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What is obsession? It is probably the greed that has experienced the good, but now that it is no longer possessed, it will arise.
Human nature has a weakness, that is, to agree to turn a blind eye to what is already available, and to spend time nostalgic for the past.
This may be the greed of human nature, what is not obtained is always the best, what is lost is the white moonlight, and what is obtained is the cinnabar mole.
It is often said that men can never forget their first love in their lifetime, because first love is the first throbbing and the purest feeling.
But in fact, the reason why men can't forget their first love is simply because of the four words "no longer have".
In "Happy Things in the Family", the eldest sister-in-law is a virtuous and virtuous woman, who has to take care of the family of 6 people all year round. Therefore, a flower was boiled in chai rice oil and salt into rotten tea residue.
She is no longer young and beautiful, and she has become sloppy all day long with housework.
Once regarded as a treasure by her husband, she may have become a "yellow-faced woman" who was disliked by her husband because she had been possessed.
Obviously, he was locked by greed, and the husband went out to look for wildflowers, but the husband blamed the sister-in-law for the old pearl yellow, sloppy and disgusting.
The sister-in-law ran away from home in a rage, and the plot ushered in a major reversal.
The husband married the third son into the house, and saw the former sloppy yellow-faced woman turned into a fashionable and beautiful woman, which made him regret it and blamed himself for the "stupid" behavior of buying the pearl and returning the pearl.
The husband's "awakening" is not necessarily because he really reflects, but because the word "greed" is used as a curse.
Because of the person who has been lost, her good will be magnified a thousand times, which makes people remember.
Although human nature has many good things, it still has its weaknesses, that is, "what is not obtained is always in turmoil."
The woman who can make a man remember for a lifetime, in addition to his mother, is the "woman" with whom he is beautiful, but cannot get it.
First, once the first love is possessed, it is another beautiful person to never forget
In "Love Deep rain and rain", why Pingping can become the white moonlight in Lu Zhenhua's life is because Pingping has long left him.
Affection is just a personage for himself, but as far as he ignores his nine wives, especially ignoring Fu Wenpei, who is full of his heart, you can see that Lu Zhenhua is obsessed with Pingping, but he is only grumpy about the loss, which makes him feel that Pingping is the best.
Because the objects they have already enjoyed are no longer precious, they will think of those who have lost, and spend their time to remember and enjoy the various happy endings that would be there if they were to come back.
Because of a class reunion, XiaoRan and her first love Yunyun were able to relive old dreams, and at first the two of them also had a very happy and beautiful time because of this rare reunion.
This is such a good time did not last long, Xiao Ran's frequent contact with his ex completely broke the fate of this reunion.
Xiao Ran felt that YunYun had changed, no longer the goddess-like existence of the original, he only felt that Yunyun was willful and gave him too many constraints.
Thus began the quarrel and the strife. Xiao Ran also began to miss the gentle and considerate of her ex, and secretly contacted her ex in private.
He will complain to his predecessor in various ways, complaining about the bad of yunyun.
One day, Yun Yun inadvertently discovered Xiao Ran's approach, angrily gave Xiao Ran a slap and turned away.
Men can't forget their first love, this is because the beauty no longer has it, once it is, the time will fall from the altar and become easily ignored and spurned.
The person who loses, along with his good, will be lost, but man always tries to get his good, and the gap between reality and desire will assign value to the lost person, who feels that the person is as beautiful as a heavenly immortal.
Second, obsessing over a lost woman, only because I believe too much in the "brain"
Men cling to lost women because they believe too much in their own desires, too much in the nostalgia in their heads.
Human nature is greedy, but people have subjective initiative, can keep themselves from being controlled by greed, and avoid making wrong choices.
In fact, in most cases, the people who can always accompany you are the best people and the ones that are most worthy of your cherishing.
Life is a flowing river Those who deserve your love and tenderness will be the limit of your life.
When a man is obscured by the weaknesses of human nature, he will feel that the person he has lost is precious, and tramples on the good that he already has in his hands.
Irrational brains survive much longer than rational brains and move faster, so our first reaction when we encounter something is left to the control of the brain.
Irrational brain reactions tend to cause us to miss out on precious human things.
So, when men start to miss another woman, all they have to do is learn to question their own brains and ask if that's really the case? Then tell yourself that "human nature has weaknesses, what I should cherish most is the current people and things, my brain is not me, I can control my brain..."
Everyone has the idea of clinging to the lost people and things, but we must tell ourselves that this is just a voice from the emotional brain, it may not be true, and the current people and things are real.
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I am Hexu, a warm and happy emotional field creator, writing emotional essays, I hope my words can help you, thank you for reading, deeply bless you!