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Before the son and daughter-in-law did not get married, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law and her parents promised that after marriage, they would treat the daughter-in-law kindly, the daughter-in-law was the person in their family, she would definitely treat the daughter-in-law as her own daughter, but as soon as the son and the daughter-in-law got married, the mother-in-law forgot her promise, not to mention being kind to the daughter-in-law, that is, treating the daughter-in-law like an ordinary person, they were not willing, anyway, they wanted to make it difficult for the daughter-in-law and torture the daughter-in-law.
Always put the daughter-in-law is an outsider on the lips, want the daughter-in-law to understand her status, want the daughter-in-law to understand that she is not a person in this family, and there is no blood relationship with this family, the mother-in-law often says so, which daughter-in-law will be happy? Which daughter-in-law would be willing to be filial to her mother-in-law? Treat your mother-in-law like a mother-in-law?
Good things do not have the daughter-in-law's share, but when encountering trouble, such as paying for such a thing, the mother-in-law's first thought is the daughter-in-law, when she changed her usual attitude, and told the daughter-in-law, they are all family, should help each other, in the face of the mother-in-law's face, the daughter-in-law does not mention how disgusted.
01. Daughter-in-law is always an outsider
Li Juan and her husband are introduced to know, before marriage, parents learned that the husband has a younger brother in the family, they told Li Juan, after marriage, we must get along with the mother-in-law, the in-laws and the little uncle are treated as a family, do not always compare with the little uncle, think that the mother-in-law is biased towards this, eccentric to that.
The reason why the parents told Li Juan so much is because Li Juan's cousin-in-law's family is also two sons, and after the cousin married the cousin-in-law, the cousin felt that the mother-in-law was biased against the little uncle and always had conflicts with the in-laws, resulting in the relationship between the cousins and brothers-in-law being very awkward, and even unable to communicate, and the cousin-in-law felt that the cousin had done too much, and the feelings of the husband and wife were also very bad.
Li Juan took what her parents said in her heart, after marrying her husband, how she treated her parents, how to treat her in-laws, because Li Juan is the only daughter in the family, do not know how to get along with brothers and sisters, so as far as possible to be good to the little uncle, what the young boy likes, she will buy a copy for the little uncle, the little uncle treats Li Juan as a sister.
Li Juan's relationship with the little uncle is very good, but how can the relationship with her mother-in-law not be good? She bought clothes for her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law did not like it, said it was too expensive, she bought health care products for her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law did not want to eat, said that it was useless to eat those things, she spent a lot of money to buy a jade jade bracelet for her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law said it was fake.
Once, the mother-in-law had a birthday, she bought a gold bracelet for the mother-in-law, thinking that this time it is impossible to say that it is false, but the mother-in-law at the dinner table praised the gift sent by the little uncle is good, the gift sent by the husband is good, that is, she did not say how about the gift she sent? I didn't even look at the gold bracelet she bought.
The mother-in-law said at the dinner table, "Mom's greatest achievement in this life is to give birth to your two precious sons, mom can expect you to give me a pension in the future, other people have girlfriends, saying that girls are intimate and thoughtful, but mom is not envious." ”
The husband said to the mother-in-law, "Mom, you have no daughter-in-law, but you have a daughter-in-law, Lijuan will be filial to you with me, in the future, when my brother gets married, my sister-in-law will also be filial to you, you don't have to envy them, your daughter-in-law is your daughter-in-law!" ”
"Yes, brother is right, how filial my sister-in-law is, in the future I will marry my wife, and my wife will also be filial to you."
Listening to her husband and uncle's words, the mother-in-law laughed, and she said, "What a joke, my daughter-in-law is not born to me, she is not related to me, and my daughter-in-law will always be an outsider." ”
Listening to what her mother-in-law said, her husband and little uncle were stunned, and Li Juan felt extremely embarrassed and felt that everything she did for her mother-in-law was ridiculous.
02. The little uncle is getting married
The little uncle is only three years younger than her husband, he and his girlfriend are college classmates, the relationship between the two people has been very stable, not long ago, Li Juan heard her husband say that the little uncle planned to marry his girlfriend, Li Juan felt that this was a great joy, so she made a call to the little uncle, congratulations, and said that if there is a need for their own help, you must tell me yourself.
