Practice is the only criterion for testing all truths, as the saying goes, knowing what is natural is more important to know why it is so, in life, no matter what we encounter, we need to use theory to support action, but also use practice to test theory, to be clear in life what causes the behavior deviation between individuals.
In modern society, the elderly group seems to have become a group that is highly disliked, and the reasons for this are more complicated. In the final analysis, the main reason is probably because the ability of the elderly to pay in life has declined, and the degree of acquisition has been rising.
In fact, many elderly people have a more eccentric personality and a larger temper when they are young.
However, because they can support themselves by relying on themselves when they are young, they do not need to look at others' faces, they do not need to rely on others to live, and they do not need the company and care of others, so even if there are defects in their personality, they will not lead to excessive disgust among the people around them.
In addition, there are some people who cannot keep up with the pace of the development of the times, always maintain their existing cognitive level, choose to be self-contained, unwilling to accept any new things in society, and unwilling to continue to learn and enrich their minds.
This can lead to a serious disconnect between people and society, a serious lack of cognitive level, and ultimately difficult to communicate properly with others.
When such people enter the old age, they will inevitably face the situation of being unable to take care of themselves and need children to take care of and support themselves, which will inevitably bring some trouble to the people around them and occupy a lot of time and energy of others.
Therefore, if we want to completely change the situation of rejection of the elderly group, we should actually correct it from the perspective of the root cause.
Decreased ability to give
If you want to completely change such a bad social phenomenon, you can't just talk about it, good habits need to be formed as soon as possible, and in life, everyone should consciously improve their level and ability to pay in all aspects.
In terms of personal temperament, many people do not know where to start and correct it. But in fact, there is no good or bad difference between the personality and temperament of the individual, which is mainly determined by the subjective consciousness of the individual and the cognition of society.
The cultivation of individual personality and temper is actually similar to the cultivation of emotional intelligence, which requires a lot of acquired learning and training, and the pattern and vision are very important for this, and a person living in society wants to have a longer-term development, must have a broad vision.
No matter what age people, if there is no broad vision and enough pattern, they will be troubled by the small things around them, and they are thinking about it all the time, and such people will naturally not be liked. On the contrary, it can give people a feeling of open-mindedness and open-mindedness.
In addition, we should also pay attention to the problem of the cost of income, not only focus on the benefits of money, but also need to further deepen the understanding of whether there are hidden interests behind various things.
In short, all kinds of material benefits belong to the productive forces, and the causes of the productive forces are mostly for the sake of the individual. So there is no doubt that the individual is the source of materials, but also the source of emotions, and when you can grasp a person's heart, it is when you can grasp the whole world.
As individuals continue to age, the ability to receive information will gradually decrease, coupled with the continuous decline of physical functions, the disconnect with society and the times will become more obvious.
If you want to avoid this situation, the best way is to start learning as much as possible at a young age, improve your ability to accept new things, and constantly revise your original way of knowing, so as not to be too early to disconnect from society.
Life is hard to take care of
Birth, old age, illness and death are natural rules that we cannot escape, with the increase of age, the continuous decline of physical functions is also an inevitable phenomenon, if you encounter disease troubles in the old age, it is likely to gradually become unable to take care of yourself.
If you want to completely solve this problem, in fact, you must start from the young age of the individual, pay attention to exercise to enhance physical fitness, enhance resistance. Pay attention to diet, do not stay up late to reduce the probability of chronic diseases in their own body, and delay the aging rate of their bodies to the greatest extent.
If your age is about to enter the old age stage, you want to exercise, and your body has become inadequate, then you need to pay attention to not relying too much on the people around you, and reduce your unreasonable emotions, so as not to bring unnecessary trouble to your children.
And also pay attention to whether in the material or spiritual aspects, when your own ability to pay is insufficient, you should try to minimize the amount of demand from others, so that you can also avoid being disliked by others to the greatest extent.
Being able to live a happy and happy life is also a manifestation of strong ability, and if individuals can have this ability, it will also have a positive impact on the people around them and become a group that can be respected in the crowd.