I am a full-time mother, the baby went to school I do not do housework, but invited an hourly worker aunt, my mother knows but scolded me, saying that I wasted money: you take a baby alone, the baby went to school, why can't you do housework?
Every time I can only say that I can't do it, in fact, I don't do any housework, but I don't like to do housework, especially washing dishes, it's too painful, so I persuaded my husband to hire an hourly aunt to come every morning to do three hours, 1500 a month.
My mother said that when she was young, she had to go out to work with her two babies, and she still had to do housework at home, and now I don't have to work, so I just take a baby, and I don't even do housework?
I want to say that the gap between the life concepts of the real two generations is too big, I don't like to do housework, I am not good at doing housework, doing housework will make me feel very painful, I only like to read books, write articles, this is my interest, everyone has their own things that they are good at and like, this society is highly divided, I do what I like, spend money to ask people who are good at housework to help me share, why not?
If I spend my time doing housework, it will make me feel that life is meaningless, this is not to say that doing housework is meaningless, people who really do well are also scarce talents, I have opened a housekeeping company, the salary of housework experts is very high, young people like to do housework can also be home bloggers, but for me, this is a very painful thing.
After all, I came out of the countryside, when I used to bring Dabao, my family invited an aunt for a few months, and I was also very shaken, thinking that the salary of 4,000 yuan a month was not cost-effective, and then I did not invite it, I did it myself.
But it turns out that I really can't do it well, the family is a mess, the baby is not taken care of, although after several years of training, now there have been a lot of progress, cooking also has three or four specialties, but I still hate to do these things, especially washing dishes.
Now that Erbao was born immediately, I was determined to hire a professional aunt, and I also wanted to stay in a clean, bright and orderly family environment, rather than being messy everywhere and in a very bad mood.
These two days the children started school, the part-time worker aunt also came to work, after she cleaned up, the home instantly became orderly, clean and tidy, bright and comfortable, the mood is better than a little...
I think this time I must insist on asking my aunt, I want to free myself from the tedious housework, instead of doing what I am not good at, it is better to spend time to improve myself and make myself capable of asking my aunt, are you right?
