Recently, a red red panda has captured the hearts of many people because it looks so cute.
This red panda is from Pixar's latest cartoon, "The Metamorphosis of Youth". This is a typical animation of the youth growth type, in which the topic of parent-child relationship can resonate with many parents and children.
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Title: Turning Red
Duration: 100 minutes
Synopsis: Meimei, a 13-year-old girl, grew up in a typical Asian family that runs an ancestral hall open to the public as a tourist attraction, where the ancestors of the family are enshrined. Meimei mother is a caring and slightly neurotic woman who cares for her children, in front of her mother, Meimei always plays the role of a well-behaved woman, but in fact, Meimei, like all children of the same age, is naughty, active, and begins to be interested in the opposite sex. In an accident, Meimei transforms into a red panda under great pressure, thus uncovering the secrets hidden in her family.
A 13-year-old Chinese-American girl in the second grade of junior high school in Canada. She is a bully, with good academic performance, almost a full score in koko, and a medal certificate.
Lively and assertive, although she is not a "social expert", she also has her own "sister Tao".
But in front of her mother Ah Ming, MeiMei completely changed her face: well-behaved and obedient, obedient to her mother' words.
Every day at one o'clock, obediently go home on time, work as a mother's assistant in the ancestral hall managed by his own family, worship his ancestors with incense, engage in hygiene, and be a tour guide.
From study, life to socializing at the same age, she basically does not oppose her mother head-on, even if she does not agree with her mother's statement, she only silently opposes it in her heart; occasionally there are emotions, and she will subconsciously say "I'm sorry" first.
She is used to thinking and doing things according to her mother's expectations, and does not feel that there is anything wrong, so when she is 13 years old, she has fantasies about the opposite sex, and subconsciously feels disgusted: she should not be like this.
Even if her mother embarrassed her by taking her diary without permission and making a big fuss in the supermarket, she did not hate her mother for this, but blamed herself: "You are her pride and happiness, don't let her down!" ”
The absolutely strong mother and the daughter who suppresses the self check and balance each other.
And all this has undergone earth-shaking changes after Meimei woke up to become a red panda.
At first, Meimei could not accept the fact that she had become a red panda, and she was emotional. Mistaken for her puberty, the mother, worried that she would not fit in, secretly followed her to the school, hiding under a tree outside the classroom to monitor her daughter's every move.
Mom's eventual whereabouts are exposed and she is discovered by Meimei's classmates, who ridicule Meimei as a "mother's treasure girl".
Beauty is self-contained, and emotions are out of control.
Later, her mother refused her request to go to the concert on the grounds that she was worried that Meimei would release the red pandas in her body due to emotional excitement, and did not forget to comment on Meimei's musical taste, thinking that the music she liked was "garbage".
Later, Meimei decided to save money to go to the concert with her sisters by making and selling panda peripheral products and was known to her mother. Mom actually ran to accuse her friends of bringing bad beauty.
Such a mother seems to make everyone feel a little suffocated.
But even after going through this, Meimei actually has no intention of breaking with her mother, and she is still afraid of failing her mother's expectations and is deeply sorry, because she knows: "All my mother's hopes and dreams are pinned on me." ”
Seeing this, I think everyone will feel sorry for this sensible child.
Xiao Bo was thinking, maybe not only beautiful mothers, but all of our parents need to think about a problem:
We all want children to be obedient and sensible, but do we want to cultivate a child who is obedient and has good grades, or a child who can really be himself?
For the first 12 years, Meimei has not dared to show her true self in front of her mother, covering up her personality and suppressing her own nature.
But from the release of the red panda that represents emotions in her body, she completely felt the wanton and happy release of herself, and even her father said that she was very interesting.
In the film, there is a very impressive scene: the encounter between Meimei and her adolescent mother. Meimei found that her adolescent mother had also faced the same problems as herself, but she finally chose sacrifice and dedication to achieve a perfect self in the eyes of others. This encounter made them truly open their hearts and complete the reconciliation of the mother-daughter relationship.
During the Red Moon Ceremony, Meimei looks back and sees the happy time of becoming a red panda when she passes through the mirror that examines herself, and finally decides to keep the red panda in her body.
In the end, Xiao Bo sincerely hopes that every child can be brave enough to be themselves, rather than living in the expectations of their parents.
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