Many parents wait until the child's problem breaks out, and then urgently hope to communicate with the child, and say a lot of bitter words, which has no effect. What children need is not to preach, but to really communicate with their hearts.
Some parents think that chatting is what to say and have no scruples, but in fact, it is not.
Chatting should be an art, and effective chatting will build a bridge between the hearts of children and parents, and this bridge will connect the generation gap between generations. Casual and unskilled chats can sometimes have a negative effect, causing children to lose trust in their parents and have serious consequences of gradually closing their minds.
Although, when chatting with a child, you may accidentally be distracted by his jumping thinking, but at least two things:
Children talk to me with an equal attitude and do not hide their true feelings;
He has his own way of thinking and dares to express it.
Every day before going to bed, take 20 minutes to chat with your child, is a good opportunity to close the parent-child relationship, so what can you chat about, not only can make the parent-child relationship more intimate, but also exercise the child's thinking ability and language expression ability?
1. If you could turn into an animal, what would you most like to become? (Imagination)
2. We all tell a little secret, how about coming to exchange? (Privacy Issues)
3. If one day, I am captured by a monster, how can you come to my rescue? (Security Awareness)
4. If you were a teacher, how would you manage obedient and disobedient students? (Management Ability)
5. If you were at home by yourself and a stranger knocked on the door to come in, would you open the door? (Awareness of prevention)
6. If your mom is unhappy, what method will you use to coax your mom? (Caring ability)
7. If you think your answer is right and the teacher is wrong, will you stick to your answer? (Assertive Awareness)
8. What do you feel about a good family? (Happiness Cognition)
9. If a classmate says bad things about you in class several times, how long will you endure? (Conflict Resolution)
10. Do you think there are more benefits or disadvantages to going to school? (Learning Values)
11. Which kid do you talk to the most today? (Social issues)
12. If you were given $100, how would you spend it? (Money Management)
13. After school, a strange aunt told you that her mother had something to let her pick you up, will you go with your aunt? (Anti-deception awareness)
14. What do you feel are your natural talents? (Self-awareness)
15. If you were a mom and dad for a day, how would you arrange our lives? (Parent-child interaction ability)
16. Mom wants to hear stories, can you tell Mom one? (Knowledge Reserve)
17. How do you feel about playing very hard and losing an important game? (Resistance to setbacks)
18. If you're in trouble, who do you want me to protect you like? (Crisis Management)
19. What do other children say about you, do you feel that they are right? (Self-impression)
20. When do you feel like someone else is lying to you? (Social Maturity)
21. What should I do if you are making rice with an electric rice cooker and the power is cut off? (Self-care ability)
22. How many kinds of chores can you name, the more the better? (Family Life Observation)
23. Mom wants to go camping on the weekend, what are we going to prepare? (Planning Capability)
24. Who is the most powerful and your idol in your heart? (Ideal Yourself)
Isn't a harmonious parent-child relationship the premise of education? And a harmonious parent-child relationship begins with chatting. Enjoy this chat opportunity Oh, talk equally and intimately before going to bed every day, you will find it easy to enter the child's heart at this time, at this time, the child is willing to open their hearts to you. As your child grows older, the learning tasks gradually increase, and this opportunity may become more and more rare!