Recently, a news report reported a real tragic story in the human world.
The brothers were born in the Republic of China period into a Kochi family.
His brother studied medicine, was persecuted, rehabilitated, and had a bumpy life.
At the same time, the elder brother also has no queen, and after his death, he often accompanies the brother's nurse to apply for inheritance of his brother's ten million inheritance, and when the relevant staff cleaned up the relics, 63 family letters were found, all of which were sent by the younger brother.
From this, the staff discovered the life story of the younger brother.
The older brother is called QiSheng and the younger brother is called Qiansheng.
The younger brother was born at the same time as his older brother, and after graduating from university in 1958, he was assigned to teach mathematics at the Beijing Railway Electrification School and was a senior lecturer. Later, he was implicated because of his family origin and social relations until his brother was rehabilitated.
In the letter, the younger brother constantly revealed that he was in his 40s, still alone, and lonely.
It was not until the age of 51 that the younger brother said in the letter that he had married a rural woman 20 years younger than him, and soon after, he was happy with Lin'er and named Xiaoming.
With a son, the younger brother's life seems to be better, but fate does not take care of this person who has suffered for the first half of his life.
However, a year later, his brother and wife were diagnosed with a serious illness and died a few years later.
Middle-aged wife, gain and loss, is a heavy blow to the younger brother, but the disaster is not alone, disasters ensued, the younger brother found that the child's ability to speak is not good, it seems that there is a mental disorder problem.
In the letter, he asked his brother to introduce the doctor of pediatric mental health, and three years after the diagnosis of his son's condition, he told his brother: "My child is an autistic patient. (Autistic people).
At this point, the younger brother began the second half of his miserable life, he himself was not in good health, and he had a child who could not take care of himself. In the letter, he and his brother kept revealing that he could barely live a normal life. At the same time, according to the reactions of colleagues around him, as a teacher, his brother is almost reclusive and does not have too much contact with others.
On September 9, 2011, his brother was found dead at home, and the autistic son Xiaoming, who was trapped in his home for many days, was found dancing with his hands to the staff, not even knowing what was happening.
When his brother died, this Xiaoming became an orphan.
The staff had to send Xiaoming to the nursing home, and when he first came to the nursing home, Xiaoming often stayed alone and "couldn't see anyone."
Now the staff of the nursing home say that Xiaoming will sit with others and sometimes "turn" in the yard.
As the news investigation continues to deepen, more lamentable details have been discovered.
According to the staff, when he first came to the nursing home, Xiaoming would also carry his own house number.
Ten years later, when the staff took a pen and paper again for Xiaoming to write and read, I did not expect Xiaoming to write his message again with a stroke.
Everyone was amazed, but also speculated that it may be that the younger brother was afraid of Xiaoming's loss, so he asked Xiaoming to "engrave the address in his heart." At the same time, they also found that Xiaoming could copy Chinese characters, and once they copied them, they would not finish.
"His father must have taken him to learn and practice since he was a child", his father should have had great hopes for him...
This lamentable, full of real emotions of ordinary people's stories, was discovered by the relevant staff in 2021 because of the sorting out of his brother's relics.
Several staff members related to the incident unanimously decided to plan a relics exhibition to let more people, especially the families of people with mental disabilities, see the importance of preparing for life.
They hope to encourage parents to help each other and actively build "social" connections.
The problems of marriage and childbearing, living alone in the elderly, etc. shown in these 63 letters seem to them to be a microcosm of the beginning of an era, and they hope that the curation can let more ordinary people see that the brother and brother represent "us ordinary people" and "we may be one of them in the future." ”
At the same time, they joined forces with the Foundation to raise money for Bob during the exhibition.
In January 2022, the exhibition of relics called "Letters" was exhibited at a café in Xinzhuang Town, Shanghai, embedded in a corner of the square and not easily discovered.
Letters showing the unfair lives of ordinary people are displayed one by one on the wall.
"Hope to reply, good luck," the younger brother writes at the end of each letter.
The autism mentioned in this story is a biologically based developmental disorder, including a complex set of neurodevelopmental disorders.
What are the causative factors of autism?
From the perspective of literature research, it mainly includes:
1 Genetic factors
Studies of twins and family members in people with autism have shown that some patients have a distinct genetic predisposition.
2 Environmental factors
1 Biological heterologous substances/heavy metals. Effects such as pesticides, pesticides, additives and preservatives
2 Pregnancy. Studies have found that uterine infections and complications during pregnancy, exposure to chemicals, environmental pollution, perinatal and postpartum health conditions will increase the risk of disease in young children.
The study found that from 2006 to 2010, the proportion of children with autism in the United States aged 3 to 17 years with diarrhea or colitis was 7 times that of normal people, 61% of children with autism were accompanied by at least one gastrointestinal symptom at the same time, and all children with gastrointestinal symptoms had more serious emotional problems.
4 Gut Microbes. The balance of gut microbes is essential for human health, and this balance can lead to a variety of diseases if broken.
It is estimated that more than 90% of children with autism have dietary problems. Some parents report that their children with autism eat only five or six foods and prefer foods rich in fat, starch, snacks, and processed foods to dislike most fruits, vegetables, and proteins.
6 Metabolism. The nutritional status of autistic people depends not only on the nutrients they take from food, but also on their own metabolism.
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