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Author: More more, original author of the emotional essay
Many families have contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the reason why some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are still quite harmonious is because the contradictions are still very small, and some mother-in-law contradictions have surfaced and are very large, so it is not good to look good, and it is naturally a bad relationship to face it.
If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, husband and wife will affect the feelings because of these small things, in many families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, it will make chickens and dogs restless, who does not want their home to be very harmonious and harmonious?
But sometimes mother-in-law and daughter-in-law just can't get along well.
Because the contradictions between many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be solved by many people, it is necessary for two people to have the idea of reconciliation between themselves, and sometimes the mother-in-law does not let the daughter-in-law, or the daughter-in-law does not let the mother-in-law, it is impossible.
In fact, there is no need for tit-for-tat confrontation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just get by on the face, be generous as a mother-in-law, be a little sensible as a daughter-in-law, and many things can pass.
Why should women be embarrassed by women? When you are old as a mother-in-law, you still have to count on your daughter-in-law to be filial to yourself and be good to yourself. Isn't there always a time when a daughter-in-law wants to count on her mother-in-law to help her?
Therefore, whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, we should tolerate each other, so that life will get better and better.
Pingping is a slightly fat girl, she has always felt inferior to this, feel that she is a little fat, it is impossible for a man to like her. So I broke up when I was in love and didn't talk about it a few times, and the reason for the breakup was because she was too inferior.
It is precisely because of this vicious circle that she does not dare to fall in love casually, because many boys will politely reject her after contact.
But then she met a boy named Liu Gang, Liu Gang liked Pingping very much, he said that he didn't mind the girl's appearance at all, and he had to look at people outside.
And he felt that Pingping was a very sensible and attractive girl, and he especially liked to be with Pingping. Pingping and Liu just began to communicate, and after the exchange, the relationship between the two people went deeper and they loved each other more.
Liu Gang said that he wanted to marry Pingping, and Pingping was also willing. So I went home with Liu Gang to meet his parents, but I didn't expect that his mother didn't have a good color at first sight when she saw her, and her face was full of disgust.
He also said to her face: "You are so fat, our family does not like your type." Pingping couldn't get off the stage on the spot, and she blushed and said, "Auntie, I will lose weight." ”
Later, Liu Gang's mother was embarrassed about Pingping, taking Pingping's weight to say things, she went to Liu Gang's home, his mother said: "Pingping, you do more housework, just can lose weight." ”
In fact, Pingping was very uncomfortable when she heard it, but she still put up with it, after all, it was Liu Gang's mother, and she didn't want Liu Gang to be uncomfortable. In fact, Liu Gang also knew. But he couldn't change anything.
Later, the two people were ready to get married, Liu Gang's mother said: "Pingping, your conditions are like that, the marriage room will not be bought, live with us, so that you can not only do housework to lose weight, but also enhance the feelings between our families." ”
Pingping asked, "Auntie, does buying a marriage house have anything to do with my weight?" ”
Liu Gang's mother was dumbfounded, did not say anything, Liu Gang said: "Mom, the marriage room is what you promised to buy, if you are not willing to help, I will pay the down payment myself." ”
Pingping also said at the side: "Auntie, I can also pay part of the money for the house." In this way, Liu Gang's mother in the marriage room came out with a part, Liu Gang took a part of it himself, and Pingping also came out with a part, and with this money, they bought a marriage house in a better location.
Just because this Liu Gang's mother has always held a grudge against Pingping, she feels that her mother-in-law has not yet entered the door with herself, and she is very faceless, she thought that she must find an opportunity to embarrass her mother-in-law.
The wedding was held as scheduled, there were many relatives and friends who came to the scene that day, and everyone liked Pingping to think that she was gentle and generous, and looked very sweet. They all praised Liu Gang for finding a good daughter-in-law, so that Liu just cherished Pingping.
As mentioned earlier, Liu Gang's mother has always hated her daughter-in-law because of the house, and that day she joked about Pingping in front of many relatives and friends: "Pingping, you are careful, your wedding dress is too tight, you don't open it." ”
Many people heard the words said by the mother-in-law, Pingping instantly blushed, Pingping could not bear it anymore, and it did not matter to herself.
But on the day of marriage, every bride is the most beautiful, even if everyone does not feel so, they will not let themselves get off the stage, so that they can embarrass themselves, but this person is his future mother-in-law.
Pingping was really angry, and she told Liu Gang: "Liu Gang, I haven't officially stepped into your house yet, it's not too late." This means that she may not be married to this marriage.
Liu Gang's mother immediately panicked when she heard this, afraid of ruining her son's wedding, she just wanted to embarrass her, but she didn't expect that she was really angry.
Liu Gang asked his mother to quickly apologize to Pingping, she also apologized to Pingping, Pingping forgave her mother-in-law, the wedding was held normally, and it ended successfully.
Since that incident, Liu Gang has told his mother not to look for Pingping's stubble, not to bully Pingping, he told himself that his mother Pingping is a good girl, and he can feel it if he treats it with his heart.
Pingping also regarded her as a mother, he asked his mother not to think so narrowly, always felt that Pingping was not in good shape or something, and he had to look inside to see people.
Fortunately, the old lady still listened, and she thought about it as if she was a little annoying, and she was indeed a little too much for her daughter-in-law, and it was annoying to pick and choose.
Ming Ming Pingping is actually a good girl, very good to the family, very diligent at home, never spend money indiscriminately, be honest and responsible, now looking for someone to live is not to find such a good girl, why can't he sit idly by sarcastically satirizing her?
She did change a lot, Pingping also looked in her eyes, she thought to herself, her mother-in-law has taken the initiative to change her mind, she can no longer think about it.
So the relationship between the two people is much better than before, although it can't be said to be like the biological mother and daughter, but it is much better than before.
A little more about:
In the final analysis, the relationship between these two people, Liu Gang actually played a great role in the middle.
Because Liu Gang saw everything in his eyes. She knew that his wife had been wronged, and usually he would put up with it, but when he couldn't bear it, he naturally had to help his wife speak.
As a mother-in-law, don't be harsh on your daughter-in-law to be perfect, and don't be a daughter-in-law to be perfect.
After all, there is no perfect person in the world, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also need to tolerate each other and get used to each other.
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