Beautiful love can not be sought, everyone is eager to meet the right person, can hold the hand of the son, and the son with the old is undoubtedly the most enviable thing, but the world of feelings is very complicated, sometimes not to pay all can be rewarded, nor to come together to spend the rest of their lives together, after all, marriage is not love, in addition to seeing whether the other party is sincere, but also to see each other's family situation, otherwise love is too blind, it is difficult to have happiness after marriage.
Xu Lei's marriage is like this, she was born in a patriarchal family, her parents gave all the spoils to the younger son, although there is no squeeze on the daughter, but it will not be taken seriously, Xu Lei is like a marginal person at home, always can not be integrated, since childhood lack of love she, but also eager to have her own family, in order to get the attention of her parents, but also for the future happiness when she has the ability to grasp, Xu Lei especially hard, whether it is reading or working, she has to pay more to others.
Her efforts have also been rewarded, in the workplace she is a strong woman, the job is good, the salary is also high, but her parents still ignore her feelings, and finally Xu Lei turned to others to need warmth and love, at a party she met Wang Kai, she did not have a good feeling for Wang Kai, but Wang Kai fell in love with her at first sight and began a warm pursuit, not long after, she fell into each other's sweet words and booing and greetings, Xu Lei, who has not been valued since childhood, only wants to have a home, has a husband who loves herself, and it just so happens that Wang Kai satisfied this, So she was eager to get married, and after only half a year of dating, she stepped into the palace of marriage.
But the imaginary happy life has not come, after all, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but the run-in of two families, the mother-in-law is particularly difficult to get along with, and it is very double-standard, she can buy anything herself, but the daughter-in-law no matter what she buys, even if it is a daily necessities used by the family, she will also chatter non-stop, saying that she will not live at home, sometimes overtime is late, and will say whether she is deliberately avoiding doing housework.
There are many such things, but what makes Xu Lei cold is her husband's attitude, which will only blindly let her endure, and then Xu Lei became pregnant, because of the excessive reaction, she had to resign, seeing that her daughter-in-law had no source of income, and her mother-in-law did not have a good face to give her, once when Xu Lei felt that her mother-in-law's cooking taste was too heavy, she was counted down by her mother-in-law, saying that she did not know how to be grateful, and some of them were too much to eat, and in the days to come, the mother-in-law was too lazy to cook for her again, and Xu Lei had to stand up with a big belly to eat herself.
Until later, the daughter was born, but the mother-in-law preferred sons to daughters, which made Xu Lei particularly unacceptable, she knew how much of an influence a patriarchal family had on the children, especially when confinement, the mother-in-law was even more indifferent to her, often sneering, Xu Lei was completely cold, until after the child was full moon, she resolutely proposed a divorce, no matter how the husband retained, she was not moved.
In the days after the divorce, her parents did not have any help for her, but said that her brother wanted to get married, she could not live at home, her mother's family could not be relied on, she could only rely on herself to work hard, fortunately, with the help of friends, she took the child while doing part-time work, and later with solid work experience, she had her own studio, ten years after the divorce, her daughter went to primary school, well-behaved and sensible, her burden on her body was also a lot easier, and she also had her own house, and the quality of life was getting better and better.
On the other hand, Wang Kai, and later married a second time, but the other party's temper is particularly grumpy, as long as the mother-in-law dares to say something unpleasant, she can keep arguing until the evening, the time is long Wang Kai can not stand it, the mother is constantly urging him to divorce, and then the other party wants to take a large amount of property, which ended the marriage, in the days to come, he has remained single, the mother wants to find him a companion, but others as long as they inquire about him divorced twice, they will not be gone.
Seeing that she could not find an object for her son, she thought of Xu Lei again, especially when she learned that she was now successful in her career, and she had not been married, so she thought that she could not let go of her son, so she came to the door and said: Daughter-in-law, you can earn money so much now, hurry back and remarry with my son. Xu Lei was stunned when she heard it, and then sneered back: "It is impossible, at first you did not look at me, now I see that I have a house and a car, your son can't marry his wife and think of coming to me, I am not so stupid, in the future you will not come to me, go your separate ways. After saying that, he directly drove the other party away.
The poet Yu Xiuhua said: Women must be sober in their feelings, and they must not let themselves have no way to retreat. Indeed, love is beautiful, but also need to give the true heart to the right person, and marriage is not to talk about love, want to get married to be cautious, to recognize each other's family, when their own interests are damaged, but also have the courage to maintain the end, if you really can't get along, but also boldly choose to stay away, there is a saying: marriage is not necessarily happy, single is not necessarily very bad. When you are completely disappointed in marriage, divorce is just to escape the existing environment and start a new life, as long as you don't give up, life can still be wonderful.