As the old saying goes: The house of virtue will be free of calamities.
A family with a good family style, the whole family will benefit from it, so the family's fortunes will be better and better.
The difference between a good family and a bad family is:
A good family will benefit their children a lot, and they have unlimited possibilities in the future;
A bad family will make the children suffer all the grievances, so that there is no way out in the future.
If you want to know whether a family's future is poor or rich, good or bad, just look at these 8 pictures!
01
Good Family: Positive Conversations, Effective Communication.
In a good family, parents are good at communicating with their children, often pay attention to the state of their children, and when they encounter problems, they will not just criticize and scold, but will help children establish their own correct way of handling problems.
Such a family atmosphere, everyone will be very comfortable, parent-child relationship is more intimate.
Bad families: Negative conversations, poor communication.
Bad families often lack communication and burst with negative energy.
Verbal violence in less than three sentences, even refusal to communicate, not listening to children's explanations and ideas, and rude scolding.
02
Good family: feel safe and comfortable.
A good family makes people feel comfortable and warm, no matter where they are, as long as they think of home, they are full of infinite strength and fighting spirit.
Bad Family: Feeling nervous and scared.
Bad families make people afraid and uneasy, and it is the sad place that even if they are bitter in their hearts, they do not want to go back.
Good families heal, bad families make matters worse.
03
Good Family: Lots of praise and praise.
A good family can see the potential and characteristics of the child, and reward the child in time, and every feedback increases the child's confidence.
Bad Families: More criticism and accusations.
Bad families like to be critical and dissatisfied with a place, so they completely deny their children, weaken their children's self-confidence, and make him feel more and more confused about their future and isolated.
04
Good Family: Show love often.
A good family tells his child anytime and anywhere how much Mom and Dad love him, so that he feels that he is special, unique, and cherished.
Even if a child makes a mistake, he will not feel abandoned by his parents, and he has established a sense of security and cultivated the ability to love from an early age.
Bad Family: Hide Your Love.
Bad families will hide their love, even lack it.
Parents rarely express love for their children, cold and rude. Over time, the child will have a lot of trauma, insecurity, and estrangement.
05
Good Family: Lead by example, teach by example than words.
A good family will put teaching by example in a prominent position, parents will lead by example, take the initiative to make positive examples for their children to observe and learn, and will not overly ask their children to do things that they cannot do, and will not just say no.
Bad Families: Discipline children in a rough way that yells and screams.
Bad families are full of dogma and control, and parents impose a lot of things they can't do on their children, and if the children can't do it, they are scolding each other.
Parents are usually domineering and aggressive, saying one thing and not saying the other, forcing their children into a dead end, never thinking about their own problems.
06
Good Family: Parents pour their time into giving their children high-quality companionship.
A good family attaches great importance to the wholehearted companionship of the child, and the parents always pay attention to the child, but do not interfere too much, and make the parent-child time colorful and meaningful;
Bad Family: Little interaction and companionship.
Bad families often sacrifice parent-child time for their own free time, and family members are almost in a state of zero communication except for eating, especially fathers, who are absent from their children's childhood growth for various high-sounding reasons.
07
Good Family: Talk openly about your feelings.
A good family is open, parents are willing to listen to the needs and feelings of the child, let the child freely express his subjective feelings, and give the child more advice and guidance;
Bad Family: Feelings and thoughts cannot be expressed.
Bad family atmosphere is gloomy, children must only be parents, not allowed to question and ask questions, children are depressed in their hearts, and their language expression ability is also greatly limited.
08
Good Family: Encouragement is the mainstay.
A good family will lend a helping hand when the child is frustrated, encouraging him to overcome difficulties step by step and overcome difficulties;
Bad Families: Punishment is the mainstay.
Bad families advocate force, indiscriminate and severe punishment for their children's mistakes, and the children's hearts are slowly occupied by fear.
What kind of family, what kind of children to raise.
The above eight pictures clearly show us how good families make good children and how bad families destroy children.
Children are the future of the family, the poor and rich of the family are naturally in their hands, excellent children, will inevitably make the family more and more rich, life is getting better and better.
I hope that we will all do our best to be positive energy parents, build a positive energy family, let children live in a happy and comfortable paradise, grow up freely and happily, and become a useful person to society.
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