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The 51-year-old Huang Dajie is still unmarried, which makes people who see her for the first time dare not believe it, because Huang Dajie's appearance conditions are very good, one meter and seven tall, the figure of the model, the fair skin, and when she was young, she was definitely a beautiful embryo.
How can it be so good to be single?
Sister Huang has been working in Changchun for 278 years, and she has worked everywhere over the years, done a lot of work, and done the most bathing work. The eldest sister said that although this work is cumbersome, she has patience, for example, some elderly people can't find clothes and have limited mobility, so she will take the initiative to help the elderly get dressed.
Sister Huang has a sister, and neither sister is married, and Hong Niang is surprised to ask why the sisters have not started a family.
Huang Dajie said that her father left early, the family was poor, and her mother alone shouldered the burden of the family and managed her and her sister very strictly. The mother is strong and conservative, demanding that she must follow the right path, cannot go out alone with boys, can only work at home, and do not think about the object of love.
Although the mother is strict, both sisters can understand the mother's good intentions, and the sisters are very filial, never going against the mother's wishes, and do not complain about her.
Later, Sister Huang came to Changchun to work, the sister stayed with her mother, the mother was getting older and healthier, and the sister was busy taking care of her mother, and as a result, she left herself behind.
When Sister Huang first came to Changchun, there were many men pursuing her and having gone on blind dates, but they didn't look at her. At that time, Huang Dajie was beautiful, and she always felt that her own conditions were good, and there were opportunities, and the result was to pick and choose to leave herself.
Age is a woman's hard wound, no matter how good your conditions are, you will no longer be popular when you are older.
Today's Huang Dajie has been working in the dry cleaning bath for six years, with a salary of two thousand, renting a house, going home every month to see her old mother and sister, and her life is also full.
Sister Huang said that now that she is older, she feels more and more that she must have someone around to take care of her. One year she was hospitalized for gallstone surgery, lying on the hospital bed, trying to drink water and no one poured it for you; there was another time when the lights at home were broken, she accidentally got electrified when she changed the lights, people were electrocuted on the ground, and there was a big bubble on her hands.
All the big things and small things have to be carried by one person, Huang Dajie said, too difficult!
When the pressure is high and the mood is not good, Huang Dajie uses smoking to relieve boredom, which is also her only hobby.
Now the eighty-year-old mother also urges her daughter to find a companion, and Huang Dajie also wants to take advantage of her youth to find a companion in her old age, and wants to find a filial piety, responsibility, and good temper.
The Red Lady Gang introduced 51-year-old Brother Liu, divorced, a taxi driver, with a monthly income of five thousand, a 50-square-meter house, living with his mother.
Brother Liu's blind date is full of sincerity, specially drove for more than an hour to Huang Dajie's residence, and also spent two hundred yuan to buy a bouquet of flowers as a blind date gift, the eldest brother said that the first meeting can not come empty-handed, send flowers to show respect, and there is a beautiful romantic meaning.
Brother Liu told Hong Niang that his conditions were not very good, but the society was too realistic, and he was very unconfident and nervous about this blind date.
Sister Huang wore a plain shawl, exquisite makeup, beautiful style, Big Brother Liu's eyes were almost straight, under the reminder of the red lady, he quickly gave the flowers to the eldest sister.
Unexpectedly, Sister Huang took the flowers and cried emotionally, which was the first time she had received flowers in her life.
Many men are accustomed to sending fruits on blind dates, and Brother Liu does not take the usual path, flowers with beautiful people, and also improves his impression score.
The two are not only the same age, but also fellow countrymen, and the sense of intimacy is multiplied. Sister Huang briefly introduced her situation, heard that the eldest sister is still unmarried, Brother Liu is very surprised, you have such good conditions, why have you not been married?
Huang Dajie explained the reason to him, Liu Dajie expressed understanding, Huang Dajie took the initiative to talk about his shortcomings, the nature is urgent, the eldest brother immediately said, I am just the opposite of you, you are anxious I am not in a hurry, the eldest sister said that she loves to smoke, the eldest brother said, everyone has a bit of a hobby.
Anyway, what the eldest sister says, it is not a matter here in the big brother, as long as you are in love, even the shortcomings are advantages.
Seeing That Sister Huang smiled satisfactorily, Brother Liu quickly promised that if we were to be together, you would decide at home, and the money I earned would be handed over to you, and the money that men earned would be spent for women.
In the face of the woman he likes, Brother Liu is eager to give his heart to the other party, and a confession makes Huang Dajie's heart blossom.
When Sister Huang learned that Brother Liu did not have pension insurance, she said with some concern that neither of us had pension insurance, so when we were older, there was no guarantee, and there was no bottom in my heart. If I had a child, I wouldn't be afraid of this, and if I had a man who was not good for me, I would have no place to hide.
Brother Liu patted his chest and promised that in the future, the appointment would be good to you, and the things you were worried about absolutely did not exist, but Sister Huang was not moved and implicitly refused.
Huang Dajie feels that Brother Liu is good at everything, and he feels that he is in place, and it is a pity that there is no pension insurance.
I thought that the two had a play, but who knew that it was planted on the lack of pension insurance. Sister Huang also felt pity, but her attitude clearly said that marriage is a lifelong thing, I am so old to find a partner, let alone make it up, and then find it will be responsible for yourself, but also responsible for others.
Huang Dajie's external conditions are good, she is not an unmarried, but she is still left behind, for two reasons, one is that the tutor is strict, and the mother is not allowed to fall in love; the other is to leave her mother to participate in the work, she feels that the conditions are good all the way to pick and choose, drag her age farther and older, and unconsciously become an older leftover woman.
When I entered my old age, I realized the desolation of having no companions and no children, I was sick, there was not even a person who poured water around me, I wanted to find someone to talk to, and there was only an empty house in front of me.
"Eat alone, sleep alone, one person is blind, not even a person who speaks from the heart" The older you get, the more afraid you are of loneliness, and you long for someone to accompany you, which is probably the mood portrayal of the single old man.
There is a saying that is very sharp, women are picky when they are young, and when they are older, they can only find a second marriage.
Although you can't treat marriage, you can't be too picky. Find an object, don't aspire to find the perfect person, it doesn't exist in reality. Looking for a partner, there is no best, only the most suitable, take advantage of the young, or find a person who is almost in tune with the film to marry it! Well, today is here, Jiajia hopes that each issue of the story can bring friends a little emotional thinking, like Jiajia please pay attention to me, to the article like collection recommended Oh, thank you we will see you in the next issue ~