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In this life, if there is no end, no one can say who will be with them. To put it bluntly, women who remarry after the age of sixty cannot avoid 3 reasons.
01. Because of love;
Is it only young people who have love? No, in fact, love will appear at all ages of life, but youth is most likely to give love a romantic and beautiful color, so when most of us talk about love, it is always linked to the word young.
When people are old, they will also look forward to love, and they will also fall into some words that are intertwined with romance, and even when they reach a certain age, the hormones of love will become more intense and simple.
At this time, there is often no routine, like is like, like will never be hidden, but will be generously expressed, and ask for the consent of the other party.
Some time ago, I watched a lot of elderly blind date programs, and many elderly people over the age of 60 went on the program to find the other half, still paying attention to the so-called eye edge and paying attention to the feeling of meeting for the first time. If you look at the right eyes, when you meet, even if you are over 60 years old, you are still in a worried mood, and each of them packs up and dresses themselves up, hoping to show the best state.
There was a relative in my family who remarried at the age of sixty-two, and both of them were widowed, and after obtaining the consent of their children, the two of them got a license to marry and held a banquet. Moreover, they were not simply a coincidence, but after they met by chance, they came all the way from the state of love, at that time, they were sixty years old, often holding hands to go for a walk in the park, looking like they were in love.
Nowadays, two people have been married for many years, have long moved together to live together, the marriage status is still very good, the original two families of children were not so optimistic at first, the result is now two people have passed six or seven years, seeing their parents around someone to accompany, is also a good thing, the children on both sides also from the beginning of a slight opinion, into the current support, and began to accept another old man from the heart.
In fact, no matter what age you are, in the world of those who believe in love and are willing to give, love may never wither. On the contrary, if a person no longer believes in love and is skeptical of any opposite sex, then even at the best age, he may lose love.
02. Want to find an old companion;
Not everyone puts love first, including many young people now, thinking that love is love, marriage is marriage, and living a life is a life, which is 3 different things.
When you get old, you can't avoid it.
People's life, in fact, is a process of continuous loss, with the increase of age, everything you have when you are young will slowly get farther and farther away from yourself, the scenery you like can not be said to see, like to eat things can not be said to eat, once the people who have been with them day and night, but also went to another place, children have their own careers and families need to be busy, can not take care of so much.
Thus, loneliness came into being at this time. When people are old, what they fear most is loneliness.
Once, I heard a 63-year-old man say that she originally thought that she would not find a wife in this life, and it was good to live alone, anyway, she now has everything, and the children are filial piety, although the children are in the field, so it is enough. But then she started dating and wanted to find an old partner.
The reasons are simple, usually when you are healthy, it seems that everything can still be lively, go out to chat with friends, and feel that the day is not too bad. But one day, she just had a cold, lying alone at home for a day, and when she woke up at night, it was cold everywhere, and suddenly she felt a sadness, a sadness emanating from her heart.
She thought at that time, if there was someone around, even if he just greeted herself twice, it would be good to bring herself boiling water.
Therefore, after the illness was cured, she began to join the army of elderly blind dates, hoping to find a responsible other half, the two people do not say anything about love, at least have a conscience, can support each other, accompany and talk, and pass the rest of their lives, in fact, it is also good.
03. Seek the reliance of life;
Not all people can rely on them when they are old, and when children can't be relied on and have no money in their hands, no matter how old they are, they have to learn to find a way out and a backer for themselves.
Especially in the old age of people, this kind of expectation of dependence will become heavier and heavier.
A sister I know, her grandmother took the initiative to go on a blind date in her 60s, and the request was that the man needed a separate house to live in there, and she could live together. There is no way, the old man's husband died, the daughter married, only returned home once in three or five years, usually do not send money to the mother, the daughter's own life is difficult.
And the son of the old man, there is no way to provide her with a good environment for her old age, her life is a mess, her wife is scattered, there is no house and no money, but she needs subsidies for the elderly. In the end, the old man can be said to have nothing, so he thought of seeking a reliance.
Eventually, she also found the right partner. The requirement there is basically to find a nanny, cook for yourself and clean up the room, but also cook for the little grandson, pick up and drop off school, the old man is still willing, she is also very diligent, good health, work is also sharp, two people hit it off. Now also together for some years, a few years ago the two people still have their own thoughts, and now they have cultivated some feelings, it is said that last year the old man's own son bought a car, and her new wife also took the initiative to pay twenty thousand yuan.
Marriage is an eternal topic in life, no matter what age it is, the marriage in this world always has different appearances and encounters, and as an outsider, no matter what the identity, only respect can be.
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