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Marriage is an important and rewarding day for everyone.
Some new people can rejoice and marry on that day. However, some newcomers are in a state of flux, and they are unhappy and scattered.
The mother-in-law in the next case was injured by the unsatisfied daughter-in-law, which also caused a farce.
Aunt Li's son is about to get married recently, and she should have been happy, but she couldn't laugh at this time.
Because the daughter-in-law who is about to marry into the door can choke their family enough.
His son Li Sen secretly talked about love with them two years ago, until Li Sen spent almost all the money, and then confessed to his parents about it.
The old couple really can't understand how ordinary to talk about a relationship cost seven or eighty thousand.
After careful interrogation, I learned that the woman was a teacher in a public middle school, and the person was also considered Tonyo.
Li Sen said that it is not easy to catch up with Pingping, so falling in love has always been responsive, and he also bought some luxury goods.
Parents know that their sons are in love and are not good enough to object, so they say that they have time to take the girl home to see.
Li Sen was very happy to know that his parents approved, and privately he often talked to his girlfriend Pingping about going home to see his parents.
After all, he spent a lot of money, or he wanted to marry home early to be at ease.
But Pingping has always been very disgusted by this matter, and to be honest, she is not too serious about Li Sen.
In the end, it was Li Sen's strength that did not satisfy her. Although I bought a house, it is not a large flat or villa, and it is very common to work without a car.
Look at her not only as a formal preparation teacher, but also as a beautiful woman with a proper appearance and figure.
So in her heart, she should find a rich and handsome match.
Later, after Li Sen bought her a luxury bag, Pingping reluctantly agreed to see her parents.
That day, Pingping dressed up seriously and came to the door with the gifts that Li Sen bought.
Speaking of this meal, it was actually not very pleasant to eat, Pingping was full of superiority between the lines, but Li Sen's parents were not very happy.
It wasn't until Pingping got 10,000 red envelopes to meet her that she grinned.
Afterwards, Li Sen's parents advised their son to think twice, and said that Pingping this girl was also too proud and would definitely not be able to lower in the future.
But Li Sen is in love, and he is even more determined to marry Pingping.
After this meeting, Li Sen proposed marriage, but Pingping asked him to agree to three conditions.
The first is that the house must add her name, the second is that the engagement must buy her a car, and the third is that the bride price for her cannot be less than 200,000.
These three conditions in addition to buying a car is good to say, the other makes Li Sen very difficult.
Because the new house is the savings of parents for most of their lives, they must be asked about the name.
And the bride price of 200,000, he is not sure whether there is so much at home, after all, the first two years of parents have been losing money in stock speculation.
Seeing that he was about to be broken up if he did not agree, Li Sen gritted his teeth and agreed.
After finally going home to test the tone, the parents could only agree to the last two conditions, and it was not okay to add a name.
But Pingping didn't want to forgive her, and she didn't want to marry her unless she didn't add. She said that she worked well and was young, and some people would choose from good people in the future.
Li Sen thought about his previous efforts, and he couldn't bear to give up his previous achievements.
He gritted his teeth and grinded hard bubbles with his parents at home, coupled with swearing and gambling spells, finally made his parents relax.
After agreeing to this unconditionally, Li Sen's mother was stripped of her skin and her personality was not as cheerful as before.
After spending 150,000 yuan to buy a car for Pingping, the two were finally officially engaged.
The agreed 200,000 dowry also hit Pingping's account on time afterwards.
The cost of the banquet and the wedding is also handled by the man's family, and Pingping is responsible for the whole process.
Even what dishes were ordered at the banquet, Pingping personally picked them.
As a result, Pingping ordered a lot of expensive dishes, and the standard of this wedding banquet went up, and each table had to pay more than seven hundred budgets.
At this time, the mother-in-law could not sit still, and just wanted to persuade Pingping to say two words, but she was scared back by a white eye.
In the evening, Pingping said to Li Sen unhappily: "Your mother, your daughter-in-law is still buckled, today I ordered more dishes and you see her face is green." ”
Li Sen actually heard his mother complain about this, and to be honest, he also felt that it was a bit overspended, after all, the original standard of fifteen and one tables was still reasonable.
Just to coax the daughter-in-law, she can only play sloppy on both sides.
