the fire, if the parents don't compromise, they may have to use the knife. This kind of thing really happened.
When I was a child, I was spoiled, and when I grew up, it was even more difficult to manage. This child is 15 years old, not a child, if you study, you should go to high school, set fires at home, and you will not read seriously at school, you may be a student who loves to compare and love to pick quarrels and troubles.
If you turn 16 years old and deliberately set fire, you will definitely be sentenced, although when you set the fire, your parents want to beat and scold your child, and once you are sentenced, your parents will definitely be more reluctant to do so.
This matter is no wonder to others, they are all used to parents, when they were young, they did not teach their children a sense of safety, and they did not establish a correct three views for their children, so that in the end the house was burned down. Except for self-blame and tears, I'm afraid there is nothing else.
Parenting is not taught, the father's fault, and the lack of family education is the main element of Chinese education
The ancient saying says: Filial piety is produced under the stick, and as a parent, in front of the child, you must be strict. Don't always believe that children can become true friends, not to say no, it's hard.
We are influenced by traditional culture, as parents, it is difficult to really communicate with children, although it is a good thing to become friends with children, most families can not do it, want to be severe, but afraid of scaring children, not strict, feel that children can not grow. I have always lived in entanglements and contradictions.
But their own children, since they are born, must be educated, not to teach, the fault of the father, as a parent, has the responsibility to establish a correct three views for the child. If you don't manage it well, they will torture you well when you grow up. Which is lighter or heavier, there are numbers in the heart.
Filial piety under the stick, although severe, has an effect
As a parent, let the child respect himself, can not ask for what to give, to have principles, especially the generation of relatives, it is easy to spoil the child.
Originally, he coaxed his grandson, but he turned out to be like a grandson in front of his children. Such a parent, it is difficult for children to respect.
Such a family should give parents a lesson the most, let them know that severeness does not mean torturing children, so that children take a correct path, it must pay some price, and these costs, compared with life, are really insignificant.
In addition, parents should educate their children about safety hazards, arson is not a trivial matter, fortunately neighbors find out, otherwise it is not only their own home that is burned, but also may affect others. The consequences are unimaginable.
This matter, can not all blame the child, many times, the child's behavior is learned from the parents.
What kind of parents there are, what kind of children there are. Children are mostly imitators, and parents are the real culprits.
The lack of education is the most common element in our education, especially in remote areas, especially in the closed information, and some deformities in the education of children. I feel used to it, and it's good to grow up.
As everyone knows, the small tree is not repaired and does not slip straight. Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people.
Family education, the responsibility lies mainly with the parents, family education is far more important than school education. But it is most easily overlooked...
Such an ending makes people think deeply, what is wrong with our education...