The little uncle said that Li Juan is his sister-in-law, but he took Li Juan as his sister, if there is a need for her help, it will not be polite, during that time, the little uncle is busy looking at the marriage house, ready to buy a house, Li Juan also said to her husband, if the little uncle buys a house and lacks money, let the husband directly take it to the little uncle, without consulting with himself.
For Li Juan's understanding, tolerance and generosity, the husband is really extremely grateful, glad that he can marry such a good wife as Li Juan.
03. I scolded my mother-in-law
The marriage date of the little uncle has been set, Li Juan and her husband went back to the in-laws' house to eat, saying that they wanted to discuss the marriage of the little uncle, the husband said that Li Juan was careful, she must be able to think of some things that others could not notice, Li Juan felt that the little uncle got married, and she must help as a sister-in-law.
But this time back to the in-laws' house to eat, the mother-in-law's attitude towards her is a little strange, before the mother-in-law to Li Juan is a love to ignore the attitude, but this time is particularly enthusiastic about her, but also took the initiative to give her vegetables, which makes Li Juan feel a little flattered.
At the dinner table, the mother-in-law said to Li Juan, "Daughter-in-law, all of them are from their own families, and you should take 100,000 yuan when your little uncle buys a house." ”
Li Juan suddenly understood the meaning of her mother-in-law, and she scolded her mother-in-law with a sentence of "I am not an outsider?" ”
"Daughter-in-law, you see what you said, how can you be an outsider?" You are the daughter-in-law of our family. ”
The mother-in-law can really change her face, and when she has something to ask, her attitude changes suddenly.
The little uncle said to Li Juan, "Sister-in-law, I almost paid for buying a house, you first borrow me a sum of money, I will definitely pay you back later." ”
"Look at your child, you buy a marriage house, your sister-in-law should pay for it, what is not to pay back?"
"Mom, what are you talking about?" What is it that my sister-in-law should pay for? ”
"Sister-in-law, I borrowed this money from you, I'll give you an IOU in a moment, and I'll pay you back later."
To tell the truth, for this attitude of the mother-in-law, Li Juan is a little dissatisfied, if the little uncle is also like the mother-in-law, think she should pay this money, then she will never give this money, but the little uncle's attitude is completely different from the mother-in-law, the little uncle understands that Li Juan is not obliged to give this money, so this money is borrowed.
"I've always taken you as a brother, you get married and buy a house, I can help as a sister-in-law, I will help you later, let your brother transfer the money to you later, you don't have to rush to pay back, take care of your own business first, and then it is not too late to pay back when you have money later, we are not in a hurry."
"Thank you sister-in-law."
"It's okay, when preparing for the wedding, if there is anything you need my brother and I to help, you tell us directly, don't be embarrassed!"
"Sister-in-law, I will not be polite with you, I have a better relationship with you than with my brother, I have always wanted to have a sister, but my mother gave birth to a brother for me, but my brother married you, I am happy to die." 」
Hearing the little uncle say this, Li Juan's heart is very happy, although the mother-in-law is not a good person to get along with, but the little uncle is a person who knows how to be grateful and reasonable, presumably the couple will be able to get along with the little uncle and the couple in the future, as for the mother-in-law, let her toss it alone.
To tell the truth, the mother-in-law treats the daughter-in-law as a family, treats the daughter-in-law well, respects the daughter-in-law, there is only good for her, not to mention, she is good to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will be willing to filial piety to her in the future, give her a pension, and moreover, she treats the daughter-in-law well, loves the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will live with her son wholeheartedly, which is also helping the son, but the mother-in-law is not willing to do this, they are afraid of spoiling the daughter-in-law.
Mothers-in-law in their hearts are not willing to identify with the daughter-in-law and them as a family, unwilling to agree that the daughter-in-law is the person in their family, in the end it is because of blood relations, but blood relations are so important, there is no blood relationship between husband and wife, but they are the most important people for each other.
Do everything to leave room, treat their daughter-in-law, mother-in-law can not only think of squeezing, persecution, difficulty, should know how to accept, respect, tolerate this woman who married into your family, you are good to your daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law will be grateful, but also will bring blessings to yourself, do not let yourself become a troublesome elder.
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