At the age of 46, I live alone after my husband's death. Some time ago I met Mr. Xu, yesterday evening, Mr. Xu asked me to go to the beach for a swim, I did not want to go, but he drove

At the age of 46, I live alone after my husband's death. Some time ago I met Mr. Xu, yesterday evening, Mr. Xu asked me to go to the beach for a swim, I did not want to go, but he drove to pick me up, I was embarrassed to refuse him, but when I got to the beach, there was such a thing.

My name is Tang Mei, I am 46 years old and I am a primary school teacher. My husband, a contractor, died in an accident a few years ago. After my husband died, I couldn't walk out for a long time. Last year to go to the physical examination, found that all the indicators of my body are not qualified, my daughter knows, let me stop burying my head in work, appropriately to relax and exercise myself, the daughter said: Mom, Dad is gone, your health is no longer good, I have more to worry about!

Listening to my daughter's words, I suddenly realized that my daughter had no father anymore, and I would collapse my body again, what should my daughter do?

I think of my husband who used to love swimming. So I decided to learn to swim and then exercise by swimming.

I got a card in a tourist hall, and it was there that I got to know Mr. Xu.

Like my husband, Mr. Xu loves swimming very much, basically every time I go to the swimming pool, I can meet him, and later after getting acquainted, I learned that he opened a shop that sells fitness equipment, and he himself is particularly fond of swimming. After he saw that I had been teaching myself for a long time and could only swim backstroke simply, he offered to teach me. I am particularly grateful.

I learned dog climbing swimming and butterfly swimming from the diving area, and later entered the deep water area, every action, every progress, has the credit of Mr. Xu.

Then one day, Mr. Xu asked me to go swimming at the beach, and the time I picked was at night, I had some doubts about why I wanted to go at night, he said that the moonlight at night was very beautiful, and the sea was slightly cool, and the feeling was very wonderful.

Although he described it very well, I was still a little afraid, after all, it always felt dangerous to be in the sea at night, but before I could refuse him, he had already hung up the phone.

After dinner, he did drive to pick me up, so I had to pack up and follow out. We drove all the way to the beach, it was more than seven o'clock, and it was almost dark.

There is no one else on the beach except me and Mr. Xu, we sit on the beach to watch the moon, the cool breeze, the moonlight is like a mist woven from the hazy silver yarn, this scene, let me be a little intoxicated, Mr. Xu suddenly chanted a poem: quiet night shoal waves chasing sand, sparkling fish playing shrimp, I am like the moon lonely, lonely and cold to the end of the world.

After reading the poem, he got up and took a bottle of drink from the back of the car and handed it to me: Drink it, it was specially bought for you.

As soon as I saw it, this was exactly what I usually liked to drink, and I picked up the bottle and drank half a bottle. When I drink the drink, I wonder why he remembers the drink I like to drink, and how can this man be so considerate? I couldn't help but feel a little fond of him. I just don't know why he just read that poem to me.

I had just finished drinking and put down the bottle when I saw him jerk up and run toward the sea. I thought he was going to swim, so I called out to him on the shore: You haven't taken off your coat yet, it's dangerous to swim like this!

But as if he hadn't heard my call, he plunged into the sea. I suddenly felt bad, and it was reasonable to say that since I went out to swim, who would swim in a coat! I was a little anxious at first, and I quickly went into the water, but the water was pitch black, and I had hundreds of degrees of myopia, and I couldn't see anything when I went into the water without swimming goggles.

I wanted to rescue him, to pull him up, but I couldn't see his shadow, and in the panic, I had to shout: Save people, save people!!

But no matter how loud the sound was engulfed by the water, finally I had no choice but to go ashore, hurried to the place where we had just sat, took out my mobile phone from my bag, and was about to make a distress call, when a voice came: Come and help me, quick.

I looked up and saw that it was Mr. Xu, and he didn't seem to be alone, and there was a young woman supporting him. I hurried up to help bring the man back to shore, and Mr. Xu began to give the man artificial respiration and press the chest cavity. I hurried to make a 120 call.

At the hospital, the young woman woke up. After learning that we saved her, she looked indifferent, and then her mother rushed over, she looked about the same age as me, but she was much better maintained than me, her face was very smooth, the whole person looked dignified, and she was very grateful to me and Mr. Xu.

When the woman saw her mother, her face was instantly filled with tears. Just listen to the woman's mother say: It is the mother who is not right, you want to marry, the mother agrees to your marriage, you don't scare the mother anymore.

Later, we learned that the woman fell in love with a boy from a relatively poor family, the woman's mother did not agree, forced them to break up, the woman did something stupid without thinking, fortunately, the woman was rescued by us, and the mother and daughter also released their previous suspicions.

Later, in small talk, the woman's mother learned that Mr. Xu was single, so she suddenly pulled me to the hospital corridor and said: My daughter said that you two are just friends, so I also said directly, I think Mr. Xu is a good man, heroic and courageous! After my divorce, I have always wanted to find such a man to be a husband, I admire him very much, I want to try to have a relationship with him, I hope you can help me to tie a line, I myself am a little embarrassed to bring it up directly.

Hearing her words, I was suddenly overwhelmed, to say that my current relationship with Mr. Xu, said to be friends, may be further than friends, I also appreciate him, but also want to have a future with him, but the girl's mother so sincerely begged me, what should I do?

At the beginning, Mr. Xu was able to ask you to go to the moon to swim, and chanted a poem to you expressing his loneliness, from these analysis, Mr. Xu should be interested in you. It's just that because of the girl's affair, he didn't have a chance to confess, and I suggest that you give Mr. Xu another chance to let him express his heart for you, if he really likes you. You two happen to be together. Then you can tell the girl's mother the truth.

Perhaps for the girl's mother, the temporary good feelings for Mr. Xu are only out of gratitude, time will dilute everything, so you don't have to worry too much about this matter, love is selfish, first take care of yourself, and then take care of others!