Empathize
After Liu Gang's mother took her grandson to primary school, she returned to her own home and lived their old age with her wife, so that Liu Gang's mother did not expect that his wife suddenly had a cerebral infarction the next year, and the rescue was ineffective and passed away. It took a long time for Liu Gang's mother to come out of her sadness, but a person's life seemed a little lonely.
Liu Gang's parents are honest farmers, raised Liu Gang and his sister two children, the sister did not read much, early to work to earn money to subsidize the family, and Liu Gang has been smart and clever since childhood, learning has been very good, and do not let parents worry about learning things.
Liu Gang opened all the way, was admitted to a good university in the province, returned to work in the city after graduation, and met his current wife Li Li at work. When talking about marriage, Li Li's parents sympathized with Liu Gang's parents' difficulty, took the initiative to help a part of the down payment, plus Liu Gang's savings over the years, and made a down payment for a set of marriage rooms. Liu Gang's parents took the initiative to give Li Li's family a dowry of 60,000 yuan to show respect, although the wedding is not solemn, it is also warm and romantic.
Not long after the marriage, Li Li became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter smoothly, and Liu Gang and Li Li were very happy. Who helped the child became a problem, Liu Gang's mother was helping to bring her grandson, unable to walk away for a while, in desperation, Li Li's mother took the initiative to take care of the baby's heavy responsibility. Fortunately, the distance between the two families is not too far, only three hours by car, li li's mother can also go back to her home to accompany her wife on holidays, and insist until Li Li's daughter goes to kindergarten, and the mother returns to her home.
Liu Gang was distressed that his mother was lonely and wanted to take his mother to live with him, Li Li did not object or agree at that time, but took advantage of the small long holiday and the family of three returned to her mother's house, and left her daughter to Liu Gang on the grounds of hospitalization for physical examination.
Liu Gang was embarrassed to let his father-in-law cook, took the initiative to undertake the task of making three meals a day, but also took into account the taste of his father-in-law, but also to accompany his daughter, the home hygiene can not be too bad, these days have been tired.
Back at his own home, without waiting for Li Li to speak, Liu Gang offered to rent a small house near his home for his mother to live in, he went to see his mother after work, and he could accompany his mother to walk around the neighborhood on holidays, and the most fundamental thing was to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - the mother's strong personality, as well as the traditional idea of "my son's home is my home"!
In reality, many men will use "my mother is not easy" to kidnap their wives, forcibly take their parents into small families, often become the treasurer, and push the task of taking care of the elderly to the wife, over time, the contradictions intensify, and they cannot be received.
Filial piety to parents is the obligation of children, but there is no need to live together, just imagine: what kind of contradictions will arise between two generations with different living habits?
Men who condemn their wives for not being able to tolerate in-laws and mothers-in-law, please ask yourself, can you tolerate your father-in-law and mother-in-law? Think differently about everything and make a decision!
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