This extra money, Li Sen himself tried to make up for it, which allowed his parents to sleep at ease.
The wedding day soon arrived, and Li Sen also smiled closely at the wedding, thinking that he had finally hugged the beauty.
But no one thought that in the key part of the wedding, there was another problem.
It turned out that the emcee arranged the change of mouth fee on the stage, and the daughter-in-law Pingping actually asked her mother-in-law to give her 80,000 80,000 mouth change fee in front of many relatives and friends.
As soon as these words came out, even the emcee was a little confused. The mother-in-law was originally extremely dissatisfied with the daughter-in-law's demands, and now she openly asked for so much to change her mouth, which was simply a slap in the face.
She didn't say a word, just shook her head and walked backstage, and the wedding was forced to pause.
Everyone waited for Pingping to take a step back, but she stood on the stage like a gamble, and the atmosphere was extremely awkward in an instant.
Several of the seven aunts and eight aunts secretly found Li Sen's mother, presumably persuading.
In the end, after more than twenty minutes of cold play, the mother-in-law could only come out and transfer 80,000 to the daughter-in-law.
Sure enough, after arriving at the account, Pingping smiled again and opened her face, sweetly calling out to her mother.
The whole audience was finally relieved, but they didn't expect the mother-in-law to say as if jokingly: "Don't call me mom!" You're my mom!"
The whole audience burst out laughing in an instant, and Pingping could only laugh to ease the embarrassment, while the mother-in-law's face was clearly full of resentment.
At the end of the night, the mother-in-law cried in anger at home, scolding her son for finding a scourge to go home, and the bottom of the family was eroded.
Li Sen also had a somber face, and he only felt sorry for his parents in his heart.
From this day on, he no longer had a good look for his wife Pingping, and the whole person was always depressed.
And the mother did not go to her son's house once after marriage, and made it clear that she did not want to associate with her daughter-in-law.
After consulting with the lawyer on the issue of real estate, Li Sen had the idea of divorce.
Anyway, as soon as he went home and saw Pingping, he was full of anger, and such a day was also a torment.
In the end, their marriage lasted less than a year and then divorced.
And because the house was bought in full by the Li Sen family before marriage, it naturally belongs to Li Sen.
Later, Pingping took the initiative to return the 88,000-strong mouth change fee, but the bride price has been closed.
But the exhausted Li Sen didn't want to fight for anything, he just wanted to separate from Pingping as soon as possible and get rid of that painful day...
The Case of Leessen finally ended the farcical marriage, which tells us that marriage not only needs to respect each other, but also keep the following two principles in mind.
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One: Love is mutual giving, not unilateral taking.
Love is not a simple thing, but the fate of two people weaving each other.
But some people are accustomed to humility in love, and they don't know that the appearance of no self-confidence can only be exchanged for love and cannot be exchanged.
To know true love, it must not be a one-sided effort.
If you encounter love, it's just you who's struggling.
Then you must have met the wrong person and paid the wrong love.
The most important thing to do at this time is to take back your love and retain your dignity and hope.
Don't wait until the truth is revealed to be disheartened and suffer.
Sometimes when we blame others too much, should we also think about our own reasons?
Because the other party's brutality and willfulness are all created by themselves.
And men and women who sink in love, at least they must be happy with each other, do not force a relationship.
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Second: When choosing a marriage partner, we should pay attention to the inside rather than the appearance.
We always say that everyone has a heart for beauty.
It is precisely because of this human instinct that we always pay attention to the appearance of the opposite sex when we are in love.
The hero in the case is precisely because of superficial things such as appearance and work that he is desperate to marry his girlfriend.
But in the end, it was found that it is difficult for women who only love money to get along with.
In fact, this is also the true meaning of life, because even the best skin bags have times when they look at each other and hate each other.
Those vain substances may give you short-lived impulses, but they will not stand the test of life and reality.
Therefore, looking for a partner must be optimistic about the character, without this as a cornerstone, the marriage is also a void in the end.
The saddest thing about feelings is nothing more than finding that you love the wrong person and pay the wrong heart.
That emptiness and disappointment is enough to carve into your life.
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The choice of marriage is not only romantic, but also serious.
Not only do you need two people to love each other, but you also need to try to be right.
Such a thing as the best of both worlds is really difficult.
If it is difficult to choose, at least love each other is also a win.
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