I'll tell you about my marriage. I married my best friend and it was the best decision of my life. We are friends who started at school. I always knew he loved me, but never expressed his feelings for fear of losing me.
We went on a road trip to Himachal Pradesh with our mutual friends. He proposed to me in the Himachal Mountains. I said give me some time to think about it. I don't feel the same way about him, and I certainly don't want to reject him. It did ruin our road trip, but the clean atmosphere and peace of mind allowed me to make the best decision.
It took me 5 days to think about it. And then I wonder why is that wrong? We've been best friends since we were 15 and now we're 25. During these 10 years, our relationship has experienced many ups and downs. However, we are still together. In addition to emotional support, we support each other to complete degrees, thesis, and projects.
But will they be as decent as he is? Will they accept me as I am now? Consider that many marriages in India have failed. I said yes. I didn't fall in love with him. I just think of him as my best friend. But I know he's the best person for me. We've been married for 3 years. We had a beautiful daughter who finished 1 year very quickly.
The best part is that he's still the same as before. In front of couples, we still see each other as friends. He spoiled me, he loved me so much and I fell in love with him when we started dating. Another best thing is that we already know our pros and cons, cons etc. So it doesn't create any problems because it creates problems if I marry someone else.
That's what marriage is all about. It is a union of two souls, in the same boat. It is for this reason that the institution of marriage was first created. But what is within us will stay with us for the rest of our lives. So, a person should never choose a life partner based solely on their outward beauty. Smart people make smart choices. Your friend is indeed smart enough. It should also be remembered that in some cases, quarrels from time to time are also necessary.