You raise me small, I raise you old, this is the best interpretation of the relationship between parents and children. For the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you help me raise a child, and I help you to provide for the elderly, which is also the best state of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.
Many people say that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are not related by blood, and the two have no obligations and rights. However, in real life, we all know that even if you calculate your feelings and duties clearly, you can't help but be kidnapped by family affection.
Therefore, if you want the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be harmonious, you have to pay something and exchange your sincerity for it. Only in this way can family harmony and harmonious relations be achieved.
01, 10 years ago, I left my daughter-in-law to take care of my daughter
Zhao Xia thought that her mother-in-law would have selfish intentions, but she did not expect that her mother-in-law would be so cruel. Shortly after she gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law left her confinement daughter-in-law and ran to the home where she married her daughter to help take care of her grandson.
Zhao Xia in the moon did not shed tears. It's just that no matter how aggrieved she is, her mother-in-law has not turned back, but she has said that whose daughter takes care of her, she takes care of her daughter's children, which is natural. If Zhao Xia was not convinced, she would also go to her parents to serve.
Later, it was the parents who learned the news, so they rushed to take Zhao Xia back to her mother's house to sit in the confinement, otherwise Zhao Xia's entire confinement would be scrapped. After that, the relationship between Zhao Xia and her mother-in-law has always been cold and indifferent.
Even if Zhao Xia was busy with work and took care of the children alone, she did not whisper to her mother-in-law for help and let her mother-in-law help. Because she knows very well that her mother-in-law only treats her as an outsider, as for the daughter she gave birth to, her mother-in-law is also not to be seen, otherwise how can she prefer to bring her grandson rather than her own granddaughter?
The mother-in-law's ruthless heart made Zhao Xia retreat. Usually, she does not take the initiative to contact her mother-in-law at all, and at most she only accompanies her husband back during the New Year's Festival.
Her husband had also communicated with her, saying that there were no parents in the world, and his mother had no obligation to serve her daughter-in-law, so that Zhao Xia did not worry about it, and the old man held on to the revenge of that little confinement.
02, 10 years later, the mother-in-law has a cerebral infarction and sister throws the pot
Her husband's preaching made Zhao Xia a little hurt, but she still went her own way and did not change in the slightest. The couple bumped into each other like this, and the child gradually grew up, and Zhao Xia's resentment towards her mother-in-law slowly faded, but it was only done but did not ask or make friends.
It wasn't until 10 years later, when her mother-in-law was tired and tired at her sister's house, that Zhao Xia discovered that in this world, some people are so inching forward and righteous. After the mother-in-law had a brain infarction, life could not take care of herself, and my sister took care of her for a week, so she used the excuse that she was busy at work, and there were old and young people, and she had to send her mother-in-law back.
The husband is an honest person, otherwise he would not have watched his parents bully his wife and be indifferent. This time is no exception, the aunt threw the pot, the husband will follow with both hands, no complaints.
But where can Zhao Xia bear these nests, she asked her husband, you accepted the mother-in-law, usually both people have to go to work, then who will take care of the mother-in-law? The husband said with embarrassment, it is really not OK, you resign to serve my mother, after all, your salary is not high, and it is not a pity to resign.
Zhao Xia was almost laughed at, she didn't know where her husband came from, asking her to resign to serve her mother-in-law? But the husband's voice just fell, on the side to see the lively sister stood up, she echoed: my mother this brain infarction, a moment and a half will not be better, around 24 hours can not be separated from people, brother and sister you still resign to come back to take care of it, so that everyone can work with peace of mind.
03, daughter-in-law: who mother who serves
My sister's words were so nice, but they didn't care about her feelings and emotions at all. If the mother-in-law has helped her with the child for several years and fulfilled her duty and affection, then she will not hesitate to fulfill her duty and affection.
But the mother-in-law is tired for the sake of the sister with the child, and the one who should rush to the front to take care of the mother-in-law is not the sister's own daughter? Zhao Xia felt that her sister really crossed the river and demolished the bridge, and was ruthless to the extreme.
And the mother-in-law who was lying on the bed and could not take care of herself, watching her daughter argue with her son and daughter-in-law about her own belonging, tears of heartache turned in her eyes. She regretted why she was obsessed with ghosts and only wanted to help her daughter, but treated her daughter-in-law as an outsider? But if she had been slightly better to her daughter-in-law over the years, perhaps her daughter-in-law would not have turned her away.
It was only the mother-in-law's self-blame and remorse, and Zhao Xia did not appreciate it. Even if she also sympathizes with her mother-in-law's plight, she will not take the initiative to take care of her mother-in-law. It's not a day or two thing, it's years, or even decades.
Others said that there was no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, not to mention that she and her mother-in-law were not half related by blood, and she did not dare to guarantee that she could serve her mother-in-law for several years.
Zhao Xia took out 50 million yuan, handed it to her sister, and told her that whose mother was waiting, she was single-mindedly helping you, as a beneficiary, you should also serve her wholeheartedly to give her a pension. This 5,000 yuan is even a little bit of my heart, you can take care of yourself, you can also ask a nurse, but let me serve, there is no door.
After saying that, Zhao Xia closed her own door, allowing her husband to plead with her husband later, and Zhao Xia did not agree to resign to serve her mother-in-law.
Today's Topic:
Do you support what Zhao Xia did?