After the death of the mother, the uncle who had always been lazy and lazy came to the door to ask for money from 2 nephews, they were overwhelmed, and the sister smiled and said to the uncle: "I can give you the 100,000 yuan you want." But the next operation she did, but scared her uncle to pull out his leg and run, what is going on?
Mingyu's mother is a "brother demon", although she has her own small family, the family is not very rich, but she always privately takes care of her brother, and this brother has been accustomed to it since he was a child, and he has not taken on the responsibility of a man after he became a family, and always relies on his sister.
Every time the sister said that she didn't care, as long as her brother pretended to be pitiful, she would be soft-hearted. And this sister is not a qualified mother, the preference for sons and daughters is serious, she leaves everything delicious to her son, the opportunity to go to school is first of all to consider them, from a young age to Mingyu is not waiting to see, always feel that she is going to marry sooner or later.
Mingyu originally had very good grades, she wanted to go to college, but her mother was afraid of spending money but let her study teacher training, Mingyu was very sad, and finally helplessly obeyed her mother's arrangement, during school, she worked part-time outside to help others hand out leaflets.
It was also this experience that I met a boss with a successful career and left her his business card so that Mingyu could go to him later.
Mingyu from an ordinary salesman, to the company's second-in-command, in addition to the effort is more important is to be a person, high emotional intelligence, talk and do things are always convincing.
Later, the mother died suddenly due to illness, and the uncle even thought of asking for money from their family, so he came to the door with his wife that day, saying that his sister had promised to support his son to go to school for at least 100,000 yuan.
In the face of this rogue uncle, the eldest son is a reader, he seems overwhelmed, impulsive brother and uncle quarrel, saying that he is just unreasonable, throwing him out.
The uncle did not want to stop there, he learned that Mingyu is now a rich man, so he found her unit again, Mingyu did not want his uncle to make trouble in the unit to embarrass her, so he advised him to go back to the house and wait, she immediately came back to help him solve.
The uncle said to Mingyu with a straight face, "I am the only seedling in your grandmother's family, you are so rich now, it is only natural to give me some flowers, if your mother is still alive, I don't need to look for you, she will take care of me." ”
After Mingyu sent him away, he also returned home.
When Mingyu learned that her uncle wanted 100,000 yuan, she smiled and said, "I will give you this money, you can rest assured." ”
The uncle immediately smiled triumphantly at the two nephews: "The richest lord of your family has spoken, and you have something to say." ”
But who wanted Mingyu to say next: "However, before giving the money, I still want to settle an account with you, and you will listen to me well." ”
Mingyu's mother had the habit of keeping accounts before she was born, and the money she posted for her brother over the years was clearly recorded in the book, and Mingyu read unhurriedly: In 1988, you moved your account, and my mother lent you 2,000 yuan. In 1999, you got married, and my mother gave you another 20,000 yuan........
The uncle listened weakly: You, when is this all about? ”
Don't worry, I haven't finished reading it yet! In 2004 you bought a house, you borrowed 50,000 yuan from my mother, in 2009 your son went to primary school, you said you were going to transfer him to a key school, and my mother borrowed you 30,000 yuan.......
The more my uncle listened, the more impatient he became, it was all nonsense, there was no shadow at all.
This is my mother's own notes, you can see for yourself, whether you have taken this money in your heart.
The second son on the side listened angrily, you are too inhuman, my mother is reluctant to go to the hospital to see herself in order to help you, she is afraid of spending money, but you have spent so much money on her.
Mingyu said unceremoniously: "If you want me to help you pay 100,000 yuan for tuition, then first return to us the 200,000 yuan you owe to my mother." ”
Your mother didn't say she wanted me to pay me back.
Then you admit to borrowing all this money, right?
My uncle said that my sister is gone, I don't recognize you what can you do with me? Ming Yu raised the mobile phone in Yang's hand and said, "I have recorded the borrowing of money you just admitted." ”
If you have to play tricks, then we will only see you in court, and we will definitely win the case.
The uncle was frightened and his legs were weak, and Mingyu said, "Today we didn't prepare your meal, so we won't leave you, you have to find out that my mother is my mother, we are us, and our family is not her mother's handout station." ”
My uncle quickly slipped away and never dared to come to the door again.
Mingyu easily drove the rogue uncle away without arguing, while her two brothers either endured or screamed impulsively, which could not solve any problem.
Mingyu first gained his uncle's trust, and then quietly showed his hole card, caught his uncle off guard. Therefore, being able to talk is the most intelligent means of solving problems, and it is inevitable that Mingyu can also be like a fish in the workplace.
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Women would rather eat less and drink less, save money and use themselves to help their brothers, which on the surface seems to be a good sister who loves her brother, but in fact it is the most irresponsible approach, anyone has to support themselves, always relying on others will only make them lose the fighting spirit of life, relying on others is not as good as relying on themselves.
When you have similar people around you, please don't be soft-hearted, you should be cruel when you should be cruel, and only by learning to let go will they really grow.
Treat such relatives, don't be embarrassed to say "no" for the sake of face, refusal is to help him grow up quickly.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish.
